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whats prison like.....
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cloudedsunshine
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Fri 06/13/08 09:55 AM
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double post
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whats prison like.....
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prison as in state pen or prison as in my personal hell?
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Out of Whack?
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It's construction lingo. Out of whack means "no longer load bearing." 
give him the genuis cap |
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Life is short
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I regret not seeing my brothers more and strive each day not to get to where I regret anything again
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Life is short
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I would pay a visit to my old boss..if I'm going...so is she.  
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Life is short
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Seize the day....
If you knew you were going to die tomorrow what would you do today? Furthermore...life is short (my brother's died at ages 9 and 11) I live each day without regrets. Do you have a regret? |
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I'm smiling
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guys maybe you should get a room jk jk
  
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Taking care of yourself
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mani and pei after I filed, then once a month to remind me I am pretty
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Personally - I have issues with gambling - can't seem to stop, but if you want to gamble go ahead
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mandatory DNA testing
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Okay the number 2 one presents issues because forcing someone in the life of a child who does not want to be there is just wrong. I did not say force the would be parent into the childs life. I said collect the child support they should be paying due to the fact that they are a parent. I am sorry if you find that offensive, but the child in question has teh RIGHT to expect you as their parent (any parent not you personally) to step forward and represent their legal interests towards the child support, even if all you do is place it in savings for them when they grow older. My wife ran away when the youngest was 2. doing the math for her 88 dollars a month over 15 years is almost 8,000 dollars per child if saved. Thats before interest and whatnot. Might not seem like much, but it is a good start on a college education if ntohing else. So yes, dna testing so that all indigent parents can be found and made to pay support is a very good reason. And remember just because you have to pay support, does nto garuntee you have contact witht he child. Excuse me. Most guys equate paying money to the right to pop in and out of the childs life when ever they want. No offense but HELL NO. Trust me, it would be best to be poor than the emotional damage that does trust me. most women think the same thing when it is them that pay the support. But guess what hun? Their opinion doesn't matter, it is what you and the courts decide. If you do not want them in the child's life, and have valid reasoning not to let them in, then you go to the court and the court orders no contact, while still paying support. However, if you do not have a valid reason for denying contact, then yes the other parent DOES have the right to pop in if they want to. Nothing you can do about it. SO by all means, that being the way it is, again, you should be willing to do what it takes to secure your child the money that they have a legal right to. And DNA testing is one way to doso. Okay mister. Listen here, how about the sporatic in and out that some men/women do. It is psychologically damaging to young kids and even older ones. Second of all do you have any idea how horrible and difficult it is to get a person declared unfit enough for rights to be yanked. Let me tell you a personally know of cases where "dad" comes in and out of the children's lives every 6-7 months but he is still entitled to every other weekend. "mom" has tried to get visitation yanked because the children cry over it. "stepdad" wants to adopt "dad" won't allow it. Oh and he has beat the kids, and neglected them. There was even a FOUNDED report of child abuse. So I am sorry your idea doesn't fly. First of all calm donw, and stop getting aggressive. I never said none of this happens. I know it happens. Secondly, what does naything you just said have to do with dna databasing, in order to find indigent parents and help make them pay support for their child? Finally\, keep in mind I am one of the close to one percent of men who HAS gotten parental rights removed fromt he mother due to health and safety concerns with the childre. I CAN garuntee you I have been through a harder tiome doing this than any mother you know trying to reove from the father. I also have to ask, in the case where the mother ahs tried to remove, has she done EVERYTHING she could to support the father seeing the kids? Or has she done everythign she could to cause problems with it, like so many women do? I am not syaing either side of it as I dont know. but none of this has anythign to do witht he topic at hand. Sorry memories of my "dead beat dad" piss me off. I am just saying that a lot of people think if they have to pay for the child the child becomes their property they can see when ever, or not see. It can really mess with a child (in therapy because of it) and my friend Jess is willing to drive the daughter to and from the "dad's" sets up time, calls him, all in the interest of what is best for the child. |
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a game about gas hahaha
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3.79
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the auction.....
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What age did you lose your
Edited by
cloudedsunshine
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Fri 06/13/08 08:20 AM
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2 - my dad would let me drink his apple juice (tasted horrible and caught on film)
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Under 30
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i will dance
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are you taking
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Celexa and seroquel......gotta keep me happy i dont like seroquel, i should take it, but i dont. I take a very small dose 25 mg.....i have a friend on 300mg |
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Educate A Redneck Game
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I like having it in my thingymajigger
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are you taking
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Celexa and seroquel......gotta keep me happy
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You can't please everyone
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Chuckles
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17
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Love George Carlin and agree with this
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