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mandatory DNA testing
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Okay the number 2 one presents issues because forcing someone in the life of a child who does not want to be there is just wrong. I did not say force the would be parent into the childs life. I said collect the child support they should be paying due to the fact that they are a parent. I am sorry if you find that offensive, but the child in question has teh RIGHT to expect you as their parent (any parent not you personally) to step forward and represent their legal interests towards the child support, even if all you do is place it in savings for them when they grow older. My wife ran away when the youngest was 2. doing the math for her 88 dollars a month over 15 years is almost 8,000 dollars per child if saved. Thats before interest and whatnot. Might not seem like much, but it is a good start on a college education if ntohing else. So yes, dna testing so that all indigent parents can be found and made to pay support is a very good reason. And remember just because you have to pay support, does nto garuntee you have contact witht he child. Excuse me. Most guys equate paying money to the right to pop in and out of the childs life when ever they want. No offense but HELL NO. Trust me, it would be best to be poor than the emotional damage that does trust me. most women think the same thing when it is them that pay the support. But guess what hun? Their opinion doesn't matter, it is what you and the courts decide. If you do not want them in the child's life, and have valid reasoning not to let them in, then you go to the court and the court orders no contact, while still paying support. However, if you do not have a valid reason for denying contact, then yes the other parent DOES have the right to pop in if they want to. Nothing you can do about it. SO by all means, that being the way it is, again, you should be willing to do what it takes to secure your child the money that they have a legal right to. And DNA testing is one way to doso. Okay mister. Listen here, how about the sporatic in and out that some men/women do. It is psychologically damaging to young kids and even older ones. Second of all do you have any idea how horrible and difficult it is to get a person declared unfit enough for rights to be yanked. Let me tell you a personally know of cases where "dad" comes in and out of the children's lives every 6-7 months but he is still entitled to every other weekend. "mom" has tried to get visitation yanked because the children cry over it. "stepdad" wants to adopt "dad" won't allow it. Oh and he has beat the kids, and neglected them. There was even a FOUNDED report of child abuse. So I am sorry your idea doesn't fly. |
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I want more than a one night stand. I don't know what else?
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The Ugly Face of Humanity
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It just seems stupid to try to get to know someone then have an issue with something they put out there in the very beginning. They were warned.
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what do you say now
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water off a ducks back
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What exactly
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guys want a woman who makes them feel like a man, someone who is attractive and someone who isnt psycho or annoying. guys want to have that soft and warm angel to look at him in that special way and to take care of him and allow herself to be taken care of by her. and if thats not happening, then he'll take sex as a consolation prize, because all vaginas feel pretty much the same regardless of the personality attatched to it. wow that seems truthful |
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wHO CARES what other people think!!! Do they pay your rent? If not, tell them to fukc off!!! 
It's just like after six or seven emails - not posts you would think they would have idk READ your profile, otherwise why did they even send you an email to begin with. |
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Okay so right in my profile says I am getting a divorce right. Should be final in like a couple of weeks, been separated for months (14), so why do people get upset with me because I am moving on? Or they email me, then a bit later they are all surprised I am married? Wanna swing with Montana and I? We're okay with your situation. 
TOTALLY KIDDING maybe  
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And I never saw them again!
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The tour guide for new york our travel agent set us up with in 10th grade man he was HOT
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Okay so right in my profile says I am getting a divorce right. Should be final in like a couple of weeks, been separated for months (14), so why do people get upset with me because I am moving on? Or they email me, then a bit later they are all surprised I am married?
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O M G
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I know about being skittish.
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why?
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because there are like several million men - thats a lot of unacceptable men.
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What exactly
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honest funny respectful responsible thinks Im the cats meow and he must have a really big pack of gum!!! I prefer Max 5!!! Its fabulous!!!
Not what you want from him what he wants from you. |
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The person below me
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What exactly
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are all the guys looking for in a girl? And girls what do you think guys want?
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My choice
Edited by
cloudedsunshine
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Wed 06/11/08 08:46 AM
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Should I do it?
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do it do it do it
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ladys
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ladys
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Topic:
mandatory DNA testing
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Okay the number 2 one presents issues because forcing someone in the life of a child who does not want to be there is just wrong. I did not say force the would be parent into the childs life. I said collect the child support they should be paying due to the fact that they are a parent. I am sorry if you find that offensive, but the child in question has teh RIGHT to expect you as their parent (any parent not you personally) to step forward and represent their legal interests towards the child support, even if all you do is place it in savings for them when they grow older. My wife ran away when the youngest was 2. doing the math for her 88 dollars a month over 15 years is almost 8,000 dollars per child if saved. Thats before interest and whatnot. Might not seem like much, but it is a good start on a college education if ntohing else. So yes, dna testing so that all indigent parents can be found and made to pay support is a very good reason. And remember just because you have to pay support, does nto garuntee you have contact witht he child. Excuse me. Most guys equate paying money to the right to pop in and out of the childs life when ever they want. No offense but HELL NO. Trust me, it would be best to be poor than the emotional damage that does trust me. |
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