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Wed 06/11/08 08:37 AM
hiya

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Wed 06/11/08 07:53 AM
this morning to my mother



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Wed 06/11/08 07:50 AM

Kinda goes along with the quote on my profile ..

TODAY is the TOMORROW you worried about YESTERDAY. Was it worth it?:wink:


maybe

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Wed 06/11/08 07:48 AM
Okay the number 2 one presents issues because forcing someone in the life of a child who does not want to be there is just wrong.

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Wed 06/11/08 07:29 AM


yeah dude i think i sees ya problem.

around these women you dont paticularly want, youre being yourself. im sure youre a fun, intelligent guy and all of your best qualities are shining thru because youre not focused on impressing any of these chicks. youre more concerned with amusing yourself and dont take anything these ladies say too super serious.

but when you get around a girl you want, you behavior probably changes on subtle levels because now you care. see?

another problem could be your definition of what a woman being attracted to you is.
some guys confuse a woman being comfortable around him as them being attracted enough to at some point have sex with him. chicks are super comfortable around gay dudes, even to the point of kissing them and grabbing their butts but they would never have sex with them.

just make sure youre not becoming a straight gay friend to these ladies and that they always know that youre a man who likes sex and has no issues with it (probably not best to say that aloud tho.)

take notice how you treat the chicks youre not attracted to and treat the ones you ARE attracted to the same way. the minute you give a hot chick speical treatment for no reason is when they lose attracted to you and lump you in the same catergory as every other lame dude.


am i good or what?
Actually, yeah dog you are, lol. I know that is a problem the acting different around girls I'm attracted too but I don't do anything to make ugly chicks like me they just think I'm great???? Also, most of my life I was nicer to hot girls but then I read some pick up artist material and I actually treat them WORSE NOW. But I do get dumped into the pile with all the lame chumps and I HATE ITexplode !!!


Okay first and foremost treat all women with respect, we like that second, have you thought about just being yourself until you find someone who you are attracted to and is attracted to you? I mean if you are always "on" around attractive women, what happens if you are with her say six months from now and she stops being attracted because you are no longer "on".

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Wed 06/11/08 07:05 AM

yeah dude i think i sees ya problem.

around these women you dont paticularly want, youre being yourself. im sure youre a fun, intelligent guy and all of your best qualities are shining thru because youre not focused on impressing any of these chicks. youre more concerned with amusing yourself and dont take anything these ladies say too super serious.

but when you get around a girl you want, you behavior probably changes on subtle levels because now you care. see?

another problem could be your definition of what a woman being attracted to you is.
some guys confuse a woman being comfortable around him as them being attracted enough to at some point have sex with him. chicks are super comfortable around gay dudes, even to the point of kissing them and grabbing their butts but they would never have sex with them.

just make sure youre not becoming a straight gay friend to these ladies and that they always know that youre a man who likes sex and has no issues with it (probably not best to say that aloud tho.)

take notice how you treat the chicks youre not attracted to and treat the ones you ARE attracted to the same way. the minute you give a hot chick speical treatment for no reason is when they lose attracted to you and lump you in the same catergory as every other lame dude.


am i good or what?


Yep, guys do change if they like you then if they are just in it to be platonic.

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Wed 06/11/08 07:03 AM

I always believed it was healthier for everyone else that I had my coffee every morning.:wink: bigsmile drinker


Agreed - except mine is a Double Chocolaty Chip Frapp.

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Wed 06/11/08 07:01 AM
Edited by cloudedsunshine on Wed 06/11/08 07:02 AM
First and foremost who wants to carry dollar coins second...I find the whole thing wrong. It is now in a place that will wear off easily

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Wed 06/11/08 06:59 AM
laugh laugh

At least it wasn't to the fridge.

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Wed 06/11/08 06:57 AM
Thank you all for your input. I don't know what I will do. Guess I will just have to see what happens.

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Tue 06/10/08 11:58 AM
I care, I may not show it all the time but I care.

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Tue 06/10/08 11:56 AM
Some people are suprficial sorry.

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Tue 06/10/08 11:48 AM
huh thats when you need to go back to bed

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Tue 06/10/08 11:45 AM

OP~

I am sorry about your DX, you do know that is completely treatable though, right? Curable?

Thanks for the kind words but I am glad my ex is no longer my problem. It is difficult to be friends with someone you neither trust nor respect. So it's good.


If OP means original poster than its a mental thing and I will struggle with it all of my life.

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Tue 06/10/08 11:44 AM
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Tue 06/10/08 11:43 AM
cheez it and pepsi

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Tue 06/10/08 11:41 AM
the kiss where you sneak up behind someone and place a smooch on the back of their neck

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Tue 06/10/08 11:29 AM
life is like high school only the stakes are higher

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Tue 06/10/08 11:25 AM
He just confuses me.

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Tue 06/10/08 09:50 AM
Sorry that happened lilith.

I was just wondering cuz ex is asking to be my friend and tells me he loves me and only wants whats best for me.

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