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In Limbo....
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Cougar doesn't bother me either.
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When do you give up?
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If you ask the question, what am I doing here? then its probably time to change directions.
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Marriage? Yikes. I think round two isn't anywhere in my imminent future but since we are using our virtual imaginations...I want the romance....
Candlelight, mood music, tears, bended knee, poetry.... |
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Lack of Responsibility!
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What doctor in his right mind says you are a good candidate for this procedure? I know---the same one probably prescribing her oxy
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Old Sayings
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Can't live with them and Can't live without them
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Old Sayings
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder
Bad weather gets better, a bad man never does |
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THE TRUTH!
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Or when dealing with a man.....
"Ask me no question and I will tell you no lies?" JK!!! 
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THE TRUTH!
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Honesty is the best policy even if its more painful.
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Fill in the blanks
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If I had a penny I'd name it lucky.
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No they are usually laughing. I always wondered what it meant?
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 when a relationship ends i let her go...life moves forward and a person must move with it...you can't hang onto something from the past or you will never grow as a person be seeing you
Going with that theory --then you should let your parents go too??? and your kids? and your childhood friends? |
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are you comfortable alone?
Edited by
downhomechik
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Sun 02/15/09 09:02 AM
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I am comfortable in my own shoes. It does take some deep soul searching to find that inner happiness. Society teaches us to search for it in relationships, in cars, houses, clothes...
P.S. I don't know that I would be okay with being the "last person on earth"--now that would be depressing .... LOL |
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Hello to all
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Welcome. Filter through forums & get to know others here.
I'm 5'5" --nice to meet cha!!!!
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I am friends with some of my exs, and i like it that way. Just because romantic love has dimished, doesnt mean u stop caring....if u do, was it really love in the first place? NOPE!! great view on it. That's a good point. My ex's are good people or I would not have loved them to begin with. If you can chip the romantic piece of the relationship away you can get to the core of the friendship which should have been the foundation of that to begin with. If you don't start out friends you sure won't end up that way.
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Commitment or Player
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Be honest... 
Do you have general commitment in relationships. 
OR Are you a Player looking for self satisfaction looking towards the next date, or temporary situation. 
If I had my way, I'd find someone who was interested in something long-term. Historically, it's been difficult for me to find anyone who: a.) isn't incredibly needy b.) can retain my interest for more than 90 days c.) doesn't see my "domestication" as her life's purpose d.) doesn't try to change everything about me as soon as she feels comfortable making the attempt e.) has the intellect, creativity, and communications skills to make the relationship interesting f.) doesn't see life as being based on anything more than alcohol and unthinking reproduction If I can ever find someone who fits, I'd be hoping for something long-term. Otherwise, no thanks. Hey I want to use this for my profile .....
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Are You....Single by Choice?
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I guess mine was one of mutual agreement, her and her boyfriend thought it would be best, LOL. LOL...  Sorry sweetie
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I wasn't even thinking about it since I was at a 40th dinner party until one of my co-workers said, "Are you doing okay considering you are the only single person here?"
Then I looked around the room - 14 couples & me.... I shrugged my shoulders and let it go. That thought nagged at me through the night but it wasn't the all to end all. When I saw a couple disagreeing I thought.... "well at least I don't have to deal with that anymore...smile" |
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I'm friends with both my ex husband & ex boyfriend and people look at me like I have 3 heads when I say I went to dinner w/ my ex husband! It took work to establish new dynamics between us, I won't say it didn't but I think its in itself a great reward if you can get there.
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How many of you have gone to be friends with someone you've had a relationship with when it ends?
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This is my view on the topic. The basis of the FWB issue is seperated into two sides. One is willing to and doesn't mind a 'call of duty' here and there while the other is still in hopes of 'There still may be a chance of a relationship out of this should I be available at the right time and place'. That's exactly how that works! |
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