Be honest...

Do you have general commitment in relationships.

OR

Are you a Player looking for self satisfaction looking towards the next date, or temporary situation.

players have feelings as well...I mean it is not all about a player..sometimes that is all they can give and are just as lonely as the next...

Players have feelings too....
PHD's - Player Hater Degree..

If I had my way, I'd find someone who was interested in something long-term.

Historically, it's been difficult for me to find anyone who:

a.) isn't incredibly needy

b.) can retain my interest for more than 90 days

c.) doesn't see my "domestication" as her life's purpose

d.) doesn't try to change everything about me as soon as she feels comfortable making the attempt

e.) has the intellect, creativity, and communications skills to make the relationship interesting

f.) doesn't see life as being based on anything more than alcohol and unthinking reproduction

If I can ever find someone who fits, I'd be hoping for something long-term. Otherwise, no thanks.

I am serious..you never know what drives a person to do what they do..but none the less feelings get hurt but they are there as well...

all great reasons lex most, if not all of those traits are much easier to find in an older woman.

I try not to judge others, even players. But, they do hurt a lot of people with their playing.

Lex is right and that is why I am single by choice.


....well, change the "she" to a "he"...lol

my son says i'm a player...but i'm not...i'm looking for my "mr right"...who probably only exists in my head...and everytime i meet someone new i say a little prayer to let this pls be him...

I find that a lot of people describe themselves as a player and appear to be proud of it.

I have a general sense of commitment myself BUT my loyalties are based on how I am treated and if I am treated bad All Bets Are Off!


My fave is women who tell me they are dating me AND others at the same time! Needless to say I don't play like that either!


Now oddly if I do manage to get rich before hand my money will affect my thinking and there will be no loyalty in dating UNLESS she is at least my financial equal and she had to make her own money! Even them money will play on the back of my mind BECAUSE I am sick and tired of my worth as a man and a person being based on my wallet!


HARUMPF!

commitment minded... yet it seems you may be called a player when things don't work out? HMMMMM..

Hey I want to use this for my profile .....

The initial stages of a dating relationship can be tricky. Some people consider it normal and, in fact, smart to date multiple people and not get tied down to any one person until you really get to know them. Others think you shouldn't be seeing anyone else at all if you even ask someone on a date. (By seeing someone, I mean the first initial dates)

No problem!

If someone wants sex with you, then they should commit to you, because if your'e good enough to do the most intimate thing in the world with, then your good enough to have respect and become someone's partner, its because of 'Players' selfishness that there are so many broken homes, and children not knowing where their parent/parents are, because a happy healthy individual who is of sound mind, will want to commit and get married and start a family, with another level headed individual, so that they can set an example for the world, instead of fornicating round the planet spreading diseases, bringing unwanted children into the world and getting a name for themself. Anyone who enjoys having no strings casual fun is a selfish good for nothing S. L. A. G to but it blatently and deserve nothing more than to be removed of their genitalia for the sake of mankind! Anyone who begs to differ, your obviously one of them. Sex comes with love, learn it, love it, practise it or keep ur bits to yourself.