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Mon 02/25/13 10:37 AM
Edited by DaySinner on Mon 02/25/13 10:40 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VdQY7BusJNU
Cyndi Lauper - Time after Time
great lyrics tears:heart: :heart: tears

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Mon 02/25/13 10:25 AM
Take your pick...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SM3HO6cLF44
Grace Jones Demolition Man
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m6d1ipJcIs4
The Police - Demolition Man

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Mon 02/25/13 09:46 AM
I really like this newer one, which helps me cope with stress...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=psuRGfAaju4
Owl City - Fireflies Lyrics

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Sun 02/24/13 11:39 PM
Edited by DaySinner on Sun 02/24/13 11:42 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZfNR98ajB1U
Scorpions - No one like you

SCORPIONS!!!!!!!!! smokin

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=93nLIt8sXJs
Scorpions - Cause I love you

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Sun 02/24/13 10:37 PM
Edited by DaySinner on Sun 02/24/13 10:39 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VxyyixH5pBo
Christina Aguilera & Gaspard Ulliel - Sex (I'm A) [Berlin]
This song was originally by Berlin but I think this video and sound are
better than the original...HOT!:heart: pitchfork pitchfork :heart:

lryics: http://www.lyrics007.com/Berlin%20Lyrics/Sex%20(I'm%20A...)%20Lyrics.html
glasses smokin

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Sun 02/24/13 10:19 PM
Edited by DaySinner on Sun 02/24/13 10:19 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SN1gi8oq74g
Olivia Newton John - Hopelessly Devoted To You (Grease)

My head is saying "fool, forget him"
My heart is saying "don't let go"
love love

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Sun 02/24/13 10:14 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m4yqhCypYfE
Maybe Baby - Buddy Holly

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Sun 02/24/13 09:55 PM
Edited by DaySinner on Sun 02/24/13 10:00 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p9PAuWV-Vn0
Roxy Music - More Than This
Like a dream in the night
Who can say where we´re going
No care in the world
Maybe I´m learning

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Mon 02/18/13 08:15 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2lLmYLw0WRI
Journey - Open Arms

http://www.lyricsfreak.com/j/journey/open+arms_20075675.html
Lyrics

Hoping you'll see what your love means to me...

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Mon 02/18/13 02:59 PM

Nothing Compares To You - Sinead O'Conner

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dTOpQS982aM

Since you been gone i can do whatever i want
I can see whom ever i choose brokenheart


That song is sooooooo intense!

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Mon 02/18/13 02:50 PM
Edited by DaySinner on Mon 02/18/13 02:55 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R_rhnHpRSXQ
New Order - True Faith
Lyrics
http://www.lyricsfreak.com/n/new+order/true+faith_20099925.html

That's the price that we all pay
Our valued destiny comes to nothing
I can't tell you where we're going
I guess there was just no way of knowing

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZaPTELylZ1s
The Motels - Only The Lonely
http://www.metrolyrics.com/only-the-lonely-lyrics-the-motels.html
It's like I told you...

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Mon 02/18/13 01:28 PM
Edited by DaySinner on Mon 02/18/13 01:31 PM
I think this can be a problem in a relationship. For example, I don't like S&M. If my lady craves it, I would hesitate going further with her. Oh sure, I could learn about S&M and give it a shot. But if S&M is what she craves, then wouldn't be better for her to move on and find someone that can put some enthusiasm into it! pitchfork It goes both ways, if my focus is on better, longer orgasms, and she's only interested in fantasy, then I'm going to feel frustrated too.

I can see it becoming a serious problem. Knowing that I am satisfying my partner is important. After all, if I can't satisfy her, then someone else probably will someday!

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Mon 02/18/13 12:21 PM
Edited by DaySinner on Mon 02/18/13 12:22 PM
so, if he's so selfish in wanting only to gratify his own feelings at the expense of mine... then that shows me he doesn't love me, and he has no compassion or empathy for me either... he is heartless... and cruel.. so the other woman is more than welcome to take him off my hands until the next one takes him off hers...


I agree 100% with this. :thumbsup:

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Mon 02/18/13 11:57 AM
Edited by DaySinner on Mon 02/18/13 11:58 AM
So, do we remain loyal to only one special relationship we’ve created and invested time in, thereby rejecting all others who we also like and connect with to a lesser degree?

Or should we not expect, or ask for any type of commitment that could possibly limit our ability to search for and become more seriously involved with someone else who is closer and more accessible?
I don't think there is a right answer here. Limiting my relationships would be a personal choice. I don't think my love would appreciate it if I limited my associates on her account. What would that say about me? That I need to stop socializing because I'm afraid I might find someone better? If I start rejecting others, it would simply be because she is giving me what I need and I don't need any more. If she does not feel the same way about me, then I need to deal with that on my own.

And what are the consequences if your love interest crosses the lines?
For me, crossing the line means lying. The consequences are that I feel hurt. How can I build a serious relationship with someone that is afraid to be honest with me? The consequences are that I then start to lose interest in being serious. Beyond that, I don't think I have any "lines." I just follow my heart and do my best to behave rationally with the feelings that come my way.

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Mon 02/18/13 12:36 AM
Edited by DaySinner on Mon 02/18/13 12:54 AM
Yes, I care. Looks and great sex are only a starting point.

I can tell the difference. The relationship feels limited. As if we don't really belong together.


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Sun 02/17/13 11:47 PM
Edited by DaySinner on Mon 02/18/13 12:00 AM

People lie because they are just too stupid to tell the truth.


I'm with you on this navygirl. Lying is the easy way out. Deceiving people without lying takes more brain power! bigsmile

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Sun 02/17/13 10:44 PM
Edited by DaySinner on Sun 02/17/13 10:45 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=44A9iDQNrss
Eagles - Peaceful Easy Feeling
title says it all

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=44A9iDQNrss
Eagles - Take It Easy
title says it all

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rfUYuIVbFg0
Journey - Don't Stop Believing
Just a small town girl, livin' in a lonely world.
She took the midnight train goin' anywhere

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DgNqQ6rFGQo
Pat Benatar - Shadows Of The Night
Surrender yourself to the night!
Love that feeling. Devil may care what the future holds.

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Sun 02/17/13 10:11 PM
I think lying turns me off most, even insignificant lies.
Especially if a woman overreacts defending herself if I bring it up.
Its a sign that communication is going to be a problem.

of course all the others...
bad hygiene
extreme weight
etc.. etc..

I like hair on a woman. I won't say where :banana:

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Sun 02/17/13 06:05 PM
Edited by DaySinner on Sun 02/17/13 06:15 PM
You’re living with your significant other, either as lovers or as spouses, while trusting that you’re both being monogamous, one of you cheats. The relationship is okay up to this point, and the non-adulterer has little reason to suspect there is a problem in the relationship that might tempt the other to stray, so it’s unexpected and causes a serious wound in the heart of the faithful partner. Now, what do you do as a direct result of this breach in your love?
I would feel foolish for trusting. I think the relationship is doomed at that point. Maybe it would continue as a different kind of relationship.

If you decide to remain together, do you try to regain the trust you had before the incident, and become closer to each other, never to cheat again? Or might you stay together not so much for love at this point, but for financial/economic reasons, because in today’s economy it’s easier to live well with two incomes instead of just one, and you can even separate in the residence by having your own rooms, perhaps even having an open agreement now, where either partner is free to meet someone else and move on?
I can imagine people being happy with this arrangement. I have a hard time picturing it for myself.

If not, and you’re lovers who are renting with the lease signed by both, who would move out if a complete break down occurs? And likewise, if you’re married “without children” to consider, and you have a mortgage, which spouse would stay; the one who could afford to pay the monthly notes on the residence, even if they are the adulterer?
Difficult to answer. Whatever is legal/decided by a judge is best, with effort put toward simplicity.

Would your decision about who leaves even be based on the financial aspects of your relationship, or would the offender automatically have to move out as punishment for their error in judgment?
I don't believe in punishing infidelity. It would not help me deal with what happened. It is the fact that it happened that is painful, not so much who is at fault.

Or, in this day and age when our sexual behavior is touted as being open and easily accessible, now that it’s the acceptable norm to just “love the one we’re with”, is it wiser to expect that cheating might occur in any relationship, so we go into one already prepared to overlook this activity?
I don't believe in forcing people to behave. I want my trust to mean something. I want our love to be the reason for fidelity, not the fear of doing wrong.

And what do you consider cheating to be? Can flirting be a form of cheating? And if so, should people in committed relationships be free to flirt with others?
I don't think flirting is cheating, although it can hurt my feelings. What is or isn't ok depends on what is most important to the couple.
There is a danger in thinking too much about what is or isn't ok in detail. It can kill the romance.

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Sun 02/17/13 04:14 PM
Edited by DaySinner on Sun 02/17/13 04:15 PM

Why is it hard for men to explain or express their feelings?


Seriously though, I think men AND woman are careful about how much feeling to express. If a guy isn't telling you more it probably means he's worried about hurting the relationship in some way.

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