Ya, what if the man was out last night makin babies with someone else. both those liars deserve each other. Or what if he was with his 'other family'. Some men have that double life thing. All very exciting for the movies, but not for a relationship.

not in my neighborhood of western culture.....

What do u do when you have an ex boyfriend who is with somebody else and he is keeping you around and don't want u to be happy mean while he is with somebody else and then try's to tell you that if u find someone else he's going to beat them up and answer as to what I should do here????????????????? Please help me here what should I do

What should I do

I notice alot of white men don't message me at all, I send them a wink, or a hug or a kiss and I don't get a respond back. At lease send me back a wink or a hug letting me know that u got the message or u are interested or something. I bet if I was white a white woman they would send me a wink or message even if I sent them one or not. I makes me wish that I was white and not black cause nobody wants a black girl not even her own race wants her cause I don't get messages from black men either nobody. In fact my inbox is so dry I don't know what to do with that, I am here to find love and its not easy for me. Is it cause I am fat and ugly please be honest and trueful with me, and I won't get mad or anything?. I just want to know why nobody is messaging me especially white men. I need love too I want to be somebody's wife and girlfriend too. I have feelings too and I can tell that nobody wants to date and marry a black woman :(.

This is the last time I'm posting on this thread because it's becoming tedious and I'm feeling the way I did trying to teach kindergarten (no one is listening because they're too distracted by the pretty colors and interesting sounds outdoors).

Humans are divided into races. I don't see anything wrong that with that. It's not bad to say I belong to the black race of people. I'm not ashamed of being black. There is nothing wrong with a white person saying they belong to the white race of people, etc. etc. etc.

There is nothing wrong with someone saying they only date a person of a certain race, whether it's their race or another one. We all have preferences, and there's nothing wrong with that. I don't care how idealistic you are, no one is going to be attracted to everyone just because they belong to the "human race." That is a fact, if it was untrue you'd see more evidence of it in our society.

Most people date their own race, for whatever reason. Again, nothing wrong with that. The only problem I have is when people try to stop someone from interracial dating because they don't approve of it. Who an adult dates is no one's business but theirs and the other person. I think people should mind their own business, but guess what? Most people don't. And most people are concerned about what their fiends and family think, because they value and want to maintain a relationship with them, so they do what it takes to keep the peace.

Unless you're willing to live in complete isolation with your significant other, you're going to have to deal with the opinions of others. Some people can handle that, some people can't. Again, nothing wrong with that and not my business. It just annoys me when people go on and on about how "race shouldn't matter, and we're all the same, blah blah" maybe it shouldn't matter, but it does. It always has (read your history books) and unless something major happens in the world, it always will.

As for everyone having the same looks or whatever, people of African descent usually have broader noses, thicker lips, larger posteriors, differently textured hair, and larger frames, in comparison to people of other eccentricities. When you have children from 2 or more races, these traits tend to change, but on the whole, the former is true. If you don't accept this, trust me, science is your friend.

As I said before, in a perfect society, we'd all base things on personality and whether or not a person is kindhearted, and does charity work, etc, but we don't have a perfect society. Either deal with that or go hide under a rock, the world isn't going to change simply because you want it to.

/drops mic and leaves