She is hard and difficult

.. dude that sounds like every woman on the planet.. could you be a little more. forthcoming with the details..lol..omg.jk..

Lol, mehn! It a hard game out here. All she or they are after is the big wallet and a nice ride. Then i begin to wonder if truly love exist. To men, i think it dose, but to women love is nothing.

If you HAVE to buy her things to make her like you, she's not worth your time. Now you should be a gentleman in buying your woman gifts, especially if she's down and out, there's a difference between buying her gifts out of love and buying her love.

So please think before you start taking out your wallet. A true woman will love you for you alone whether you have means to buy her things or not!

(Just saying don't go down the keeping her with money route. Being yourself is the key. If she doesn't like who you are, move on.)

I'll concede that some women are after nothing but great sex and money, no doubt about it, but the same can be said of some men, not all. There are some women, although having had bad love experiences themselves, have chosen to still open their hearts to true love, not based on materialistic values, but with an honest, caring, truly loving character, one based in integrity, believing they can have a relationship which is founded on who a person is rather than on the things either person possesses. It's a risk trying to find such individuals, because you also come across the materialistic ones; however, if you have any insight at all, those should become pretty evident within a very short time. Keep risking and you stand a chance of finding....if you stop risking you will never find the one you for whom you search. Best wishes that you will keep risking and, in the end, find that one.

Good, now i found life to have two side of a coin. My question is, why is it that the lady yhu love she doesn't love yhu too, but the lady yhu doesn't love, she will love yhu.

She is hard and difficult

Lol......... Keep risking, That means men gat to put on armour and spear in order to come alive in the process of risking our life to get the right lady. That means finding the right lady, is just like soldiers risking their life in fighting their enemies in the battle field. Then for me to keep risking, don't yhu think is better i let the money speak for me?

I'll concede that some women are after nothing but great sex and money, no doubt about it, but the same can be said of some men, not all. There are some women, although having had bad love experiences themselves, have chosen to still open their hearts to true love, not based on materialistic values, but with an honest, caring, truly loving character, one based in integrity, believing they can have a relationship which is founded on who a person is rather than on the things either person possesses. It's a risk trying to find such individuals, because you also come across the materialistic ones; however, if you have any insight at all, those should become pretty evident within a very short time. Keep risking and you stand a chance of finding....if you stop risking you will never find the one you for whom you search. Best wishes that you will keep risking and, in the end, find that one.

If you are trying to make someone fall in love with you, then she is not the one for you. If you want a certain kind of lady to fall in love with you, then become that person. Don't look for someone to complete you or to fill in a gap. Love yourself and who you are before trying to find someone to love you. Think of things you can do (groups that you can get involved in) to be with the kind of women you are attracted to. If a woman really wants you for you, then a fat wallet or fast car should not be the attraction point. Let the woman know that you are interested in her. Believe it or not, but many women are not mind readers and most (not all) are waiting for the man to make the first move.