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Solowise_4all Joined Sat 03/01/14 Posts: 1	Sat 03/01/14 12:04 PM
Guys n girls who cheat most?

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 03/01/14 12:10 PM
lol subjective , but I think western culture trained up women to be more devoted to a relationship and men more devoted to self fulfillment,,,, so, in western culture, ID think men are the ones who stray the most,, though things are quickly changing the more 'equal' men and women become,,,

isaac_dede Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 10632	Sat 03/01/14 12:13 PM
I'd say it's about equal...but I do think men get caught/called out for it more.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 03/01/14 01:06 PM
.. I'm no expert on cheating!!!. . but buy some of the mail I have received..hmm.. I'm definitely going to say women..lol

VictoriousOne Joined Mon 07/08/13 Posts: 118	Sat 03/01/14 02:56 PM
Men and women probably cheat about the same. I think men confess to cheating more often because they usually get busted more often.

DARVINCE Joined Sun 10/14/12 Posts: 17	Sat 03/01/14 04:32 PM
If Cheating equals Lying...Then I'm with Chris Rock on this one... Men Tell more Lies Women tell the Biggest Lies. Men will lie about little things where they were about last night, women will lie about who the father is.

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Sat 03/01/14 07:55 PM
If Cheating equals Lying...Then I'm with Chris Rock on this one... Men Tell more Lies Women tell the Biggest Lies. Men will lie about little things where they were about last night, women will lie about who the father is. Lol... Good one! :)

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48938	Sat 03/01/14 08:21 PM
If Cheating equals Lying...Then I'm with Chris Rock on this one... Men Tell more Lies Women tell the Biggest Lies. Men will lie about little things where they were about last night, women will lie about who the father is. It's funny because it's true.

Fracus16 Joined Tue 12/31/13 Posts: 104	Sat 03/01/14 08:39 PM
Dang, I expected so much more from msharmony. Darvince said it all and put that baby to sleep!!! Night, night!!! Cat, u have some insight!!!! Next topic please

indignus Joined Sat 07/14/12 Posts: 327	Sat 03/01/14 11:28 PM Edited by indignus on Sat 03/01/14 11:29 PM
I've never been in a relationship that had cheating involved so I'm only going off my observations. But it seems pretty equal too me.

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4928	Sun 03/02/14 02:22 AM
Guys n girls who cheat most? Some tit-for-tat goes on so it is difficult sometimes to know who cheat the most and started off the cheating, man or woman. Especially when it accidentally happens to the man through some circumstance beyond his control and the woman then decides to cheat to get her own back on him, taking all this in to account it is the women who cheat most in my opinion.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sun 03/02/14 02:29 AM
how does cheating 'accidentally' happen?

aquohxiiMhai Joined Sat 03/01/14 Posts: 92	Sun 03/02/14 03:25 AM
I was cheated twice and I hate people who makes it a habit..

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4928	Sun 03/02/14 06:53 AM Edited by Duttoneer on Sun 03/02/14 07:10 AM
how does cheating 'accidentally' happen? When it's unintentional, when the guy is in the wrong place at the wrong time with a hot lady that think's he is hot, now you must agree that is just a train wreck waiting to happen, an accidental cheat?

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4928	Sun 03/02/14 07:34 AM
how does cheating 'accidentally' happen? When it's unintentional, when the guy is in the wrong place at the wrong time with a hot lady that think's he is hot, now you must agree that is just a train wreck waiting to happen, an accidental cheat? I cant tell if he's joking or serious.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 03/02/14 07:39 AM
If Cheating equals Lying...Then I'm with Chris Rock on this one... Men Tell more Lies Women tell the Biggest Lies. Men will lie about little things where they were about last night, women will lie about who the father is. not in my neighborhood of western culture.....

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 03/02/14 07:41 AM
how does cheating 'accidentally' happen? he's dreaming

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4928	Sun 03/02/14 08:24 AM
Some tit-for-tat goes on so it is difficult sometimes to know who cheat the most and started off the cheating, man or woman. Especially when it accidentally happens to the man through some circumstance beyond his control and the woman then decides to cheat to get her own back on him, taking all this in to account it is the women who cheat most in my opinion. So if you and I were married and I came home and said I cheated on you, but he was hot....that would be ok with you? Depends? How much grovelling are you prepared to do for forgiveness?

DARVINCE Joined Sun 10/14/12 Posts: 17	Sun 03/02/14 12:10 PM
not in my neighborhood of western culture..... Can't argue with that 1 Hunny...

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4928	Sun 03/02/14 12:31 PM
Some tit-for-tat goes on so it is difficult sometimes to know who cheat the most and started off the cheating, man or woman. Especially when it accidentally happens to the man through some circumstance beyond his control and the woman then decides to cheat to get her own back on him, taking all this in to account it is the women who cheat most in my opinion. So if you and I were married and I came home and said I cheated on you, but he was hot....that would be ok with you? Depends? How much grovelling are you prepared to do for forgiveness? why would I do that? It was beyond my control. I told you he was hot. Well, I will not go out cheating in retaliation like a woman would do because you have cheated and no grovelling. Just goes to show women cheat more.