all you guys and gals thanks for giving me your knowledge but I think this thread is starting to make me seem desperate.

I encourage you to continue the conversation, but I must excuse myself.

I am pro women by the way and I will always understand a womens point of view but never a mans....but my god how I love you men.

A husband... The men I have met pose that as a prospect to lure me, and I am batting a zero. a man true honest and sexy that is all i want.

And when a woman is all that...and it is still not enough? I suppose the problem is not with the woman is it?

i always said i would not ever become jaded or cynical but in my experience...Men say that they want a good girl but they dream and fantasize and long for girls who are anything but good.
I sound horrid I know, but thanks for tolerating me.

I keep waiting for that guy. and i agree.

I have waited along time now and I dont know if that guy exists.

Perhaps my thread is going to be moved to the dating area or the likes but I do appreciate your answer. I just wanna know why?

Ok mister flirty *wink* but I would appreciate a serious answer.

In general, do you think that a man wants a barefoot and pregnant gal...?

currently i am living in deep appalachia, i am out of my element that i was born in NY.

I have lived in NY, TX, NJ, MI, AL and MD. I feel like a nomad.

i apologize if this has been asked before but I know not.

Men always say that women only want bad boys. Does it work both ways?


If a women is financially independant and nurturing and loving and ...a bit doting, is that a turn off?

Should a women act subserviant in order for a man to feel like a man?

sorry to hear that Julie. I hope 2011 is a brighter fuller year of love and happiness!


aw thanks. yesterday was hard, so is today, no one to talk with but because of this site I feel a little better.
Ya know it just gets so hard after awhile, I am old as the hills, 40 now, never married and no kids so I think I am an odditity that no man can handle.

smiles

Not so good. I think I am breaking up with my live in. My heart is broken but maybe it is for the best he is 12 years younger than me and I think he is on drugs.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

I am only on one other dating site because it is free... it has no forum or community to talk with others.

The only voice you have is on your profile so it is only there where you can display your personality or point of view, which is kinda stale I suppose.

in agreement with Beachfarmer and Txgal.

A white american, especially male, is not oppressed in this country so therefore wearing it on a tshirt seems pointless.

love
no anxieties
contentment and health (I may have cheated squeezing in a fourth wish)

I would not wish for sex because that is easy to come by

My advice is not to be so sensitive. A non response has no reflection on you. Its a big internet with so many people. It is easy to get distracted with everyday life and the big internet.

I think being single and alone is not the insult you intended it to be...why else would you be here as well?

I use to be so sure about what love is and what it could bring. It was easy to live with a man I liked and who I was friends with, for many years. I left him looking for love. I found love, hot and passionate and amaZing. Yet, that relationship only lasted a few years. I was sure that lightning could never strike twice but it did. This time so vehemently that it made the first love seem like a crush...it lasted one year. I am not a kid so do not tell me the difference between lust and like and love. I know love.
Love is hell. Friendship is forever.

Why is that the favorite thing to do?

Is this a dating site?

My favorite color is black, my favorite complaint is complaining about this websiste.

Are you a dork???

has what i said made me fodder??

Are u talking about sexual allure?

Personally I prefer men who are not rocks. Men who have "six packs" make me wanna laugh.

I like men who have natural bodies, even a little ponch. I am not talking about morbidly obese, but a man who is active and exciting, has muscles...but please no six effing packs.

i smile

YES

Tonight I wish for being bad. I just broke up with my current lover. Now I am fooling around with my bosses son who is ten years younger than I am.
I think I am in self destruct mode. but I am having so much fun. Except not tonight. tonight i am at my sisters typing on the computer.