Why say yes when you are in search mode if you are not going to respond to the person you said yes too....? I mean seriously .. if your going to be stuck up then just say NO!!! Or don't get on here when your drunk....lol. No wonder your single and all alone. This sight is called "MINGLE" ...!!! So , don't you think you should?

Dont Mingle drunk?...hahahahaha THAT is a good one!

I dont know about the being obligated to say Yes to everyone just because they contact you....no one is required to just spread em just because someone shows an interest.

Lots of reasons for no further responses.
Sometimes, it is simply lack of time.
Or maybe they are reading this post.

When you switch right to name calling, and
hypothetical reasons why you are not
riding in the derby, best look to yourself.

No one has to be drunk to walk away from
a bad attitude.
Although maybe it helps.

My advice is not to be so sensitive. A non response has no reflection on you. Its a big internet with so many people. It is easy to get distracted with everyday life and the big internet.

I think being single and alone is not the insult you intended it to be...why else would you be here as well?

Well first off I am not alone! I have alot of friends and companions to keep me company. I do not know why I come on here....? It seems like a waste of time. Especially when you have a match and they don't respond!!!!

So my comment was correct!! I did have the right insult.. " that is why your single and alone"


Speak to someone when they talk to you or your never going to meet someone.

Lmao!!! what kind of bs was that? I do know why YOUR!.... single..lol
I made a simple statement without attitude. You jumped to conclusions about what I meant. Typical of a women that will be single for alot longer then me....lol go run in that derby...!

wow!!! is everyone a idiot..? I did not say anything about being obligated to saying yes to evryone who contacts you...? wth are you talking about?

I said " mutual match"... not just clicking yes to people who contact you. If 2 people both say "yes" for a mutual match.. they should talk.. thats what I said . Its called mingle just like the sight.

My advice is not to be so sensitive. A non response has no reflection on you. Its a big internet with so many people. It is easy to get distracted with everyday life and the big internet.



i agree with this, I have had this same situation with someone who emailed me and was nasty two days later because I hadnt replied. I have to admit that I am mostly typing in the forums and usually dont really THINK about my emails,,,that coupled with being a pretty busy single mom means I am not exactly the giggly, texting, wanna be teenager type. The internet is big and people get busy with life so they may not always REPLY as quickly as others wish them to. My suggestion is also to be patient and not take non responses so personally. I have actually not realized someone contacted me(totally skipped theirs when I read my emails) until a month later and I responded politely with the explanation why.

good subject bro. i agree completely. but people change their minds i guess.

lmao!!!.. ok you have 12424 post!!! I have news for you.. You are the giggly texting teenage type with that many post. And if your life is to busy to repond to the emails .. maybe you should cut down on your post and respond to the people who are interested in you.

smartest response so far!!! I like this guy.

i just agree man. alot of people on here talk a big game but they are scared or just forget to follow up

That's why I ignore mutual match to begin with. And have it stated in my profile that if one wants to talk then drop me a line.

However, why should the person who said Yes have to initiate conversation?

You can post what ever you want but I see no reason to be a complete azzhole about it..........

Couldn't be said better.

If it's a waste of time, why are you here complaining? It's not going to help you get more responses if you just whine.

Or you could be swallowed by a giant fish!

lmao this was a funny one! i need it this morning. After some bad news i got! GIMME MORE!!

see, you already found another match...good luck with this one!

wow ,talk about feeling the love ,its just all over this thread or is it ratpack that Im feeling. hey all you folks that have been ruleing the forms, why do ya all ratpack a person when one dont agree with a post there seems to be the pack mentality here and you people attack , but maybe its all done with love in your hearts.
I guess more time will tell.