nah, I know your face... maybe it is a weird case of de ja vu. (sorry if it is spooky, but... I never forget a face, however I have had de ja vu before...)
believe me sweetie, you are not the only person sticking to your convictions. Some do find that important. If you value it, do not trade it, or allow anyone to make you feel like less of a person because of it!

That does not seem like a 'bad' thing to do by itself, just remember, there are wolves out there amongst the sheep... be safe in what you do. You should not have to hide who you are, or be ashamed of it. However, I would not say, "hey, whats up, I am a virgin..." lol.
I know you do not do that, however to some men this is a temptation and a 'conquest' so again, be safe...

I dont think my school has nursing (c.t.u. online) and if it does, we certainly would not have done this in there...lol... could be de ja vu.

I apologize if you thought I was fighting... I was not trying to 'win'... merely to contribute in my way to the dialectic. You have your values, and I adamently defend your right to have them. If you do not feel they are old fashioned, and they suit you, do not change them for anyone!! Values are important and one should only adjust who they are for themselves, including our poster here! Again if I seemed like I was competing I apologize...

sexual activity does not change my opinion of the person at heart, it depends on how they treat me, not what I can get from them. I never 'expect' anything, however if the physical attraction is there, I do not turn it down...

I think we have talked before...
If he knows your values, and then decided to violate them, then in fact he is a jerk and should be curbed very quickly... (p.s. are you on myspace in any groups? I swear we have talked before... and I just started posting here)

I married a woman who slept with me 1 1/2 hours into our first date... again it is a value system, and every one has a different set of them...

And to reply to this, hell, I kiss my parents, siblings and even some of my friends... Some people place different values on different actions. I know people that use sex as an icebreaker, and who will not even touch until they marry. I treat each the same, however I also let them know my values going in... could have just been miscommunication causing hurt feelings... with all due respect to our poster, how do we know he did not misread her? To assume a man is a jerk because his behavior stuns you is wrong...
It is a double standard... if a guy does something you dont like he is a jerk, if he doesnt respond when you do he is a jerk... no wonder dating sites are making $40,000,000,000 a year...

Some people move faster than others, this does not make them worse than their counterparts, maybe he read her wrong... I more than kiss on the first date, however I do not EXPECT to...
He may have simply read her signals wrong, he may be a more aggressive type, or he simply may be a douche, but just based on the info given I would want to know more... in lieu of that, it is simply a misread at best.

Not necessaeily, lately people (guys and girls) are A) dating a lot and B) very busy in general. That would be an alarm bell, but give it some time, see what he does and does not do, and if he and you dont click, at least it is a short investment...

That is good! I have only been as far as Roland Ok... had a drop in Ft. Smith Ar and that was the closest truck stop that took our fuel card, and places to park. They seemed ok to me. Maybe it is just people getting worse all over.
People who talk with food in their mouths are just gross... however people who make you do it by asking questions while you are eating are worse... lol.

I worked at Harris Homes in Atlanta when I did security (if you are not familiar, it is behind Morehouse and Spellman, southeast Atlanta, before Bankhead highway...)
These kids would come in on Vogues, spinners, and a $2000 stereo in a Hyundai... it was Hilarious. Then they get out with the grill, and pants that would fit me (they are skinny kids, i am a 6'6" refrigerator shaped man...) it was a blast...

stress: the confusion created when one's mind over rides the body's natural inclination to choke the living $hit out of someone who desperately deserves it!

oh yeah, Da Grillwork... outstanding! Just as bad as being in a housing project and watching the resident pull up in their brand new B.M.W....

What do you mean, sports jerseys and sweats, or club dress? ... confused by the generalization...

I am from New York, and was a cabbie there... I also lived in Atlanta Ga, the 'home of the worlds worst drivers' and still, the worst place to drive(principal cities excepted) is the midwest. Ohio, Michigan, Illinois, and Indiana in that order.

To be honest there are so many beautiful women that I have seen in here it makes me wonder what in the hell is wrong with this country... I am sure guys too... I am personally one of the 'nice guys' who keeps hetting his a$$ kicked, but still I refuse to give up!!
I could not possibly pick a crush in here, however I have a huge crush on Kerrie Russel (sp... the 'mom' from August Rush, and Elliot's college friend from Scrubs...)

O.K. a midwestern driver...lol. Get used to it unfortunately, and be glad you are not near Chicago, Detroit, or Toledo. I hate when people disregard everyone else's safety because they are too stupid to read the manual either. We all had to do it, so how can you forget the rules?

Oh for the love of God YES!!!! People who cannot keep th their word are among the worst of the worst types of hedonistic pigs...