Don't worry so much what other people think, you're beautiful as you are. Be the best you can be, and no amount of societal or peer pressures, can take that from you!

No hun,
............Fornever. Thanks though!

Sex has very little to do with loving someone as a person. If you truly love them....you stay! No brainer!!
Anyone can have sex, with whomever, does that make it love......no! Most likely, two people who are in love WILL have sex before marriage, though. It's the world we live in today, not Grandmas world.

Sex-Love= embarrassing & meaningless
Love-Sex= doubts
Sex+Love= ............the only way to go, perhaps I'm a fool!

Not sure why, other than the fact that I've been that one, but I'll chime in with my observation. To start with, I'm somewhat of a shy person, for whatever reason, and rarely introduce myself to those that I'm interested in. Quiet, observing life and human nature first and foremost, at the same time, searching for the ONE that stands out and leaves me awestruck. Very hard to find (or judge) from a self described post on some dating site, though I have seen a couple, and I may introduce myself soon enough. Back to the question....
I've been on a couple of these sites for about two months now, been hit on (?), and traded e-mails with a three different ladies who seemed interested. The unfortunate part I've found is this, these sites seem to be the stomping grounds of internet dating scammers. The conversations seem to go well for the first couple of e-mails, but afterwards the inconsistencies start to manifest themselves, it's all downhill from there. She's from (near)(my town)but is in Nigeria for the week. Or, her profile says Albany, but in reality you find, she lives in Chekzoveria, or G-d knows where! Or the fact that I ask simple questions that go completely unanswered. I'm very easily insulted when, after two e-mails, there's no real connection, yet they're addressing me as(Dearest)or(My Love), like I'm so lovelorn to buy that. Some actually do, (buy into it, that is)and get taken, (but not in a good way). Me? I don't like having my time wasted for me, and as soon as I figure out that game, I won't write back, and it's off to the dating scammers website I go to report my experience with so-and-so, in one of her fifty aliases. The only three women I've spoken with through these sites, and each one of them running their own scam, and casting the net(sic), far and wide for any takers. Can't speak for other men, but I'm no fool.
In some ways, I've found it to be an enlightening and humorous experience.
On the other hand, these experiences have left me a little gun shy about introducing myself, but I'm over it. Fortunately, no winners, no losers, just lessons learned.
By the way, I'm in no way implying that this actual circumstance applies to your situation, just relating as to why I've done that very thing before. Make any sense at all??

Been posting on this site fornever..........and still haven't been snatched up. Oh well.......

Hi there, I'm kinda new here and figured I'd just say hi, and hold the door for ya'! What sort of ridiculous site is this........one where we can chat, and NOT have to pay through the nose!!??? Someone's going BROKE, and it isn't me this time!!MuaHAHA, the economy can't touch me now!!!