I don't know exactly how it was that you hurt that person. This is just a mode of introduction, what comes after this in the real life is a completely different story.
How many times have i heard" i really like you as a person, but I'm not attracted to you otherwise" ( this is the polite version of those who care to comment).

so, IMO you are being fair by saying up front that in real life, things can be different.

Sunshine. That can so go both ways. Not all women need a man with money, cause they make their own, support their kids even without the support of the fathers.
You have no idea how many times i was approached with the hindside that they were going to profit from my income. pfft.
My philosophy: Be able to hold your own.


edit: not all women have more then one child or more then one father for their children.

You're not gonna like this answer, but it takes as long as it takes.
Getting a divorce for whatever the reasons are still posesses a time of grieving, whether you want to admit it or not. You have made a loss, that being your marriage.
Maybe instead of going around the problem by trying to start anew quickly, you should deal with it first. You are telling us that forming a romatic relationship hasn't worked out for you this last year. I think you need to find out why that truely is. I can sit here and talk till i'm blue, but it is you in the end how has to do the thinking, the adjusting, the feeling and accepting your loss not only in your heart, but also in your head. ( or the other way around)

Talk to the friends that you can count on not blowing you some bull and will give you some constructive discussion. I'd start there.

you are so full of bogus... not holding the door for me is like telling me i'm not worth that kind gesture. And if that little task is to much to ask... then guess what. the rest won't fit either.

ps. I'm really not that mean. lol.

Now if that's not an excuse then I don't know.

Fort Wayne in the HOUSE!!

um .. yeah, hi