Okay I was seeing this guy and everthing was going good. His exwife decided to start asking for my child support and taping into his bank account. Yesterday he went off on me and said I am a money hungry ***** because I get child support. He said that I should send my kids back to their father until I can get more stable! I left him because he was mentally, verbally, and physcially abusing my son and I and we could take no more.

Just because his ex is a biotch dosnt mean that all woman who get support are. I mean WTF!?

Is it just me or what?

Sorry had to vent.

Seeya,
Erica :)

I would have left waaaaaaaaaaaay before he spouted that crap on me!!! No one touches my son!!!

I'm cornfuzed

you didnt need that from that jurk, hes big ""a moron, and you can do better and your son doesnt need that kind of role model in his life either...my kids role model is my brother nlaw hes awsome influence on my kids and grandkids

I dont get it..

His ex wife was asking for your child support?

I'm confused too

i think thats just wacked!! if ur gonna have kids with some one, and not stay together(SOMETIMES things are beyond our control) work together at least...and it was stupid of him to take his anger on his ex, out on people who didnt deserve it.....

yup couple things I'm confused on your friends wife was asking for your child support????? and who was mean to your son your ex or the new guy....



I think the new guy is just upset and was also venting ... we all need to from time to time..... but anyone man and/or women needs to pay to support their child

Scarey.

Can ya say gone faster then lighting shshshh that is why no man lived with me while I was raising my kids

Your post is a little confusing. Sounds like he is taking his frustration at his ex-wife out on you. That was hateful behavior. I'd think twice about a guy who was so upset over supporting his children. She can't just "tap" into his account, but maybe the courts CAN. Maybe he was behind or not paying his support and the court went after him to get the money. In either case, something isn't right with the situation. Think twice about dating someone who is so hateful to you.

if the guy wasn't paying child support in the first place than that might have given you a clue about his sense of responsibility and why was he leaving money in an account that his ex could access and third if he was abusing you and your son i would have gotten out of there or thrown his azz out way before the issue about the child support came up..sounds like you're better off without him and if you aren't i'm sure your son is ...jmo

That is one of the reasons that my child does not meet the men that I am dating.

Wow. Let him go babe. Who needs a guy that transfers his wife's issues to you? puhleeze .......... *rolls eyes and sighs*

I dont understand why so many of you are confused as to what is going on. Her boyfriend is getting robbed by his ex girlfriend and he is frustrated and venting on his current girlfriend. No biggy, couples fight.I will say with confidence that on average most women are money hungry. They often diguise their fetish by using words such as "ambition" or "driven". Lets be real, if women openly admitted what the majority are after then that would only perpetuate the stereotype that women are just as, if not more shallow than men.


These are not hard and fast rules but they do apply to the majority. Your boyfriend is just going off instinct. You know what they say the first one is usually the correct one.

Also im not a financial advisor by any means but people who cant afford kids shouldnt have kids. I live at or below my means. It would be nice if we could all do that. This country would improve overnight.


Anywho..there is my vent.

I'm confused because I speak English.

hello ethereal

Sounds like the B/F is pizzed about having to pay child support and the ex is making sure does...too bad...he should be paying child support. She wasn't alone when she conceived them. It has little to do with stability, but more that most women do make the kind of salary needed to support themselves and kids alone. I'd tell the B/F to kick rocks.