Go get it girl ... Walk tall

Support network idea is awesome, btw. Stick to the people who know your pain. They will be proactive on your behalf.

And be careful not to get too liquored up!! That is always a recipe for disaster with emotion.

I support you my friend'ette. Come back and tell us how you coped so we can all learn from your experience.

And, btw, these people sound like lovely human beings WTF kinda' nonsense is that?

Way cool young lady ... Rock on!!

I can fix that ... I was just looking to see if you were alive or what.

Thanks for backing me up people. Her and I hashed it out in an email and all is well. It was just a misunderstanding.

Dreamer
Shoesy
Indigo
Torgo

I was trying to help her but maybe it sounded harsh. Sometimes my hands move faster than my noggin.

Good to see so many old-schoolers flocking back here though. For a stretch there, I felt like Mad Max in Thunderdome when logging in here. 2008 was a vintage year to pledge this site.

Hello Dreamy One ... Miss ya' kiddo.'

I have a degree in Journalism Magic. I'm fairly adroit in the English language.

I guess you take issue with truth? I'm talking to the OP, who is obviously distraught about life's challenges and needs some advice on how to attract a decent guy.

It wasn't mean. That's why I said I'd be her friend. It's commendable of you to stick up for her but you missed my point entirely.

Young lady:

De-activate your account and come back with a better name than LovelessLoser. I'm sure you have SOMETHING to offer but that name indicates otherwise.

I'm not being sarcastic - though 90% of my comments are. I just think you need a marketing shake-up there. No one wants to buy something that proclaims no value as its label!!

Seriously girl, come on back and get some love with a profile that has some appeal. I'll be your friend ... swear.

I kinda' hoped my heterosexuality would come through naturally just by the tone of my hyperbole.

Guys just totally blow. That's why I'll never date them.

Sorry for your troubles though.

It's maddening, isn't it?

If McCain was elected in 2000, yes. Today's McCain, no.

Iran doesn't sweat us much dude. They have "GOD" on their side .. or so they have convinced their people.

This will never happen, unfortunately.

Unless the push comes from a less Euro-centric place ... like Russia or China ... but they would have their own issues to then answer.

I think I'm lost. She set you up with her sister to make whom jealous?

HI SHOES!

And top o' the morn to you Trout.

That's a "hide it under the mattress" shot. Hawt.

Have fun, btw. Stay away from flammable libations. Your eyebrows are cute.

I think Bhilopaonika is located just below the medulla oblongata and above the thyroid gland. Mine acts up when I eat shepherd's pie.

Like Mecca, we all make a pilgrimmage back here at some point.

Long live psychos. I wouldn't buy the extended warranty on tires without you!!

Love ya' kiddo .... Hope it's all good.

And hello to the Irish Spunsktress.

Your body is that of a young woman ... and so is your mind.

Wear the dress.

The guys in your demo will dig it. Only immature kids chasing a good time will have an issue .. and they don't matter much.

I adhere to a no naked pics for the first 48 hours policy. That seems to take the edge away.

Scared is normal Buttons. If it persists though, then you have to consider why before trying to stuff the proverbial round peg.

It might be good that you are nervous though at the inception of a relationship. It means your mind is telling your body that it feels like you have something to lose. Notice how people you know you aren't suited to espouse never seem to make you anxious (unless they scare you)?

Telling that person you are a bit intimidated never hurts either. If their intentions are correct, they will work to help you get past those initial jitters.

That's cute ...

There are really decent people in the world if you stop and look around.