So... when you have talked for hours on end then meet... and the attraction is there.. are you still scared? Do you ever feel that you are less than someone you met and still call them everyday? would that give you a fear of them?.. note this is just a question... I am not insinuating this is me... ok maybe the scared part is lol! not the rest! boy i have learned to not be quiet from mingle... and not back down when someone is shy... noooo not a stalker either lol! they call me!.. so all these questions arise because this stuff is all new to me.

I think it is natural to be tentative in a new relationship especially when you have experienced letdowns before. As far as feeling like you are "less than someone", maybe you need to take a step back and look at the good qualities about yourself that has attracted the guy to you. Focus on the positive and that will ease your nervousness.

I wish you the best of luck!!

Am I scared

well I don't know if it's scared. Rather it's usually a little
nervous and when I'm nervous I stutter....act like a total dipshit!!

I never think I'm less than anyone. I did when I was younger but now I have age and wisdom on my side so I know I'm really not more or less than anyone!

I think age-experience in the world-experience with men/women have alot to do with this

General rule of thumb: the less I know about someone, the more interesting and appealing they are.

I am not scared of meeting anyone. I am who I am. No more or no less then I have described myself to be. I will not call any guy to keep him interested. Either he is or he is not. I can not control that.

I am with you on this.....Sometimes things don't work for one or the other, but you remain friends and keep on truckin. It just sucks when it is something that you or the other really desired to happen.

why be scared? just a self conscious feeling coming to surface...either it works or it don't... but by being scared or nervous, increases the chances of it not working... just be yourself, your a good person and very beautiful... if he doesn't work out, there's 100's more guys that would wanna date you. so don't worry about.

I adhere to a no naked pics for the first 48 hours policy. That seems to take the edge away.

Scared is normal Buttons. If it persists though, then you have to consider why before trying to stuff the proverbial round peg.

It might be good that you are nervous though at the inception of a relationship. It means your mind is telling your body that it feels like you have something to lose. Notice how people you know you aren't suited to espouse never seem to make you anxious (unless they scare you)?

Telling that person you are a bit intimidated never hurts either. If their intentions are correct, they will work to help you get past those initial jitters.

I wouldn't say i'd be scared maybe nervous a bit

thanks all.. i dont feel less.. however i do not feel more either!. wasnt about me lol .. i was wondering when someone has expressed things to you. that tend to make you think this.. or if they feel undeserving do they get scared?

i get nervous when a woman is too pretty... like wayne and garth would say "i'm not worthy!"

in my experience when a person expresses feelings of being undeserving they are looking for confirmation that they are deserving

i agree , i guess in the past to me i would of felt they weren't interested.. and just moved on myself..but that is how im seeing it now tina.
im sure glad i didn't this time! mingle grew me some balls!

off for a wonderful few hours because of my balls lol.. hope all your day is as good as mine!