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Tue 06/03/08 08:41 PM
On your site you should show things that interst you. Not just your body. Women want to know what your about. Looks fade.

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Tue 06/03/08 08:38 PM
NOTHING is wrong with you. YOu just have not met the right woman yet. You know it is pretty ironic. A man and his friend( that is a female) go into a bar. The man says " I hope I get lucky tonight. The woman says ( no matter what she looks like ) " If I choose, who will I be with tonight." That statement is so UNTRUE because if either one of them is looking for a real relationship neither one will get lucky.Be patient, be yourself, and stop looking. She will be the one you least suspect. Do things that really interest you and you will find her there. Good luck handsome.

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Tue 06/03/08 08:09 PM

Note the lack of critical thinking. Note the lack of ability to associate truth with morality. Note the lack of comprehension when the words of a belief system are questioned.

As Belushi stated, it makes sense that most follow their belief out of fear but then have to CREATE an explanation to justify thier beliefs, their actions.

I asked a psychology professor exactly how fanatical does a person have to be, before they are considered metally unstable or mentally ill. Of course taking into consideration the DSM-IV-TR (diagnostic and Statistical Manual, Version IV, Text Revision) manual.

For all those who think they are constantly bashed - let it be known that the APA (American Psychological Association)itself is considering this question and has actually set up a whole field devoted to understanding the role of religion on the mind and body. So at this time they hold rigidly, probably more so than usual, where the diagnosis of the deeply religious is concerned, to the manual.

Obviously is it a concern, and all of those I have spoken with have the same basic opinion. This life is about experiencing everything within our human capacity. Any thinking, or belief that hinders that experience, takes away from the growth of the mind and can vastly harm one's ability to concentrate, to be brave and strong, to think critically and logically and to rise above bias and prejudice.

These things are not an illness, according to APA, but they harm millions upon millions of people in this world every day.

Why is it that your God would ask you to be afraid, not to experience, not to grow, but to be biased, to hate, in his name?
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Yes, as Belushi stated, it makes sense that most follow their belief out of fear but then have to CREATE an explanation to justify their beliefs, their actions.

Note the insults and ridicule. Note the questioning of everything. You ask and search always looking to find a means to justify a lifestyle that is contradictory to the mainstream and the teachings of the Lord. Something that will disprove what disagrees with the lifestyle you have chosen.

In every post you make this motivation shines through like a lighthouse beam to warn passing ships of danger.

Y'all take one passage, limit it to what meaning you wish to project, twist it to fit into a context that will let your own mind believe that your belief system is superior to Christianity and justify your sins as something they aren't.

The passage that Belushi has posted and refers to is not complete, tells nothing of what the Amalekites did to the Israelis, and takes place at a time shortly after the exodus from Egypt.

A time when God had made a covenant with the Jews specifically and was using them as a teaching between good and evil, those who follow god and those who deny him. If you read the whole bible you will see times when he also punished the Jews for falling from his graces as well.

The bible is not a single passage but a novel of gods teachings. It is full of stories of good, bad, and warnings of people who will try to disclaim it to justify their personal spiritual failings.

Ask and he will forgive. This is part of his covenant made to all men when he sent Jesus Christ to save us!




Wasn't Belusihi a miserable adult who had a terrible childhood and then died of a drug overdose? Is this the same Belushi?

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Tue 06/03/08 07:50 PM
JB

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Tue 06/03/08 07:46 PM
I still don't hate you.flowerforyou Just irritated. I will get over it and this is a free world. So, I guess I could just use my " ignore " option. :heart: flowerforyou

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Tue 06/03/08 07:33 PM
She, JB, wishes us farewell. Thank God!sad

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Tue 06/03/08 07:32 PM


Unlike many I do not worship another human being. I worship God!

Judging by your reaction,
I must have hit a sore spot with you.

Its okay!flowerforyou

Ask, and he will guide you on the true path!flowerforyou



Hey, if you need to be forgiven for your pathetic life of sin, more power to you and your path. I really don't care what you want to believe anymore.

I have other things to do now. I have wasted enough time with this futile and pointless effort of attempting to help delusional people come out of the darkness and into the light of reason.

So I bid you farewell. flowerforyou flowerforyou





Littlemsdevils mom....these are the posts I am talking about and why I no longer defend her!

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Tue 06/03/08 07:08 PM


I have defended JB numerous times. Then, I come back online and it sounds like she is Christian bashing. I am not sure why she is here. Like I said, maybe she is just curious.


I have been curious yes, about why people seem to need religion. I don't "bash" anybody. I have questioned them deeply and I can't get what I consider to be any reasonable answers about hard questions concerning the Biblical history of Christianity. It puzzles me why they believe it.

I have recently realized that I am asking the wrong people. Christians themselves don't really have the answers and when you ask the questions, they feel like you are "bashing" them. Maybe I saw it as challenging them to think, but it's not my business to do that anyway. It's not my job.

I know now what draws people to religion. I have no need to question them anymore. So you will probably not see me on these forums much any more. I have the answer I was looking for.


But, I have non-religious friends that I have seen get on these forums just to irritate people. They think it is amusing. I have friends of all sorts of faiths, but I would never go onto their forums unless I was there to educate myself on their beliefs. That does not mean I will believe what they do, but I will have a better understanding. I was irritated because I defended her and then she sounded like some of my friends. By the way, I have told them it is not amusing and they should just listen to some music or something while they are drinking if they are that freakin bored. I don't hate JB though, just irritated.


I mistakenly thought these forums were for the purpose of discussion and debate but most people get offended by the most logical or reasonable debate, especially when it comes to religions.

They don't have a philosophy category, and I like to discuss ideas and metaphysics and have done so a lot on this club, but it had to be done in the "religion" forum.

You can rest easy now, all of you, because I leave you to your own discussions on your religious topics. They are no longer my business or my interest anymore.

JB





There not for debate.noway

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Tue 06/03/08 06:57 PM
Edited by tiffanyraquel on Tue 06/03/08 07:07 PM
JB, I don't need you to make me question my beliefs. I am not a robot, I am a human being. Fine, you think I live a fantasy life? That's my problem. I NEED to believe! You know what you are doing. I am not an idiot. Like I said on previous posts. I have gone to Wiccan ceremonies and such for various reasons. But, none to make them question their beliefs. You don't have to agree. Just talk to people. Gheez, this world can be so demanding and ugly. I come to a Christian forum to talk nice. The conversation does not have to be about faith, but it is my choice other than: let's say: " My booty call last night and such,,," I have seen the ugliest things in life and so have many other people on this forum. Peace for once....PLEASE! I miss my husband in California. Everytime I get back from a deployment is he leaving for his. I worry about him so much and I get so lonely. I am a truck driver and he is a pilot. I need to trust that God will take care of him. I need to believe that all this will end good. I just want a normal life. I think I live in Iraq more than here. In fact, that is the case. I pray every night. I should not have tried to committ suice upon my last return. I was a lost soul. I pray for Gods forgiveness everyday. This sounds silly, but to pay Him back I have adopted an abused dog, I am fostering a kitty cat and I am volunteering at the Salvation Army. I don't pat myself on the back....I just need redemption from God. Please let me have that JB.flowerforyou

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Tue 06/03/08 06:02 PM
I have defended JB numerous times. Then, I come back online and it sounds like she is Christian bashing. I am not sure why she is here. Like I said, maybe she is just curious. But, I have non-religious friends that I have seen get on these forums just to irritate people. They think it is amusing. I have friends of all sorts of faiths, but I would never go onto their forums unless I was there to educate myself on their beliefs. That does not mean I will believe what they do, but I will have a better understanding. I was irritated because I defended her and then she sounded like some of my friends. By the way, I have told them it is not amusing and they should just listen to some music or something while they are drinking if they are that freakin bored. I don't hate JB though, just irritated.

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Tue 06/03/08 05:35 PM


What? Oh, well.drinker

nice edit.drinker


I don't come here to argue or defend my beliefs. I did the Christian thing. Turned the other cheek.:tongue:

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Tue 06/03/08 05:11 PM
Edited by tiffanyraquel on Tue 06/03/08 05:23 PM
What? Oh, well.drinker

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Tue 06/03/08 05:03 PM
Edited by tiffanyraquel on Tue 06/03/08 05:05 PM
JB is VERY interested in Christianity. I see her alot on this site. Why would someone come here to irritate,unless their real purpose for being here was to find out why some are able to have so much faith and she cannot? It is a sad excistence to think that this is all there is to life. I know that no matter how hard things may seem on Earth, at the end I will spend eternity surrounded by love and happiness.

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Mon 06/02/08 09:24 PM


TallGuy, all human and parental understanding goes out to you. There are definitely distinctions between loving correction and abuse. No one should suffer abuse, but it happens. We feel your pain, both of your upbringing and for your loss.
You seem to have done well, finding some solace in His hand being involved.

Off topic for a sec - we no more understand His fine reasoning than an ant does ours. We do trust that He is working things out to some eternal good and in that there can be some peace. I'm glad you've found that.

No, it's not our business, but your revealing the base of your thoughts is like the mustard seed.


Thank you.
I will not be posting in the forums again. Trying to help people is too painful.




I grew up in an abusive home. I never spanked my daughters because I was afraid I would go too far. My oldest is 20, in college and never gave me any issues through her teen years. My 14 year old is a well behaved young lady too. So far, so good. My cousin is a wonderful mother etc and she spanked her children. BUT, she did it then talked with her child afterwards. I don't think she hit them hard or anything. She just let them know who was in charge. Both her children are well adjusted adults and very close to their parents. Kids can be scared by even just a tap on the buttocks. My father used a belt and seriously whipped us all over our bodies. I don't think that is what God meant by " Spare the rod ". That's why there is such a debate on this issue. Some people use it to take out their life's frustrations on a child. Others do it in a loving way.

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Fri 05/30/08 05:12 PM
My Daddy spanked me when I was bad. Now my new " Daddy " spanks meblushing Little girls that get spanked by their fathers like to be spanked by their lovers. Remember that the next time you spank you daughter.devil

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Fri 05/30/08 04:49 PM
Redykeulous I, truly, think you are bored. You are always here to debate. I don't feel I should have to defend my beliefs to you. I am probably just as bored as you to be writing this. well, actually I am just waiting for the charcoal to get hot. I am grilling chicken, ribs and fish. Yummydrinker

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Fri 05/30/08 04:40 PM
Will you remember this situation in 10 to 20 years? If so, then work on it. If not, then smokin

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Wed 05/28/08 04:43 PM
If I thought the person would be convicted and given life in prison until he passed away then I would not be so angry. Like I said in my other post. "Read what sentence they recieve."

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Wed 05/28/08 04:22 PM
You got that right JIM!

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Wed 05/28/08 04:21 PM
I worked at a maximum security male prison in Texas for almost 7 years. Inmates hate sexual offenders because they know that they will NEVER change.