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that's a no no
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Chewing tobacco 
How about smoking it? |
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that's a no no
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I haven't got one. I don't have to worry about any of that nonsense.
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meet the whiners
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This crap is so old hat. Grow up!
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Maybe it's the Area
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Don't be anyone or, anything that you are not. One day, like me....finally, love will find you. Good luck in all of your endevour's.
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I have a nice guy and, I wouldn't trade him for the world. Yeah, he's really sweet and kind. But, I'd never treat him like a doormat.
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DEC.10
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Lets hope he kicks it.
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Mine! Mine! Mine!
Edited by
shoesmonkey
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Fri 12/04/09 01:06 PM
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Why are so many people so possesive of "things" in relationships? Sure, we give our hearts to our significant other, but when it comes to possessions, the truth comes out about how selfish and materialistic they(or we) are. And, even more so when a relationship ends, often not only will they take everything they own, they'll clean you out too. I know there are exceptions to this, but it is a curious observation I have made over the years. Gifts, I find it interesting that a girlfriend you have been with for 4 years gives you a Christmas gift last year, but when she moves out, she takes it back. Selfish, selfish, greedy people. 
I don't give or, take them back. If I don't want a gift, I'll get rid of it on my own. |
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Just wondering..
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 Very arousing indeed
ERICK!!!!!!!!!! How ya doin? |
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Just wondering..
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I like the read just the way it is. Just put up some clearer pic.'s.
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OK, So... be Gentle. RATE ME
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I think you did a very good job. Welcome to M2.
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new laptop
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I don't know one from another. I have an Acer and, I'm quite pleased with it.
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I met a MAN
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Today on the FREEWAY! LOL I was driving my JEEP & next to me was this guy on a HARLY & it was beautiful this bike had a georhous paint job! Well it just so happend that I have a helmet with blue flames on it so I was really lookin when he motioned me to follow him! So I did & we exchanged numbers! He called me & it turns out that he owns a HARLEY shop which i'm going to go checkout tomorrow! Kinda strange way to meet someone huh   
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Let's see, the POS I married, lied to me.....that's a given. He stole from me repeatedly and, he cheated on me I don't know how many time's. Now, do you honestly think I would EVER have anything good to say about him? There must have been something good about him. Plus, negativity is never good for you. Let go of the anger and get to a point where you can honestly wish him the best and forgive him. It is healthier for you that way. We forgive people for ourselves not for them. It's like they hurt you, and you are angry, and you blame them for the hurt, and then one day you wake up and you're not angry, you don't blame them any more, but you still remember exactly how they hurt you. In my family my mother used to make me tell my sister I was a bad boy and I was sorry when I had told her boyfriend about her abortion. I hated doing that, and in my heart I was still angry for getting spanked for it, but now I love my sister and vice versa. She forgave me. I don't know how it happens, or how many times you need to get spanked, really, but it happens. Just like other Shhht. If you are no longer together and know that you will not go back, you are not letting anything slide. You are angry at him and it is only hurting you for you to be angry, it doesn't hurt him at all so why do that to yourself? He did what he did, you learned the lessons you had to learn from it, right? Lessons can be for example not moving so fast in a relationship next time, taking heed of those warning signs you saw early in the relationship next time, etc.... Once we learn from our bad experiences then we can let them go and forgive so we will be better and healthier people. I have five failed relationships so breaking up is my speciality, sadly. |
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Let's see, the POS I married, lied to me.....that's a given. He stole from me repeatedly and, he cheated on me I don't know how many time's. Now, do you honestly think I would EVER have anything good to say about him? There must have been something good about him. Plus, negativity is never good for you. Let go of the anger and get to a point where you can honestly wish him the best and forgive him. It is healthier for you that way. We forgive people for ourselves not for them. It's like they hurt you, and you are angry, and you blame them for the hurt, and then one day you wake up and you're not angry, you don't blame them any more, but you still remember exactly how they hurt you. In my family my mother used to make me tell my sister I was a bad boy and I was sorry when I had told her boyfriend about her abortion. I hated doing that, and in my heart I was still angry for getting spanked for it, but now I love my sister and vice versa. She forgave me. I don't know how it happens, or how many times you need to get spanked, really, but it happens. Just like other Shhht. You'll forgive him if and when you decide to. That's up to you. Only you know how you feel and no one else has the right to tell you that your feelings are wrong. Until you've lived someone else's life, it's easy to judge and say "oh you should do this" or "you're bad and bitter if you don't do this." We all deal with problems in our own way, and it's neither right or wrong. 
Noone was implying she was wrong or judging her. Holding anger is bad for us across the board. It is bad for our health and emotional well being. She is still angry that is obvious. All I did was give her an idea of what would help her be healthier for herself and possibly her next relationship. If it helps great if not that is okay too. |
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Let's see, the POS I married, lied to me.....that's a given. He stole from me repeatedly and, he cheated on me I don't know how many time's. Now, do you honestly think I would EVER have anything good to say about him? There must have been something good about him. Plus, negativity is never good for you. Let go of the anger and get to a point where you can honestly wish him the best and forgive him. It is healthier for you that way. We forgive people for ourselves not for them. It's like they hurt you, and you are angry, and you blame them for the hurt, and then one day you wake up and you're not angry, you don't blame them any more, but you still remember exactly how they hurt you. In my family my mother used to make me tell my sister I was a bad boy and I was sorry when I had told her boyfriend about her abortion. I hated doing that, and in my heart I was still angry for getting spanked for it, but now I love my sister and vice versa. She forgave me. I don't know how it happens, or how many times you need to get spanked, really, but it happens. Just like other Shhht. |
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Let's see, the POS I married, lied to me.....that's a given. He stole from me repeatedly and, he cheated on me I don't know how many time's. Now, do you honestly think I would EVER have anything good to say about him? There must have been something good about him. Plus, negativity is never good for you. Let go of the anger and get to a point where you can honestly wish him the best and forgive him. It is healthier for you that way. We forgive people for ourselves not for them. |
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Let's see, the POS I married, lied to me.....that's a given. He stole from me repeatedly and, he cheated on me I don't know how many time's. Now, do you honestly think I would EVER have anything good to say about him?
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Gotta love Mingle members...
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I gotta get back in this place. I don't know anyone any more. Hey Frank!
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homestudy fallout
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Or for that matter, am I just completely overreacting? You're not over reacting. You were offended. You have every right to acknowledge your feeling's toward his comment's. If you want to keep the peace, maybe you should not go back. If you said something, you would get upset. Then again, you might make them think. |
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The Far Side Comics
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I hope they brought some smiles to ya. 
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