talks about their exs.

First and foremost, you can discover if they are self responsible because no relationship being bad is all one person's fault even if the only fault of one of them is choosing the wrong person for themselves.

You can read from their conversation whether they have certain issues, ie needy, self esteem issues, etc... Also if there is going to be drama in your relationship with them, it will be apparent in their talk of the ex. If they bad mouth the ex, there is going to be problems, especially if it is with a vengeful tone or hateful tone.

If there is still a lot of pain when they talk of the ex, they are not over her/him. Back off until they get over them.

Just some observations.

I donno......kinda hard to discern what they are moaning about when they are biting the sheets and screaming into a pillow.....kinda sounds like "Oh God! Oh God"....but, I guess it could be something about them taking responsibilities for previous failed relationships now that I think about it.................

What if they have like 4 or 5 or 6 exs? Then the date will be talking about the exs in xs.

Too many exes would scare me off.

excess exes are a red flag

Tried to bite my lip,

So you think,you might be that good

And how good are you out of the bed is the question?

Let's see, the POS I married, lied to me.....that's a given. He stole from me repeatedly and, he cheated on me I don't know how many time's. Now, do you honestly think I would EVER have anything good to say about him?

So what is excess? in x's that is? 1, 2, 3, 4????

Absolutely! I used to have a friend who had worked for the government as a tax auditor/investigator. He said to me that whenever at a party or somewhere he'd mention what he did for a livign, people spontaneously and very self-destructively, but as if it were the most natural thing to do, told him exactly how they cheat on their taxes, how they get away with it, and how long they've been practicing that.

The guy said he could not believe it. He said he had always specially emphasized to his vis-a-vis that it had been his JOB, currently, and it'd been his DUTY to report any fraud or tax evasion. People had listened to him, with eyes affixed on him, on his lips, they quietly had taken in what he had re-iterated and then everyone had gone on describing the precise details how exactly they had cheated on their taxes.

I have five but I just won't stay if it isn't right. I am still friends with most of them.

I don't have too much to say about the exs anymore. I have been single since 2004.

I can talk a lot about dating...lol

My cursor is blinking tonite on this site, do you think it's the site, or my computer? Last night, I deleted alot of programs trying to free up space, do you think this might be the cause of my blinking cursor?

They can also form a formidable voting block during an election.

I know huh...

There must have been something good about him.

Plus, negativity is never good for you. Let go of the anger and get to a point where you can honestly wish him the best and forgive him. It is healthier for you that way.

We forgive people for ourselves not for them.

LOL

I am reeeeaaallly good! And I am humble about it too!

When I take a date to an art gallery....I got more to say than joking about the tiny peckers on the fat cherubs on classical art.

When I take them for late night coffee....I ain't nervous about the cops sitting there sucking down thier coffee and donuts....no warrants! yay!

When it comes to philosophy......I can recite more than a good Calvin and Hobbes comic strip.

When it comes to religion.......I am smart enough to shut my heathen mouth.

When it comes to them yammering on about thier friggen ex's....I slap a really interested look on my face...I nod my head and seem genuinely curious though in reality I am replaying the Gilligan's Island episode where Mary Ann is tied to a tree by the one gorilla on the island. God I loved those shorts and the Gingham top.



I know that I will seem like an arrogant prick for saying it.....but, I AM that damned good.

Think what you like........never met a woman who didn't like a confident man.........and I am full of it! hehehehehehe

I agree keep them screaming and they wont have time to talk about their exes.