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hi, so i have never had a relationship ever. i want to know what is off putting about me? lol anyone answer? to be fair i dont actually go out and i keep to myself, im probably autistic or something i dunno. also look at that huge vein on my head, thats totally because ive been single my entire life. it really shows! lol (they removed my head vein photo but the one with the htler looking tash is ok? lol) All the advice given by others here is good, you do need to Mingle more on the outside, hobby clubs, sports clubs, further education, wherever your interests are, places where you meet people in a social setting. In my opinion you need to look at your personal appearance, not that there is anything wrong with how you look now, here is what I mean I found this on the internet: "Personal appearance is an individual's overall presentation, including their dress, grooming, and nonverbal communication, which significantly influences first impressions and is important for professional and personal identity. It encompasses both external elements like clothing and hairstyle, and internal aspects such as posture and demeanor, and can affect perceptions in both social and professional settings. " I would suggest you change your hairstyle to something shorter, shave off your beard and moustache, more women prefer clean cut and shaven men. Remember, your goal here is to attract more women, so in my opinion you need to change your appearance, because the way you are now just isn't working for you. Looking more like the average and usual guy in the street is definitely worth a try. Good luck in your search. |
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Topic:
Looking to find someone
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Welcome and good luck in your search.
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Westlife.
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Unit 4 Plus 2.
Good morning delightful!
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However it begins for you, better to take the time to learn all about each other before taking a big step in to marriage in my opinion..
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mingle2 real people
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Give it time you have just joined, but you have arrived at the right place, the forums on here. This is where you can meet the real people, welcome and good luck in your search.
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S Club 7.
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I married my late wife just two weeks after we met, and we spent 25 wonderful years together. Some called it rushed, but we knew what we felt — and we were right. Fate brought us together, and I still believe it can happen again, even later in life. Now that I’m starting a new chapter, I’m curious: how do you approach love and connection after 50? Has your idea of a relationship changed over the years? I’d love to hear your thoughts — and maybe find someone who still believes in the magic of real connection. I don't believe in fate, we all choose our own directions in life in my opinion, however it may turn out. It's never too late to look for love, but better to have a longer courtship, to make sure you are compatible and right for each other. Over 50 you are more likely to be established in life with more to consider than when you were 25. Good luck in your search. |
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Topic:
Men & Women being friends
Edited by
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I have become friends with women by meeting them in situations such as work, evening class, parties, and it has remained as friendship. Dating someone and finding it's not a match, is where I would not want to become friends, for all the reasons mentioned here. Difficult sometimes to see the difference between kindness and interest, your kindness in accepting his visits may have been interpreted by him as possible interest, perhaps he was only seeing what he wanted to see. In my opinion, failed romantic dates should end there, and not morph in to friendship, because if it was one-sided you are storing up more pain down the road for them, or more heartache for you knowing it will never go anywhere. Yes, part as friends, but leave it there.
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Looking for an older partner
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I feel older women care more Cougars may care more for your body, than they do for you, why do you think they are called cougars. |
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Edited by
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Well, I'm glad you are here, hoping to catch the benefit of your voice on relationships.
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Let's not forget this is both a dating and social site, you can be here for one or the other or both. In my opinion there needs to be that mutual attraction, similar goals, values, and compatibility, and wanting to make things work. Taking the time to learn about each other by becoming best of friends, before making the big leap in to marriage or living together.
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Good communication
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Without good communication on both sides, friendship or romance will not develop in my opinion.
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Oasis.
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Mindbenders, The.
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Topic:
Your Popularity Meter
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Ladies, put up those beach photos, should boost your popularity if not your score.
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Lied to and Scammed
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I have several photos, none are blurred, photos should help paint a picture of who you are in my opinion. After exchanging a few emails here with someone, suggest a video call if you feel comfortable with it, scammers will not want that so should help you filtering them out. Good luck in your search.
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King Crimson.
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INXS.
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Good morning delightful!