and the point again for the reason why women shop is for food, kids, household items, and now days with women being independant and not being the princess and wait for her car to be fixed or applicances to be fixed. Me i intimadate males here cause i can build a shed, tile, plaster, fix lawnmowers and other appliances as well as them....
So want i want to know cheer-up how much do u love to shop n wat do u shop for....

I've wonder for so many years now,
i've wondered what my life is all about,
what is my purpose here n fulfillment,
what is it that i am to do here in this life.

I've done alot in my life,
from high's n low's,
to the stage where i've lost faith,
am i able to discover or find myself.

Does it run in circles all the time,
or does it go up n down till it stops,
will it help if i press this button,
for my life to find where it should begin.

It seems like a game of cat and mouse,
feeling like a snake slipping down every ladder,
should i stop and put my mind in motion,
to see where i go from here.

When does this wheel stop spinning,
so i can stand on my own two feet,
so i can which direction i am to go,
so my life can begin n be happy...

Why do i feel so empty,
why is it that my heart aches,
it feels like it is bleeding,
without your love.

Feel i have lost you,
feel that you have found someone else,
that has made the spark fade,
even from my eyes and smile.

You seem so distant and far away,
since the time i heard from you last,
not a word from u in weeks,
has made my heart ache for you more.

My smile has turned upside down, the sparkle gone from my eyes,
with all the pain that my heart feels,
cause yr love has been gone for days.

I waited and waited to hear from you,
not an email or a call to let me know.
How you are or whats going on,
only the game of guessing whats going on.

The thoughts of you run through my mind,
your words stain my heart n mind,
how caan my heart take this pain,
as it build a brick wall again.

I never felt so lost ever in my life,
the days so gloomy n dark,
so lonely, just want to cry all the time,
since i lost you all those years without a word.

did u know that a song was made up for overseas tourists warning them about all the deadliest animals in australia especially queensland cause in the whole of australia we have the eight most deadliest animals that can kill u on land n water. And u wonder way we say crikey all tha time... :-)

hey cheer-up this cud be an on going debate with this but that study u looked up just seems for US can u say which part of the US cause i bag to differ that yr search should be for wide spread all over the world... Challenge mate!!!! cause men love to shop just as much as women..

nah sorry cheer up that status would be for americans(no punt taken ladies) but did u look up australia stastics, men here love their man toys, we shop for the toys that come with the man that knows how to work it.....
Sorry ladies but us aussie chicks do most of the work cause the only muscle that some aussie guys use is the bend of the elbow for the beer to reach the mouth...(jks) don't want them thrown in me to the bottom of the pit... But come on honesty hurts..

it is nice to have male opinions as well as females and with all that has been said i not only took note of advice which i asked for and yes we spoke but in the end burnt ones, twice and three times this little black duck has followed her heart n the brick wall did not cave it. Cause the second time we spoke all he did was talk about his ex, and that just put the alarm bells in motion... But this does not mean i give up or think that all males r the same...

i cringe at that word, for all the times i've been told i worship u, the ground u walk on.... Wat just to be put on a pedstal for being kind, not judge ppl and just to be dragged off for that next women he worships.... Lol
to worshipping is for the church...

i've seen men shop worse then women, pretty boys for their appearence, then u have the man man which u flash a fishing, tools, and any new toy (lawn mower or power tool) i have seen them race to a shop to buy even a new part for that beaut of a car, so men r just a bigger shopper as a women is...

it depends on the women, if she is a shopaholic, just a bargin shopper (which i am). I can not speak for all women, i budget to want n needs, for kids and house.

i think the question that should have been asked is.....
Why.... are u kinda curious if there is black women on here? If it is not about booty or colour....

thanks for the advice and have thought lot about it n no man that can't lie in bed straight is worth it. And with the speaking fluent BS well if i knew wat school u went to i'd sign up.
I've decided he isn't worth it and i need to concerntrate on myself first.... Thanks again.

this was taken at xmas time but do have an update one before i signed up on here on my pics. And u can tell it recent for the length of my hair...

and sorry it was 1977 when the white buffalo first come onto the big screen... And the part that always sticks with me is when the bull comes charging through the forest torwards his tent. And being only 11 and the old theatre sounds were so loud.... And i finally found place that has ordered the movie in for me on dvd. So in two weeks time i will introducing my kids to the classic movie. Which they love the oldies...

well ladies n gents, i followed my head but when he flew in he came and seen me, so we talked about it , as we were chatting his ex texted him confessing to have lied about them sleeping together cause she wasn't happy that he has moved on... The dragon.... So i'm thankful for the advice. And i know hee didn't put her up to it cause of the way he was talking about her and i lived with a cheater who bashed me for 7 years so i know alll the tell tale signs. Cause my ex not only cheated on mee but had me n three other women pregnant n going outt with a chick ten yrss younger then him... So i think i am ok with the new one forr he showed remorse where my ex's never did....

in 1974 mum took us to see the White Buffalo and have never seen or heard of that movie again. It had charles bronsan in it.... And to this day there was a movie on after it that scared the jeepers out of us kids and we cannot remember the name but have been scared by bits n pieces of it....

you r all right, the more i think about it, my head says to move on' chin up n smile cause if he has done it once in this short time wat says he won't do it again with his ex when he visits his son...
Thanks everyone for the advice...

thats the thing my head n heart is saying talk it through and make ground rules for he only sees his son once a month for they live far away... But again i've had this happen so many times to me but they were never as sorry about it as he is...

been with a guy for a week and he had to rush to his sons side in hospital, that was all cool until he just texted me saying i'm sorry and it was a big mistake but i slept with my ex... Which lives in another state... He keeps saying how much of a stuff up it is and it should never of happened... What should i do.