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Topic: Single Black Ladies.....
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Thu 07/21/11 09:19 PM
I'm kind of curious.....spock
Does Mingle have any single black ladies?flowerforyou

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Sat 07/23/11 06:48 AM

I'm kind of curious.....spock
Does Mingle have any single black ladies?flowerforyou
Lots of them but i wouldn't mind the colour of the skin what matters is love

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Sat 07/23/11 06:48 AM

I'm kind of curious.....spock
Does Mingle have any single black ladies?flowerforyou
Lots of them but i wouldn't mind the colour of the skin what matters is love

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Sat 07/23/11 06:58 AM
Edited by Up2Us on Sat 07/23/11 07:09 AM


I'm kind of curious.....spock
Does Mingle have any single black ladies?flowerforyou
Lots of them but i wouldn't mind the colour of the skin what matters is love
I agree, skin color is not a issue.
Not to me at least.glasses

I'm kind of curious.....spock
Does Mingle have any single black ladies?flowerforyou

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Sat 07/23/11 08:16 AM
Edited by Spidercmb on Sat 07/23/11 08:16 AM
Not all the single ladies are black. Some are from Asia. If Fat Bottom Girls are what you want, you can't go wrong with a Latin Girl.

But it doesn't matter if the woman you end up with is Black or White, so long as you are both live your life with happy, happy / joy joy.

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Sat 07/23/11 09:06 AM

Not all the single ladies are black. Some are from Asia. If Fat Bottom Girls are what you want, you can't go wrong with a Latin Girl.

But it doesn't matter if the woman you end up with is Black or White, so long as you are both live your life with happy, happy / joy joy.
Actually fat bottom girls come in any color...laugh

My question is not a black or white issue.
Let me reiterate once again, it's not a color issue period.
Not at least for me....smokin

I'm kind of curious.....spock
Does Mingle have any single black ladies?flowerforyou

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Sat 07/23/11 11:29 PM
Um, yes. They are here, and some are post regularly in the Forums. One of those is listed among my friends here on Mingle. Another one only posts here and there now because she recently joined the Air Force.

But I think I see your point. Not many of the single black women do post in the Forums. Seems like many people only give the site a try for a few weeks before they give up. Perhaps that is part of the problem?

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Sun 07/24/11 12:15 PM

Um, yes. They are here, and some are post regularly in the Forums. One of those is listed among my friends here on Mingle. Another one only posts here and there now because she recently joined the Air Force.

But I think I see your point. Not many of the single black women do post in the Forums. Seems like many people only give the site a try for a few weeks before they give up. Perhaps that is part of the problem?
There seem to be only a few posting....spock

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Sat 08/13/11 09:16 PM
I just got on thissite & I'll tell you. I haveny seen many of them on here either. We are just going through the motions of finding the right type of site for us to find the one in.

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Sat 08/13/11 09:20 PM
Edited by Up2Us on Sat 08/13/11 09:23 PM

I just got on this site & I'll tell you. I haven't seen many of them on here either. We are just going through the motions of finding the right type of site for us to find the one in.
Interesting..... smokin

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Mon 10/17/11 07:38 AM
we are here, where are you?flowerforyou

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Mon 10/17/11 01:04 PM
Edited by Up2Us on Mon 10/17/11 01:05 PM

we are here, where are you?flowerforyou
Wow... your first post..... welcome..flowerforyou

I'm here seeking & waiting.....on my soul mate & enjoying the site. :wink:


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Thu 12/15/11 02:42 PM
Yes! I have to agree with you on that. I'm having a very hard time finding a site that men will even considering dating black women. Even on Black Dating Sites; the men are looking for Asian, White or Latin women. So I'm checking things out, and this site is not very Black Female Friendly. Just my opinion thus far.

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Thu 12/15/11 03:53 PM

Yes! I have to agree with you on that. I'm having a very hard time finding a site that men will even considering dating black women. Even on Black Dating Sites; the men are looking for Asian, White or Latin women. So I'm checking things out, and this site is not very Black Female Friendly. Just my opinion thus far.


That's crazy, you are beautiful. I think you'll find that there are a number of white men who are open to (if not eager for) a black girlfriend.

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Thu 12/15/11 04:40 PM
I think the problem is more that so many of the active members are so far flung.

During my time on Mingle, there appears to be a lot of "just passing through" members. After a short time without much luck, they just move on to the next dating site, never staying long enough at any of them to truly find a match.

And then there are the "silent members" who are here, and have been for quite some time, but they rarely, if ever, post in the forums.

After that come the fake profiles, whether they are scammers, solicitors, or just active members secretly perving on a crush. I'm not sure that the last really happens, I suppose it's possible. Regardless, these profiles may contact a number of people and then disappear for no apparent reason.

So, the active members likely make up just a small percentage of the total membership here on Mingle.

From what I've seen, most of the active members live far apart from the others. One of the few exceptions seem to be Texas. Several active members are from there. Another exception is California, which is probably second to Texas in active members. Outside of those two states, the population density of Minglers appears to drop off dramatically, unless you turn to overseas members.

That's my observation at least. The active members seem to be fairly open-minded to interracial relationships. And because active members are a relatively small group, the chances of finding a black woman from the U.S. drop proportionally. What we need are more black women who stick with the site longer than a few weeks, or who post more regularly in the forums. The increase would likely appear much larger than it really is.


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Sat 12/17/11 08:19 PM
@actionlynx

Wow! You have pretty good insight. Maybe you should work here, lol!

But seriously, you bring up some interesting points. Perhaps you should send your thoughts to someone in charge at Mingle2. I'll stick around for a bit, see what happens. I'm trying to make some new friends as well, so wish me luck!

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Sat 12/17/11 08:25 PM


Yes! I have to agree with you on that. I'm having a very hard time finding a site that men will even considering dating black women. Even on Black Dating Sites; the men are looking for Asian, White or Latin women. So I'm checking things out, and this site is not very Black Female Friendly. Just my opinion thus far.


That's crazy, you are beautiful. I think you'll find that there are a number of white men who are open to (if not eager for) a black girlfriend.


Thank you! Well so far no luck. I don't care about race or color, I'm just looking for a nice guy, and hopefully make some new friends as well. But that's kind of hard to achieve if people don't post or stick around. But thank's for commenting. I'll stick around and check things out.

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Sat 12/17/11 11:29 PM
The Mods have likely already read my post. Some of them are members too, and they police the Forums to keep the peace.

There are a lot of great people who are active in the Forums. I've even spoken to a few on the phone. But all of us are so spread out, that it's tough to even meet them in person. Some do manage, and they post the photos here.

So far I have had two long-distance girlfriends here on Mingle. One Asian. One Black. But I had to wait about three months after joining before someone came along. Most people don't give it that long. They're in a rush for results.

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Sat 12/17/11 11:32 PM

I'm kind of curious.....spock
Does Mingle have any single black ladies?flowerforyou


There are plenty....few are my friends too...happy

....what do you wish to do to them??pitchfork

laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 12/18/11 02:44 AM

Not all the single ladies are black. Some are from Asia. If Fat Bottom Girls are what you want, you can't go wrong with a Latin Girl.

But it doesn't matter if the woman you end up with is Black or White, so long as you are both live your life with happy, happy / joy joy.


Isn't that basically from a Michael Jackson song? laugh

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