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Mon 05/03/10 02:14 PM
Edited by Cinderella75 on Mon 05/03/10 02:15 PM

i've found that when it comes to online dating, i am far more particular about a person's looks than i am in real life.

on a website, all we have to base our decision on whether interest exists IS a photo, and a few words on a profile.

it makes them not meeting the grade that much easier, whereas in the real world, my attraction level tends to build as i'm getting to know the person and they do become more handsome.


My thoughts exactly.
In person you can also take things such as voice, the way they carry themselves, the way they laugh etc... into consideration. Whereas on here you can just go by their pics and the 1-2 sentence blurb they provide.
I am wayy more picky on who I talk to on here than I am in person. Pics on a profile to me, are important.

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Sun 05/02/10 10:36 PM

What is the best way to deal with rejection and heartbreak? I had met someone on here that I spent alot of time with to only find out that they were only messing with my emotions and feelings. How would you deal with this, would you confront them or would you just put it behind you and move on? sad I am so sick of being taken advantage of I open my heart to someone and allow them to come into my life. I can't help the way that I am maybe I am trying to hard.


Yea, thats tough. no one likes to be rejected, but we all get rejected at some point in our lives. As far as to just move on or to confront them, well it depends. What do you expect to get out of the confrontation? Maybe some closure? Or reconciliation? What if that person is a coward (which if she was playing with your emotions, sounds liek she was leading you on already), and will not give that to you? Best advice I can give, is try to move on. It will take a while, but it is probably a better option that to confront them. I don't think there is anything gained from asking someone on what 'went wrong'.
Sorry to hear that things did not work out for you, but it was probably for the best.

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Sun 05/02/10 10:27 PM

Try dating a normal girl that won't bang other dudes and won't text you right after she has sex with someone else


That would be my advice.
Don't make her a priority, when she is making you an option.
I know that is hard to realize, but the more you dwell on this, the more you'll get hurt. Trust me on this. Move on.flowerforyou

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Sun 05/02/10 04:48 PM
I'm sure you know by now that I don't believe in flattery.. but honestly, I find you very attractive.:wink:

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Fri 04/30/10 09:08 PM
I've met a few local guys from this site...

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Fri 04/30/10 09:04 PM
Wow, Mike! Your thread...Six pages?? Really? YOU ARE the mingle heart throb.. :wink:

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Fri 04/30/10 08:55 PM

please be truthful how do u think i look am i cutie hot ugly or sexy



"you can't handle the truth!"



















you are a sexy beast! ;)

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Fri 04/30/10 08:46 PM

A little bit more info in your profile would be great. Although alot of people do not read the blurb part, some of us do. ;)


This was for the Original Poster. (OP)

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Fri 04/30/10 07:48 PM
the pics have me curious, but I'd want to know more about you before I'd even think about e-mailing you. Now where is my "Thank You". :P

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Fri 04/30/10 07:46 PM
Gotta vacuum the house and mop the floors, but I am too tried.

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Fri 04/30/10 07:44 PM
A little bit more info in your profile would be great. Although alot of people do not read the blurb part, some of us do. ;)

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Wed 04/21/10 07:46 PM
we'd have some serious problems...cuz I don't share.

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Wed 04/21/10 07:43 PM

Loving somebody who beats the crap out of you is like signing your own death certificate people need to wise up


yea, I'll never understand it either. Getting the crap beaten out of you is a sign of disrespect, not love. If a guy ever violently lays a hand on me he is signing HIS death certificate. I won't put up with that sh#t.

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Wed 04/21/10 07:36 PM

I like voices a lot.

also...noses? yeah...don't ask.

But really, making me laugh is the best!laugh


I agree, a man's voice...hot. Especially when its a bit raspy....mmmm

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Wed 04/21/10 07:31 PM
intriguing eyes and a great sense of humor. I LOVE that!

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Tue 04/20/10 08:50 PM
I love horror movies. Zombies, Rage Virus, Possession, Paranormal.

Here are some of my faves:

28 days later
Texas Chainsaw Massacre
Paranormal Activity
Session 9 (whackiest movei I have ever seen)
The Exorcist
Donnie Darko
Devils Rejects
Terminator 1 and 2
Halloween (Rob Zombie remakes)
Hostel (the first one)
Nightmare on Elmstreet (most of them, but not all of them, can't wait for the new one to come out! )
Titanic (Yes, I cried when Leonardo DiCaprio died..)
Shutter Island (that was a good movie)
Amityville Horror (the one with Ryan Reynolds)
The Ring (the first one only)
Shallow Hal (Jack Black is hilarious..lol)
The Hangover
Forest Gump


Shoot, there is just too many...lol

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Tue 04/20/10 08:28 PM
Approach with caution! lol

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Tue 04/20/10 07:34 PM
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, my friend!flowers

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Tue 04/20/10 07:22 PM
I love flowers... I prefer to see them in nature tho, not in a Vase.
If you wanna give me flowers surprise me and take me out to a beautiful flowerfield...thats much more romatic. I hate seeing things die, and flowers in a vase last for only like a week.

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Tue 04/20/10 07:16 PM
hey darling, how have you been? Thanks for making me smile! :smile:

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