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Edited by
Cinderella75
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Wed 05/19/10 06:27 PM
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I dunno, "Shiny, happy people holding hands??" lol
I don't want some sad crap. Maybe some Master of Puppets or Justice for all... If I die rich Metallica better be performing at my funeral.. there will be moshpits and just one friggen big party..YEAH! Best funeral EVER! |
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Korean Michael Jackson?
Edited by
Cinderella75
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Wed 05/19/10 06:10 PM
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Ok I watched it...
Sorry, but no one compares to Michael Jackson. I did like the Ninja Assassin Movie tho. |
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Slow down  Glad you're having a good conversation with her - enjoy it - don't worry about moving to France just yet.  As long at it continues online you should be able to keep up with the translator but if it progresses you might want to learn the language. In real life you won't have a translator and communication, to me, is crucial in a relationship.
Best wishes 
Well I posted another reply and it timed out or something. I'll just say that I do plan on taking it slow. I am going to another website so I can translate poems from English to French. Are poems a good idea? No, since poems tend to get lost in translation. |
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I found myself interested in a much younger man.... him 22 me 42... we have now been together a year and 5 months... things were pretty rocky a first and became great... we seemed to both have very strong feelings for each other... problems... he uses his age as an excuse to be immature and continue with habits that keep him from getting a good job.. he recently landed a job and has now decided he doesnt want anyone "holding him back" ??? Idont know what to make of this.. one day he loves me more than anything and wants me and the next he has a friend ask him to go out and he doesnt want me. i think i have become too involved in hoping to help him become a better person and lost sight of the fact that i dont think he wants the same right now. what do i do... let him go... everyone says i can do much better..his mouth is mean and hurtful... but he lives with his folks that are that way to each other every single day... im hopelessly lost here...i really am a pretty lady and am always guessed the age of 29-31... its not that i was looking for that young of a person..it just happened and i fell. amy advice?? Well honestly, he's 22 years old, and he probably feels that he still needs to get his feet wet. You two have been dating for over a year now, that's a really long time for a guy his age. He's watching his buddies jumping from one girl to another, while he is still dating you. I am sure he is a bit curious. The more you are trying to control him, the more he will turn you away. I'd say give him some space. Maybe even dump him... He will then see what he is truly missing. If he says mean and hateful things to you, he has lost respect and appreciation for you. He's taking you for granted right now. No one deserves to be taken for granted. There are a lot of hot, young sweeties out there that would love a chance with a mature woman, who has great life experiences, for a committed relationship. |
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Edited by
Cinderella75
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Tue 05/18/10 02:30 PM
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I think there is a spark betweem moi and a beautiful woman who happens to live in France. I have been online with her for nearly 4 freakin hours!!!!! She knows some english...but thats a generous "some". I know zero french--but do understand some of the words since there is a spanish-french similarity. I took spanish in college. I used english-french website to translate. And it worked really well. But my heart is pounding like crazy. I'm not sure how to handle this. One side of me is pulling saying go for it. The other is saying something different. I am willing to take the time to show I am a real person who cares. But the language barrier scares me. I am willing to move to France if it comes to that. But in the meantime, I need to know how to deal with situation. She also has a 6 Y.O son (where is Richard Dawson when you need him--"survey says"!!!.....) What does the jury say to this delima? Wow, you talked to her for 4 hours... and you are already thinking about possibly moving to France?? Ha ha she put a spell on you! Well, I would just continue talking to her, and if you feel like this in a few days, maybe enroll in a French Class at your local community college. Its kinda odd tho, that your french online friend cannot speak fluently, or at least close to fluent english. Learning english is mandatory in all public schools in Europe. I know in France and Germany for sure. Its equally important as math or reading and writing... (I know cuz I went to a public european school in germany) Her english should hold you two over for a while..if not there is always google translator...ha ha Good Luck! |
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Topic:
NHL 2010 PLAYOFFS
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Go.....Blackhawks! Yea Yea... You just got the hots for Patrick Kane... admit it!
 I do, I do! Mr. Kane is the shiat! ha ha
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Favorite Covers
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Ordinary World by RED (Duran Duran Original)I love that SONG! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sisqm8AUQsY I never heard this before. Wow, Duran Duran, takes me right back to school in the 80's. ha ha that song by Duran Duran was orginally from the early 90's..lol but the Red version RAWKS! ;) |
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Learning Guitar
Edited by
Cinderella75
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Mon 05/17/10 01:24 PM
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Learn how to read guitar tabs. (its not that hard to learn)
Here is an awesome site.. http://www.ultimate-guitar.com/ This site pretty much has the tabs to any song you can think of. You don't even have to know how to read music. also youtube.com has plenty online guitar tutorials. |
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Favorite Covers
Edited by
Cinderella75
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Mon 05/17/10 01:14 PM
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Ordinary World by RED (Duran Duran Original)I love that SONG!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sisqm8AUQsY Running up that Hill by PLACEBO (Kate Bush Original) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4KEEXyRL0qE Welcome Home Sanitarium by BULLET FOR MY VALENTINE (originally by Metallica) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FYkbPeeUDxU Epic by ATREYU (Orginally by Faith No More) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m2DD4LwNe_c |
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Topic:
NHL 2010 PLAYOFFS
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Go.....Blackhawks!
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Look for a store close by that sells lube ... NOT the kind you buy for your car, either ...  surprisingly... childish.
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How would you react?
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Cinderella75
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Mon 05/17/10 12:33 PM
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(Okay, granted what I will tell you is the bare min.... but I mainly want to see what other people's reaction would be the the follow situation.) You are laying down taking a nap. Your boyfriend says his friends in the apartment complex are having a bbq and he wants to go and that he'll keep an eye on your son. 'Okay, no problem' So, at some point, your son comes home taddling that the adults (all adults (mostly younger) are at the bbq) are calling him names. (son is 7 years old and very sensitive). So you call your boyfriend and he says that they were calling him scooby-doo and shaggy and those aren't bad names. (I don't recall what my response was, but remember telling my son I would take care of it). So, I put on my shoes and grab my keys and start walking out the door towards the courtyard where they are bbq'ing. (I was a little groggy from napping, but not pissed or upset). I first see my son (closer to me) fixing the chain on his bike. So I go over there first. I don't even think that I had time to say anything to my son; when the group bbq'ing started laughing.... I look up and my boyfriend is practically running and skipping (looking totally goofy, like a little boy that got caught doing something wrong) from the group bbq'ing while talking on the phone. (This isn't the first time that when around these people that he has been rude or done something 'funny'). SO..... what would you do? Go back home, try to find where he was going to, ???? What's your reaction? mad, angry, confused, happy, tickled pink? he was just showing off in front of his buddies...sounds like a childish bunch to me, which in that case, I'd be soo turned off... ummm he definitely wouldn't get any that night...that's for sure. |
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Sugar Mouse...
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Oh sweet buttermilk biscuits. Dude........DUDE!!!! You are "no one's type"? Do you realize that women will like a guy that will (a) talk to them and (b) be themself? So you may strike out. You might talk to five or ten chicks before you find a chick that you connect with. But what stops most people from making the effort is rejection. That is the biggest fear of them all, and most people can't handle it. Fawk that! I was that way once, and I am all about seizing a moment. Why not? You never know what is going to happen unless you nut up and go for it. Yeah, it takes alot to do, but once you realize that you shouldn't fear rejection, it becomes easier. Ever ask yourself how those "bad boys" get the chicks? Well, they don't fear anything. If one chick says no to them, they simply move to the next chick (until one says yes). Harsh, but it is true. And that 6ft blonde that is all leg....or that red head with the nice body and nice boobs...and that brunette with the sexy dress on and desireable lips...they will all be with those "bad boys" because those dudes nutted up and talked to them. I have dated all different "types" of women. Why? Well, I liked them and wanted to know more. Or, they liked me and came to me. But my point is, saying you aren't someone's type is an excuse dude. You would be amazed at what you will discover just by talking to a girl. There you have it. Best Advice! 
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LOL..I bet you are on her block list now, tho...lol
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getting tired of this crap
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well we know where your mind is..
no actually my mind is on eating some cookies at another failed attempt to gain weight lol yea, stop making all of us women jealous..I wouldn't mind a cookie and a glass of milk right now.... but I'd way 300lbs if I did that...*sigh* Sorry C I don't believe it... You are mega hot... 
Likewise, but you're ULTRA HOT! Thats hotter than MEGA! 
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getting tired of this crap
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so i met this one girl on another dating site about 4 months ago and been talking ever since. we hit it off really good and she says she likes me a lot and we have been so into eachother. so just a couple weeks ago i ask her to be my girlfriend and she says yes she would love that....and then ever since she's been ignoring me! she dont reply to my messages, she doesnt answer my calls, i call her on blocked numbers, she answers and when she realizes its me she hangs up? what the *** gives? this is the 3rd time this has happened! i'm getting so sick of this crap and about ready to give up and stay single the rest of my life. all i ever do is get used and played with Excuse me, but one question still looms.... Did you ever meet her in person? wtf my reply didnt post? but anyways yea we did meet on the night i asked her to be my gf. i probably should have put that in there. we had so much fun together and when i did ask her, she told me she was hoping i would ask cause she really "liked" me. but then the day after thats when she literally stopped talking to me and ignored me. ok well, that is going to change my originally intended answer for you completely then...ha ha Good thing I asked first. :P So if I get this straight you guys talked for a bit online... and the night you guys met for the first time you asked her to be your girl friend, right? And she said "Yes" claiming she really liked you too. Did you guys get intimate that night? Or did you make sexual advances towards her, but she wasn't really ready? If you guys did, she may feel a bit uncomfortable after that. That could be one scenario.... more than likely if you guys had sex, thats what that is. The other scenario, lets say you guys didn't have sex, and she does not return your phonecalls and ignores you and hangs up when you call (which, sorry pal, sounds a bit stalkerish... you may wanna lay off on doing that... just saying), it just means that she was not sincere when she said "Yes" the first time. You kinda put her on the spot, and she maybe was just being nice when you asked her. Either way tho, the best thing is to give her some space. She has your number, she knows you like her, you laid it out there on the table for her, the ball is in her court, so back off a little and don't seem so desperate and stalkerish, cuz that will only turn her away from you even further.. Who knows maybe in a few weeks down the road she will contact you again...very unlikely, but theres a chance. But I would not initate any further contact with her. Some people just have a hard time just saying straight up:" I am not interested in you.". Those people think that they are being nice, by just not saying anything, ignoring you, when in all reality their cop-out is making it harder for you to move on, always wondering "what if" and " and maybe they do like me, but they are just shy..etc". Yes, the truth hurts sometimes, but it pays off in the long run.
nope we never had any sex Well, then its her "cop-out". She was not sincere to begin with.... move on. |
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getting tired of this crap
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well we know where your mind is..
no actually my mind is on eating some cookies at another failed attempt to gain weight lol yea, stop making all of us women jealous..I wouldn't mind a cookie and a glass of milk right now.... but I'd way 300lbs if I did that...*sigh* |
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getting tired of this crap
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so i met this one girl on another dating site about 4 months ago and been talking ever since. we hit it off really good and she says she likes me a lot and we have been so into eachother. so just a couple weeks ago i ask her to be my girlfriend and she says yes she would love that....and then ever since she's been ignoring me! she dont reply to my messages, she doesnt answer my calls, i call her on blocked numbers, she answers and when she realizes its me she hangs up? what the *** gives? this is the 3rd time this has happened! i'm getting so sick of this crap and about ready to give up and stay single the rest of my life. all i ever do is get used and played with Excuse me, but one question still looms.... Did you ever meet her in person? wtf my reply didnt post? but anyways yea we did meet on the night i asked her to be my gf. i probably should have put that in there. we had so much fun together and when i did ask her, she told me she was hoping i would ask cause she really "liked" me. but then the day after thats when she literally stopped talking to me and ignored me. ok well, that is going to change my originally intended answer for you completely then...ha ha Good thing I asked first. :P So if I get this straight you guys talked for a bit online... and the night you guys met for the first time you asked her to be your girl friend, right? And she said "Yes" claiming she really liked you too. Did you guys get intimate that night? Or did you make sexual advances towards her, but she wasn't really ready? If you guys did, she may feel a bit uncomfortable after that. That could be one scenario.... more than likely if you guys had sex, thats what that is. The other scenario, lets say you guys didn't have sex, and she does not return your phonecalls and ignores you and hangs up when you call (which, sorry pal, sounds a bit stalkerish... you may wanna lay off on doing that... just saying), it just means that she was not sincere when she said "Yes" the first time. You kinda put her on the spot, and she maybe was just being nice when you asked her. Either way tho, the best thing is to give her some space. She has your number, she knows you like her, you laid it out there on the table for her, the ball is in her court, so back off a little and don't seem so desperate and stalkerish, cuz that will only turn her away from you even further.. Who knows maybe in a few weeks down the road she will contact you again...very unlikely, but theres a chance. But I would not initate any further contact with her. Some people just have a hard time just saying straight up:" I am not interested in you.". Those people think that they are being nice, by just not saying anything, ignoring you, when in all reality their cop-out is making it harder for you to move on, always wondering "what if" and " and maybe they do like me, but they are just shy..etc". Yes, the truth hurts sometimes, but it pays off in the long run.
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getting tired of this crap
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so i met this one girl on another dating site about 4 months ago and been talking ever since. we hit it off really good and she says she likes me a lot and we have been so into eachother. so just a couple weeks ago i ask her to be my girlfriend and she says yes she would love that....and then ever since she's been ignoring me! she dont reply to my messages, she doesnt answer my calls, i call her on blocked numbers, she answers and when she realizes its me she hangs up? what the *** gives? this is the 3rd time this has happened! i'm getting so sick of this crap and about ready to give up and stay single the rest of my life. all i ever do is get used and played with Excuse me, but one question still looms.... Did you ever meet her in person? |
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