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Topic: When no is no...............
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Sun 09/30/12 05:04 PM
I went on one date with a dude (not from Mingle) and I never want to see him again. He is just NOT getting it. I have told him thirty ways until Sunday that I do NOT want to date him. He keeps texting me. My last text to him was "I do not want to date you." He is still texting. How the heck do I make it more clear???

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Sun 09/30/12 05:05 PM
Dont respond to his texts or calls. You've told him and he still doesn't get up, so ignore him.

wux's photo
Sun 09/30/12 05:10 PM
If I were you, I'd just simply tell him I don't want to date him.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Sun 09/30/12 05:15 PM

If I were you, I'd just simply tell him I don't want to date him.


No means "yes" in penis talk.

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Sun 09/30/12 05:58 PM
Men are idiots with only sex on their minds.

Tell him you are unable to have sex. He'll go away.

OceanTides's photo
Sun 09/30/12 06:04 PM

Dont respond to his texts or calls. You've told him and he still doesn't get up, so ignore him.



but if you take this route then please watch your back. Its seems that he is the type that literally doesn't take 'no' for an answer - if he has no control he may take it further.... be careful.

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Sun 09/30/12 06:08 PM






For an undisclosed amount of cash I can make all this stop.

galendgirl's photo
Sun 09/30/12 06:27 PM

I went on one date with a dude (not from Mingle) and I never want to see him again. He is just NOT getting it. I have told him thirty ways until Sunday that I do NOT want to date him. He keeps texting me. My last text to him was "I do not want to date you." He is still texting. How the heck do I make it more clear???


Quit texting back, don't call and block his number.

DTHRomeo's photo
Sun 09/30/12 06:44 PM
You can always hook him up with another obsessive one

Ya know fight fire with fire ... let them sort it out

That might take a very long time but hey not your problem anymore! LOL


OK , I'm not helping here , I'd take Galendgirl's advice ;)

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Sun 09/30/12 07:37 PM
For some reason, some guys think that just because you're still responding, you must be interested. I'm not a fan of ignoring people, but this is definitely a time where I would. If you don't respond anymore, he'll hopefully run out of steam and leave you alone.

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Sun 09/30/12 07:59 PM

I went on one date with a dude (not from Mingle) and I never want to see him again. He is just NOT getting it. I have told him thirty ways until Sunday that I do NOT want to date him. He keeps texting me. My last text to him was "I do not want to date you." He is still texting. How the heck do I make it more clear???

I say we keep him.
You change your mind every week, and he is steadfast.

Totage's photo
Sun 09/30/12 09:35 PM

I went on one date with a dude (not from Mingle) and I never want to see him again. He is just NOT getting it. I have told him thirty ways until Sunday that I do NOT want to date him. He keeps texting me. My last text to him was "I do not want to date you." He is still texting. How the heck do I make it more clear???


Tell him to stop texting you and stop texting him. If he continues, report him for phone harassment.

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Sun 09/30/12 09:53 PM

I went on one date with a dude (not from Mingle) and I never want to see him again. He is just NOT getting it. I have told him thirty ways until Sunday that I do NOT want to date him. He keeps texting me. My last text to him was "I do not want to date you." He is still texting. How the heck do I make it more clear???



pfft....all us men know that "no" really means "yes" smokin

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Mon 10/01/12 12:01 AM
Terri ..tell him to stop bothering you because you are not interested and this is harassment. Then tell him this is the last time you will answer his texts and follow through.

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Mon 10/01/12 12:06 AM

Terri ..tell him to stop bothering you because you are not interested and this is harassment. Then tell him this is the last time you will answer his texts and follow through.


You like "disappear"?

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Mon 10/01/12 09:25 AM
Edited by Unknow on Mon 10/01/12 09:26 AM

Men are idiots with only sex on their minds.

Yeah, i bet Albert Eistein, Isaac Newton, Galileo Galile, William Shakespere, and a host of other world class MALE inventors and scientists all had sex on their mind... Thumbs up for spotting it out..;-)

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Mon 10/01/12 05:02 PM


I went on one date with a dude (not from Mingle) and I never want to see him again. He is just NOT getting it. I have told him thirty ways until Sunday that I do NOT want to date him. He keeps texting me. My last text to him was "I do not want to date you." He is still texting. How the heck do I make it more clear???

I say we keep him.
You change your mind every week, and he is steadfast.


^^ This.

markc48's photo
Mon 10/01/12 06:22 PM
Yep. Sounds like he's a keeper. All the other ones left.

jacktrades's photo
Mon 10/01/12 07:52 PM
Tell him your doctor said you have to wait 3 to 4 weeks until things clear up

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Wed 10/03/12 11:37 AM
Invite all your guy friends to your home. Or, the guy friend with the biggest build. He will be strong enough to wrestle the guy who keeps bothering you. P.S, block his number.

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