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Topic: When no is no...............
teadipper Joined Wed 10/19/11 Posts: 2732	Sun 09/30/12 05:04 PM
I went on one date with a dude (not from Mingle) and I never want to see him again. He is just NOT getting it. I have told him thirty ways until Sunday that I do NOT want to date him. He keeps texting me. My last text to him was "I do not want to date you." He is still texting. How the heck do I make it more clear???

Kyannie Joined Thu 09/13/12 Posts: 23	Sun 09/30/12 05:05 PM
Dont respond to his texts or calls. You've told him and he still doesn't get up, so ignore him.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Sun 09/30/12 05:10 PM
If I were you, I'd just simply tell him I don't want to date him.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sun 09/30/12 05:15 PM
If I were you, I'd just simply tell him I don't want to date him. No means "yes" in penis talk.

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21886	Sun 09/30/12 05:58 PM
Men are idiots with only sex on their minds. Tell him you are unable to have sex. He'll go away.

OceanTides Joined Sat 03/31/12 Posts: 812	Sun 09/30/12 06:04 PM
Dont respond to his texts or calls. You've told him and he still doesn't get up, so ignore him. but if you take this route then please watch your back. Its seems that he is the type that literally doesn't take 'no' for an answer - if he has no control he may take it further.... be careful.

boredinaz06 Joined Sun 10/15/06 Posts: 22764	Sun 09/30/12 06:08 PM
For an undisclosed amount of cash I can make all this stop.

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Sun 09/30/12 06:27 PM
I went on one date with a dude (not from Mingle) and I never want to see him again. He is just NOT getting it. I have told him thirty ways until Sunday that I do NOT want to date him. He keeps texting me. My last text to him was "I do not want to date you." He is still texting. How the heck do I make it more clear??? Quit texting back, don't call and block his number.

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Sun 09/30/12 06:44 PM
You can always hook him up with another obsessive one Ya know fight fire with fire ... let them sort it out That might take a very long time but hey not your problem anymore! LOL OK , I'm not helping here , I'd take Galendgirl's advice ;)

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 09/30/12 07:37 PM
For some reason, some guys think that just because you're still responding, you must be interested. I'm not a fan of ignoring people, but this is definitely a time where I would. If you don't respond anymore, he'll hopefully run out of steam and leave you alone.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45417	Sun 09/30/12 07:59 PM
I went on one date with a dude (not from Mingle) and I never want to see him again. He is just NOT getting it. I have told him thirty ways until Sunday that I do NOT want to date him. He keeps texting me. My last text to him was "I do not want to date you." He is still texting. How the heck do I make it more clear??? I say we keep him. You change your mind every week, and he is steadfast.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sun 09/30/12 09:35 PM
I went on one date with a dude (not from Mingle) and I never want to see him again. He is just NOT getting it. I have told him thirty ways until Sunday that I do NOT want to date him. He keeps texting me. My last text to him was "I do not want to date you." He is still texting. How the heck do I make it more clear??? Tell him to stop texting you and stop texting him. If he continues, report him for phone harassment.

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Sun 09/30/12 09:53 PM
I went on one date with a dude (not from Mingle) and I never want to see him again. He is just NOT getting it. I have told him thirty ways until Sunday that I do NOT want to date him. He keeps texting me. My last text to him was "I do not want to date you." He is still texting. How the heck do I make it more clear??? pfft....all us men know that "no" really means "yes"

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Mon 10/01/12 12:01 AM
Terri ..tell him to stop bothering you because you are not interested and this is harassment. Then tell him this is the last time you will answer his texts and follow through.

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Mon 10/01/12 12:06 AM
Terri ..tell him to stop bothering you because you are not interested and this is harassment. Then tell him this is the last time you will answer his texts and follow through. You like "disappear"?

Unknow Joined Thu 01/05/12 Posts: 241	Mon 10/01/12 09:25 AM Edited by Unknow on Mon 10/01/12 09:26 AM
Men are idiots with only sex on their minds. Yeah, i bet Albert Eistein, Isaac Newton, Galileo Galile, William Shakespere, and a host of other world class MALE inventors and scientists all had sex on their mind... Thumbs up for spotting it out..;-)

red_lace Joined Sat 04/17/10 Posts: 7247	Mon 10/01/12 05:02 PM
I went on one date with a dude (not from Mingle) and I never want to see him again. He is just NOT getting it. I have told him thirty ways until Sunday that I do NOT want to date him. He keeps texting me. My last text to him was "I do not want to date you." He is still texting. How the heck do I make it more clear??? I say we keep him. You change your mind every week, and he is steadfast. ^^ This.

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Mon 10/01/12 06:22 PM
Yep. Sounds like he's a keeper. All the other ones left.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Mon 10/01/12 07:52 PM
Tell him your doctor said you have to wait 3 to 4 weeks until things clear up

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Wed 10/03/12 11:37 AM
Invite all your guy friends to your home. Or, the guy friend with the biggest build. He will be strong enough to wrestle the guy who keeps bothering you. P.S, block his number.