Thanks, Leigh! And good luck with the leaves!
If ever I was to start doing stuff with concrete, I'd go for this, wanted that for as long as I've lived here, and it would go SO well with my garden!



ANd this is really nice as well:


But yeah, it would mean getting a lot of heavy things in, the pebbles, concrete/cement, mixing that (not got the tools for that either)...
Plus it would cost an arm and a leg...

I think sex on the first date can create the expectation that sex is going to happen each time a each time a couple sees each other, from one or both parties.them it's just hooking up. you're getting to know each other's bodies, and not each other.


Ultimately each their own, but realize that there can be positive and/or negative consequences that can be immediate or delayed.

Today I got the waterfall in my garden running. It's not finished yet,
lots of rocks to hump round still, and basically just finish it off,
make it look nice. The idea is to get some plants around it too.
But at least it's running. And I LOVE the sound! It's wonderful!

If I hadn't bashed my knee really hard just now, I would be perfectly happy.
SO I prolly won't be working on it any time soon



I added a little tableau that I've had for years, never finished that off
either, lol. But it seemed to sort of fit there. Not sure if it'll
stay there though. And I put two tiny lighthouses around the left area.
Can't help myself, I like that sort of thing, haha

Easy! Just send $100 and a SASE to the following address for "Joe's Love Test" and get the best kit ever to see if Love is knocking at your door!

is it proper to test men for love or you are chasing him away.....so then how do I know a men's motive when you need serious relationship

Do looks matter much in picking a lifetime partner?

.. yes yes it does..lmao..

.. no but I did see the movie Sybil..
... and One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest..lol....

I know i know..... at first in my own head I was like...wtf.. are you kidding me you can't be serious.... but then she hit me with the.. I'm new here and I don't really know anybody.. and I need to be out of here by Saturday.. boo hoo boo hoo.. blah blah blah..

.. and then I thought...hmm.. well okay I can understand... you obviously need help and don't have any help..
. but meanwhile in the back of my head.. my self centered me. my inner voice is screaming..
dude you don't even know her really.. you don't even know what she looks like..... and you know you really don't want to do this...lol...

.. but then the nice Boy Scout part of me.... said.. but PhD.. what if she is really hot.. and exactly what you're looking for..
this would be a good opportunity to spend time with her... and show her what a nice fellow you are...hmmm..

... but then my self centered me.. said dude what happens if she's not what you're looking for.... now you're going to be stuck with this person...
. you are not physically attracted to ... for the entire day....


.. but then my boy scout part of me said... PhD so what.... she's nice and you like her... she could be another friend...lol

.. than my self centered me said.... dude -. bash.that Boy Scout over the head with a rock...lol.. you have enough friends......


.. what you need is a hot girlfriend...lol

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Off.. course it matters what she looks like... I would like to have a relationship with this person...

but if I'm not physically attracted to them..... well then basically I'm just helping somebody because I'm a super nice dude...noooo.... I might as well put an ad on Kijiji... will help you move.. anybody.... because I'm just that nice..lmao..

How old?.. Soccer Mom age?, Bingo hall lady age?, Depends plastic underwear stage in life Lady? or nursing home age?

Narrow it down a bit for us.

oh...someone who say's what they mean, does what they say, and isn't completely psycho and full of crap?

Good evening, I really don't know how to start, so I will just jump in.
Everyone is searching for that special someone, and I found her. The one
that made me more, that made me want more for us and myself than I could
have imagined. The one that pulled feelings from me stronger than I could
have believed possible. And then illness started taking her away, but she
fought and fought, and we got closer and closer. Until the fight took her
ability to live, her last wishes were for peace for me. I am struggling
to find this peace, I feel empty without her here. I am begging for anyone
to tell me how to accept the fact that I must live my life without my
soulmate, to try to move on and live a "normal" life. I am lost at
this time.

Not entirely sure why you say what you say concerning my posting. I raise questions that I think are real good questions, no reflections on you.
And I didn't mean they make ppl take the test. I just wonder what the score would be if Afr. Americans would take the test, so the other way round so to speak.
Everyone always focuses on white knocking black, but how does black regard us?
Also concerning my question: IS it actually racism or a normal reaction to and preference for what is familiar, what you know?

FOr instance, if I had the choice to live an a white neighbourhood or a black/purple/grey/green one, I go for white. Not because I'm a racist, but with white ppl I know what I can expect. I know how they react, live, talk, walk, think etc. In general of course.
Meaning I choose that because it's familiar and what is familiar feels safe.

Don't really get why you're so upset and regret posting this topic? I feel a lot of anger coming off you (not directed to anyone, general anger).
I think it's a good thread.

I might take that test later... too busy right now.

screw the Test,it's worthless,as worthless as Mooney and Mother Jones!