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Thu 04/17/08 07:08 PM



Blue chiffon nighty low cut just barely covering her.... ok I better stop now flowerforyou

Honestly it's a blue cotton Angel nightie from Victoria Secret.blushing


Oh My! blushing Well now that I know that I think I'll be sleeping in a cold shower laugh


Aww....blushing

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Thu 04/17/08 07:06 PM

I would say try not to overthink it too much. If this guy is is a good fit for you, things should have a sort of natural progression. The fact that that your anxious about meeting eachother is a good sign that you guys will "click". Good luck meeting him, have some fun!

Thanks sweetie!flowerforyou

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Thu 04/17/08 07:05 PM

Personally I feel that if you set up expectations of this guy and your relationship that you end up setting yourself up for disappoinment and possibly failure. Just let things happen.

In other words your expectations can lead to disappoinment and failure.

Also remember that you are what you seek. If you want it to work then it will, if you think it's going to fail then it will.

Think positive and good luck. I'll say a little prayer for you.

flowerforyou smokin drinker




Please do say a prayer..I want it to work!

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Thu 04/17/08 07:03 PM

Meet as soon as you can...the longer you wait the more you build the person up in your mind and that might not be reality.

Ok we'll next weekend it is....love

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Thu 04/17/08 06:59 PM

Ive been there... and we hit it off really well. Just watch out tho cause I ended up in one of those whirlwind relationships, the same thing I told him I didn't want to see happen... happened.

Like what? I'm worried now...

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Thu 04/17/08 06:58 PM

Ive been there... and we hit it off really well. Just watch out tho cause I ended up in one of those whirlwind relationships, the same thing I told him I didn't want to see happen... happened.

Like what? I'm worried now...

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Thu 04/17/08 06:53 PM

Blue chiffon nighty low cut just barely covering her.... ok I better stop now flowerforyou

Honestly it's a blue cotton Angel nightie from Victoria Secret.blushing

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Thu 04/17/08 06:49 PM
Ok so I've been chatting with a potential. We click on the phone VERY easily. We talked for 3 hours last night. I haven't done that since highschool. We never ran out of things to talk about. We have alot of the same interests and I'm impressed by his level of intelligence. He's traveling to visit me next weekend. There has been so much chemistry on the phone that it has me wondering if there will be that same sparks in person. We've seen pics of each other and there is a mutual interest. My instincts tell me that this one is different. Before I've chatted aimlessly with men about nothing too important.Now I'm having in-depth convos about every aspect of life. This man is the package deal, but I'm worried that I'm setting myself up for failure. I explained how I wanted to start things off the right way with him( real effort=waiting to be intimate until we know each other), but I can't invest everything based off of phone convos alone. I don't want to rush into anything, but I'm really digging the guy. Do you think I'll like him as much in person as I do from our chats?

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Thu 04/17/08 06:41 PM

so why then are you checking out over 40 women's profiles out anyway? smokin

Exactly....

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Thu 04/17/08 06:05 PM

in a bed of roses happy

Every single night!:wink:

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Thu 04/17/08 06:03 PM
Edited by belledimanche on Thu 04/17/08 06:04 PM
Buck naked with the fan on. Sorry it's the pic of you against the wall.laugh

Meant for ladyliz...sorry

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Wed 04/16/08 06:23 PM


Guy # 1- Business man, great body, etc. Interested in one thing only.sad I want more than that.

Guy # 2- Seemingly sweet man,but got mad when I told him I wouldn't move in with him after only 2 weeks. Rushed into things super fast. Won't talk to me anymore because I don't want to take up the role of wife as easy this time around.

Guy # 3 -Told me he loved me after only talking a handful of times. When I finally met him he told me he wanted me to have his baby. Should I run now? After a JSH post...I'm told to not give up yet. I'm currently chatting with a potential, but I'm a little freaked out about what could possibly go wrong this time.noway
drinker wow, darlin those three suck toodrinker


TELL ME ABOUT IT.....ohwell

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Wed 04/16/08 10:49 AM




I'm single because I was tired of the physical and verbal abuse from the ex. I want to know what it's like to really be loved. I knew that to love was a selfless act and I wasn't getting that.


You wanna now what it's like to really be loved?? Stay single for a while date as many men as possible that way you'll find what your looking for

Explain this theory to me.huh


Well if your single you get a better understanding of what you want and you dont want...

There will be things u like about certain people and things you wont.. If you can deal with his faults, then you'll be ok...You gotta be as picky as possible and not settle for just anything...



Ohh..ok I see. By the way..love the handle!:wink:

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Wed 04/16/08 08:51 AM


I'm single because I was tired of the physical and verbal abuse from the ex. I want to know what it's like to really be loved. I knew that to love was a selfless act and I wasn't getting that.


You wanna now what it's like to really be loved?? Stay single for a while date as many men as possible that way you'll find what your looking for

Explain this theory to me.huh

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Wed 04/16/08 08:45 AM
I'm single because I was tired of the physical and verbal abuse from the ex. I want to know what it's like to really be loved. I knew that to love was a selfless act and I wasn't getting that.

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Wed 04/16/08 08:32 AM
Edited by belledimanche on Wed 04/16/08 08:32 AM
Read your email from me honey. Specifics included!

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Wed 04/16/08 03:50 AM
Guy # 1- Business man, great body, etc. Interested in one thing only.sad I want more than that.

Guy # 2- Seemingly sweet man,but got mad when I told him I wouldn't move in with him after only 2 weeks. Rushed into things super fast. Won't talk to me anymore because I don't want to take up the role of wife as easy this time around.

Guy # 3 -Told me he loved me after only talking a handful of times. When I finally met him he told me he wanted me to have his baby. Should I run now? After a JSH post...I'm told to not give up yet. I'm currently chatting with a potential, but I'm a little freaked out about what could possibly go wrong this time.noway

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Wed 04/16/08 03:41 AM
Good, but weird it's on your mind this early. Naughty boy!

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Tue 04/15/08 08:53 AM
Try church. I pray when I'm feeling down and it helps. Also, on the lacking female companionship thing...there are lots of cute girls in church.flowerforyou

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Tue 04/15/08 08:28 AM
Edited by belledimanche on Tue 04/15/08 08:29 AM

love your attitude on life....also just read wish you enough... i am constantlt amazed how words can lift you up ,bring you down or touch a heart to tears... you must be truly amazing. your comment about the prince at the end of the day is so true about the right relationship...still seeking my princess....though in my life ive been no prince i still work hard to at least be a loyal peasant perhaps someones knight maybe even the frog...but you never know til you take the chance on the kiss....or even the meeting....the most frustrating parts of my life are that i have loved and lost so many times that i think about just giving up and living in the woods with my dog...but my dog cant talk to me.... at least here i sometimes get conversation... and then sometimes even inteligent conversation...


Well, thanks for your interest in the topic and thank you for reminding me that there are many different aspects to this whole dating thing.flowerforyou

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