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Fri 04/11/08 08:55 AM
I'm going to look at a "colonial style" town house for me and my daughter this afternoon. I'm hoping to fall in love with the place. I'm divorced and ready to start my life over. I'm excited about having a place for just me and Alexis to call home!bigsmile I feel like I'm living for the first time! Also, I'm shocked at all the "potentials" I've met on this site. I wonder which route my life will take and hopefully it will be a good one for once.

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Thu 04/10/08 09:24 AM
LOLlaugh

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Thu 04/10/08 09:17 AM
"Redneck woman" Gretchen Wilson

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Thu 04/10/08 03:35 AM

Hah it's funny you say that. I listed her in my phone as "Mama Bird"

Why is her number still in your phone? Is it just in case you get drunk and you wanna take a walk on the wild side?

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Wed 04/09/08 03:46 AM
Well, I have all of mine, but I've dated a guy once that was missing a few(2) in the front, but he had a body like a Greek God and was sweet as honey. What do you say then, oh well I'm sorry your single mom couldn't afford dental appointments when you were a kid?

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Fri 04/04/08 10:01 PM

OMG, for a guy to pick me up and twirl me around he would have to be a sumo wrestler - even then, he would need a winch.

laugh laugh

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Fri 04/04/08 09:35 PM

Wow you could bum and old lady out real fast all you young things worrying over love. Just jump out there and be yourself. If you kiss a few frogs I promise it doesn't give you warts. Have a good time, grow. learn, experience, and while you are busy love will sneak up and tap you on the shoulder and ask you to dance. You all are so beautiful and smart and blessed; my word I don't think any of you are homeless, or sick, or probably even unemployed unless you are in school. Evidently you are hooked up with a phone and computer and the truth be told probably ate a good meal tonight. Come on flirt a little and lighten up. You all love something. List five things and get this party started. Someone one is bound to like something you like or know someone who does. Give me a break. Walt Disney was a fat old man who had imagination enough to see the beauty in life and work to master being good at something. That isn't anything that you can't do. Fall in love with yourself and you will be surprised how fast the world will fall in love with you.


Wow impressed by the advice, but kissing frogs will give you warts!

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Fri 04/04/08 09:33 PM


Yeah, I think love is stronger than skepticism. Mainly because I have a tremendous degree of control over my skepticism (the reality of it is that it's more of a tool I use for humor and perspective than it is an actual mindset) and very little over love.

I'm not saying it's easy or even worth it, most of the time. It's not. I've been in so many bad relationships, my car has a revolving door. But I did find a good one once, and there's this idea that if there can be one good one, there (hypothetically) could be another one. It can't hurt to check. It's not like I have anything better to do.


It's not easy..that's for damn sure! I've had one REALLY bad relationship(my one and only marriage) and that was enough for me.I'm checking to see what's out there... believe me. I've found fun times and pure crazy people, but no true connection. I know...stop trying and it will find me.I've heard that before..I guess maybe I'm just in a rut.

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Fri 04/04/08 09:27 PM


"Love is patient
love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not..." 1 Corinthians 13:4-8
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Wait...I love God and my family, but that's it for now.....

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Fri 04/04/08 09:22 PM



What is love? baby don't hurt me don't hurt me no more

Make me want to bob my head

excuse me?noway brokenheart :cry: huh yawn drinker smokin devil flowerforyou laugh :wink: mad love embarassed smooched :heart:

To the music dirty mind

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Fri 04/04/08 09:20 PM
Edited by belledimanche on Fri 04/04/08 09:21 PM

What is love? baby don't hurt me don't hurt me no more

Makes me want to bob my head

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Fri 04/04/08 09:19 PM


There is something even stronger than skepticism, though. And no one is more surprised by that than I am.

You're saying love is stronger than skepticism? I don't know about that. I tried the whole "love" thing once, but a broken nose, crushed ego, and one baby later...I'm backing up.brokenheart

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Fri 04/04/08 09:16 PM

I think the real problem with Hallmark/Disney notions of love is the "love will conquer all" message. Love doesn't conquer all. We still have different goals, and lives to live, and sometimes those things don't intersect the way we might hope. But that doesn't make love any less real; in fact, that's a more real version of love.

Truly anlayzing this topic for me...Thanks!

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Fri 04/04/08 09:16 PM

Love is for very young, very goodlooking people.

<----Young and average. Can't we have it too?

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Fri 04/04/08 09:15 PM

I haven't heard that said to me in a long time.

I try to stop them before they say it because when you've only known me 2 weeks...you don't LOVE me. If you don't know my middle name is Morgan or that my moms' name is Molly..I'm from Texas...I hate beets...I love massages..and I'm currently listening to Bob Marley and frequently hum "Don't worry about a thing... because every lil' thing is gonna be alright" then, there's no way you could know what "Love" is with me.

I guess the ex messed me up a bit.

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Fri 04/04/08 09:11 PM


:heart: Loveable:heart:

You are!flowerforyou

Thanks!bigsmile

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Fri 04/04/08 09:11 PM

Told a guy I loved him once and I didn't hear from him for 3 months. When he contacted me again, he said it was because he was not ready to be in love. Now he seems to want a relationship, or does he. He is so confusing to me.

Then leave him be sweetheart.

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Fri 04/04/08 09:06 PM

:heart: Loveable:heart:

You are!flowerforyou

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Fri 04/04/08 09:01 PM
LOVE:heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:

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Fri 04/04/08 08:59 PM
I feel like Walt Disney set me up for failure. I watched all of his movies as a little girl, but reality has taught me something very different about the L word. I'm starting to believe that it is something Hallmark made up. I almost cringe when I hear the L word from a guy. What's your take?