Sumthingdifferent


Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 01:14 PM Topic: 3 Strikes Rule.
And here I thought I had found the jsh winner with the 42 yo guy who still lives with mommy! WOW!.... AGAIN!

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 01:08 PM Topic: freecycle
cool i will go there, i need to clean out the boys closets.. oh man that will be a job.. LOL..go for it!! Will see ya in the fall! If we don't see you we'll send in the search parties!

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 01:06 PM Topic: 3 Strikes Rule.
holy psychopath batman. i would dip your phone in holy water if at all possible. LOL

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 01:05 PM Topic: 3 Strikes Rule.
So I just had to throw this out there and see what you all think. So I gave a guy on here my number and he called me last night well he blew all his 3 strikes in a matter of minutes. First when I answered the phone he asked for me by my screen name strike 1, than I asked do you even know my name(which I have told him several times) he said Chole strike 2, my name is Jasmine so he wasn't even close, than this crazy fool has it in his mind that he just has to dare me to do something strike 3. He dared me to put duct tape over my mouth take a picture of it and send it to him. Needless to say this guy is now history. That was one of the worst phone calls ever. Ummm .... wow!!!

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 12:57 PM Topic: Help a guy out Edited by Sumthingdifferent on Sun 02/10/08 01:11 PM
we need men, but i am only speaking for myself,but i think a relationship is a partnership..if u give alittle u get alittle back.maybe i am wrong? Of course..if you want a "little" relationship! In a relationship I give EVERYTHING too it I can...because I WANT to..its not "work" for me. But that's just me..an over-achiever and I "swing for the fence at every at bat". and at the end of the day whats the score. I bet o-o LOL..we don't keep score. Old saying I was raised with... "if you keep score..someone always ends up losing".

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 12:50 PM Topic: Help a guy out Edited by Sumthingdifferent on Sun 02/10/08 12:51 PM
we need men, but i am only speaking for myself,but i think a relationship is a partnership..if u give alittle u get alittle back.maybe i am wrong? Of course..if you want a "little" relationship! In a relationship I give EVERYTHING too it I can...because I WANT to..its not "work" for me. But that's just me..an over-achiever and I "swing for the fence at every at bat".

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 12:45 PM Topic: it's cold outside in wisconsin!
It's 81 degrees here..I'm freaking sweating!!!

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 12:43 PM Topic: Help a guy out
i have never sponged off a man..and people that say looks has nothing to do with there decision is fibbing..lol it might not be everything, but it is in there somewhere.. Well of course and glad you have the honesty to admit that looks DO play a part in a relationship beyond friends. And I can honestly say, I too have never sponged off a man!!! Well unless you count myself...then I guess I have sponged off a man..but wait I worked.... I'M SO CONFUSED!!!

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 12:40 PM Topic: Help a guy out
comes down is the guy is too ugly to get a date or the men are having troubles dealing with strong women that can make their own way in life unlike the mail order brides that has no choices..Not to mention the language barrior..dont even get me started..lol Thats the point. why do we want someone that doesnt need us. If we want someone like us, then we can get a friend. but brian just because and I can only speak for me am independent doesn't mean I wouldn't need my partner .. it would just be in another way.. and I can totaly understand why men get the whole thing confused so I am in no way bashing you or making fun of you.. besides I really hate taking out the garbage and mowing the lawn .. joking don't puff up .. ROFL..hey Brian..man Shoes is pickin on you..you going to let her do that to you?? Be a man..PUFF UP!!! JUST JOKING..just to clarify!!!

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 12:35 PM Topic: what is physicial
Cheif = Chief ??? ????????????????? wtf "Cheif" ????? haha just playin LOL..so was I went I wrote "Cheif"!!

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 12:28 PM Topic: Help a guy out
depends on the return policy Thats the Madam we all know and luv!!

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 12:27 PM Topic: Help a guy out
comes down is the guy is too ugly to get a date or the men are having troubles dealing with strong women that can make their own way in life unlike the mail order brides that has no choices..Not to mention the language barrior..dont even get me started..lol LOL..OH WAIT!! This is TOO GOOD to pass up for anyone with a sense of humor and irony! What's this "the guy is too ugly to get a date"!!?? What happened to all those women who say "looks don;t matter..its what inside that counts (most meaning what's inside your WALLET). And "men having trouble with a strong woman that can make thier way in life"..hell no, just put them out workin in the back lifting the crates if they are that strong! The irony of it all!

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 12:20 PM Topic: Help a guy out
Me luvs you long time??? OMG!! Who let the Gypsy out of the cage!!!??? RUN!!!!!!!!

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 12:18 PM Topic: what is physicial
frest = first ??? ????????????????? wtf "frest" ????? Hey Cheif! Where and how ya been?? Yah, its one of those younger generation words..first - ir + re = frest. It's some new kinda math thing.

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 11:50 AM Topic: Help a guy out Edited by Sumthingdifferent on Sun 02/10/08 11:52 AM
There is this guy i know. He is going to Alaska in July to meet a possible, lets just say, Mail order Bride. Its not a done deal, its just a meeting.He wants to know what i think about it. I didnt give him a answer yet. what do you think about the Mail order Bride thing? Hell, if you are going to order one, then go for the GOOD STUFF! Getting one from Alaska is like ordering a plain cheese pizza! Get one from one of those third world countries! hell, at least they APPRECIATE what a man has to give them over here. unlike MOST American women! And in a third world country, you can get "two for the price of one!" Like two 20 year olds instead of a 40! So GO FOR THE GOOD STUFF...DON"T BUY AMERICAN! OK, here is where I let all the FURIOUS women know..this was JUST A JOKE!!!!!

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 10:23 AM Topic: A thread devoted entirely to smileys


Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 10:18 AM Topic: Not sure what to do.
No child should have to pay for the decisions of the parent..but it happens way too often. That's why I stated for ALL readers.. put a little thought into your future, especially if it includes children. A little thought can save a lot of heartache. Good advice; and I can honestly say my life would have been a LOT better if I had thought certain things out ahead of time, rather than acted impulsively and rashly. LOL Lex, I give most of my advice from FIRST HAND EXPERIENCE! So I'll be the first to raise a hand when it comes to "should have thought about that one first!" We live ... and hopefully we learn. Then we move on and hope we can give a little advise so others don't step in the same hole.

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 10:12 AM Topic: updated profile
***** willow? cat got your tongue????

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 10:04 AM Topic: updated profile
Action photo..it's great!

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 02/10/08 10:00 AM Topic: Not sure what to do.
Hmm well, so 18 months ago everything was fine??? How long have you two been together? Since you have a child together, counseling MIGHT be an OPTION ( I place those in CAPS attempting to make sure this comes across in its true manner to all readers). Sum, I agree, provided everyone is amenable with it. Counseling can do wonders if people are open to the possibilities. I know people whose marriages have been saved because they were willing to commit to counseling. On the other hand, one person can't do it alone.... It would be hard to think things could go from "just fine and wonderful" to "I hate you guts" in as little as 18 months. But it does seem to happen. Jeez, I have often done it in 3-4 months! Saves time that way. To stay together for the "kids sake'..why? To show your children how to live as an unloving and disfunctional family? Definitely not worth it. I agree, this scenario generally seems to cause more problems than it "solves." If reconciliation isn't a real possibility, the best thing to do is move on. Lex, I totally agree, BOTH must be WILLING for any counseling to work, that is a MUST And wow! 3-4 months?? Can you really consider that "love"? Just from my view it would have to be infatuation in that short of time span..unless you are 16. I really suggested counseling for the poster and especially for her children. There seems to be a developing pattern that needs attention, no matter if she stays or goes..for the childrens sake. No child should have to pay for the decisions of the parent..but it happens way too often. That's why I stated for ALL readers.. put a little thought into your future, especially if it includes children. A little thought can save a lot of heartache.