Dude....I work three nights a week.
7pm to 7 am.
Then I am off 4 days.
Same schedule for 7 yrs.
They've cut back on some of the bonus dollars for this shift but its still a money maker.

It was an issue when I was married....so I asked if who was going to get the second job to make up for the shift differential if I went to days. At the time it was about 10k over the course of a yr.

Its the Golden Rule scenario.
He who earns the gold...makes the rules.

We participated in a Day of The Dead procession. Drumming/Dancing, floated beeswax candles down the river. It was kinda cold though.
We got home around 9...no trick or treaters at all.

Years ago I took my girls to a haunted house....it was a bit much for kids that age.....maybe 9 and 7 at the time...scared the heck out of me!!!

I hate that duck!

You could be playing Farmville on Facebook.

Breathe.

One Step...

Then another.....

Don't stop................

Get a lawyer.
If possible, pay child support through state, directly from paycheck if available. (You can do this in Michigan) The check is never late, never behind. If the money doesn't get to her....thats between her and the state, not me.
Get a custody and visitation schedule hammered out with the court and stand by it.
See if there are any limited restraining orders/ orders of personal protection that can be put in place that can limit her contact with you.

Since your profile says 'never married' ask court to force a paternity determination.

My 'alleged son' was almost 2 yrs before I found out the truth.

Good Luck

Life is a force, presence, being, which must express itself in as many forms as possible. It is eternal. IT is.

About two yrs ago I went outside late at night to have a smoke, I always look up to see what the weather is...what the sky is doing, where the stars are.
Saw what looked like a cluster of balloons, lit from within, moving north to south, not fast, not slow, then disappear into the high thin clouds. It wasn't til later that I realized there were no lights blinking as required by law on this 'aircraft'

Quoted for Truth.

Chex Sex?

In the men's room at a nice restaurant in Denver a small sticker was placed that read "Surveillance Cameras are for research purposes only"

I have printed some of my own and placed them for my own amusement in other men's rooms.

Watch out for a Whack Attack!

Good for you !!!!


Yes, it found me too.

Happy Happy

Your profile says California....why is this in the Michigan forum?

Michiganman3 has enjoyed a great day of sleep and is going to get ready for work.

True Story.....

I was driving close to 3 hrs to meet for lunch, first date......I smoke..drink coffee.......
So I stopped at a rest area washed up, brushed teeth, and changed from blue jeans and T-shirt to slacks and nice shirt, freshly shined shoes.

And thats what I did every time I drove down to see her.

We are still together too.

Thank You Lilypetal.


And Thank You to my Mingle Friends too!

No.

Two co-dependents will each feed their insecurities and just wind up sicker than before.

Been there, done that.

And people wonder what that 'little piece of paper' means when you get married, it is a legal contract just like the one you signed.

And yes YOU are responsible for the money/items.

Best of luck.