I don't really have a bestest friend. I consider ALL of my friends my besties. So maybe I have no clue. . I think it depends on what life situations we're thrown into. I don't give my heart easily or to just anyone who flirts with me. There has to be a friendship there first, otherwise I can't see myself being with them, if I don't know what they're like. I think the reason a dr or vet would be ideal for me, is because it would show how caring they are, for people or animals. It just does something to me. It makes my heart melt.

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Very wise advice

I think it's the thought of what someone with a mental illness could do. Rather than being told you have one. I dated a bipolar, it got difficult at times, and confusing, but I really liked him, so I carried on dating him. I tried to help him through it.

I once dated a half canadian, half italian guy, and he took my breath away. He was just awesome, to be honest. He had to move to another country, for his career, so I was saddened by that, once it happened. He knows what I think of him, and he bought me a teddy bear, and told me to think of him giving me hugs, everytime I felt sad. Loved his canadian accent. He had tanned skin, and black afro hair.

;) Me and you both know it'll never happen.

Dear philipino nurse,

Thankyou for helping me with everything. You were so sweet to me. I wondered what you meant at first, when you mentioned the word 'Sleepers'. Then I realized you meant 'Slippers', when you pointed to mine. No wonder I got confused. It was hilarious how you left something in the bathroom, and pretended it was someone else's.


Dear anaethetist,

Why can't I stop thinking about you? I feel like I should ask you on a date, but not sure how to contact you in any way. I'm heartbroken. You left such a impact on me.

The male dr, who put my drip needle in my arm, when I arrived in the hospital last Tuesday. He was jokey, charming, polite, never stopped smiling, very reassuring, I could go on. lol. He kept coming back in my room. There was just something about him that made me want to stay around him. I felt good around him. Oh boy. I miss him. Not sure how to accidentally bump into him. Why can't my mind let him go?

Not much annoys me, but I do detest people who argue in public places. Nobody's that interested in hearing your crap. At least have some class and do that behind closed doors. I just find it trashy. And when I hear them argue, half of the time I just want to laugh, because they both think they're better than the one they're arguing with. Poor things.

Yes, and I wouldn't want to be any other way. . Stubborn is my way of living.

I like to be in control of my own life. I just like to make sure everything is running as it should be.

Can't think many people would give up life at home to travel with a total stranger. Only go home once or twice a year? **** that. Friends and family are important to me. Maybe an animal would.

Sounds like you're one of those that depends on having a lover. Do things you enjoy. Forget about love. Love is guaranteed to no-one. Everyone's chances of finding "the one" are 50/50. So either way, you won't lose out. I think expecting things to happen, is the wrong way to think. Rather, take life as it comes.

You'd better ask the woman if she wants to be in a ldr first, as not all do. What's wrong with the women in YOUR OWN country? The only reason I'm asking, is because wanting an ldr can put a lot of pressure on yourself.

I can't move to London. It's too expensive there. If me and you are really gonna be flatmates, you're gonna have to move up north. Unless you're paying. . New Zealand to England is a long way to come, but you seem determined, so why spoil a good thing?

Teeside

I think prisoners should be made to sign a deal, promising that they won't try to intimidate anyone, if being released back into the community. Some learn their lesson the first time around. Others not so much. Some prefer a life in prison, because their life outside of prison feels worthless.

Seeing as Whooping Cough is going around like never before, I'd be more worried about catching THAT. I don't know the symptoms of an STD, but can imagine by the way people are talking, it must be quite major. I don't want to spend the rest of my life in hospital, if it turns out to be quite fatal. I can cope with light stuff such as sores, but things like with difficulty breathing, constant wheezing, I'm not so good at dealing with.

I tried it on myself, when I had to get a blood test. I have a needle phobia, so you can only imagine the amount of trauma I felt. And it was weird, because I'd spent about a whole month convincing myself, that the needle would hurt, but once I was in the room, I kept telling myself it WON'T hurt. And kept picturing my pets faces to calm me down. Not sure if that was reverse phsycology, or just telling myself to calm down. I remembered to breathe slowly while having it done.

I tried it on myself, when I had to get a blood test. I have a needle phobia, so you can only imagine the amount of trauma I felt. And it was weird, because I'd spent about a whole month convincing myself, that the needle would hurt, but once I was in the room, I kept telling myself it WON'T hurt. And kept picturing my pets faces to calm me down. Not sure if that was reverse phsycology, or just telling myself to calm down. I remembered to breathe slowly while having it done.

I can take it or leave it. I have better stuff to think about.