Now with the pot and such, yeah thats never a good combo in a relationship.

Its tiny tidbits such as those that need to be said, so it makes the whole picture make sense. :-P

well thats nice, and im sure he was in love with you, but its very obvious that you wasn't with him.

Lust only turns into more lust. It doesn't turn into love just cause you decided to keep your pants on for 3 months.

Why does everyone think that sex or foreplay has anything to do with a Loving relationship?

Love in a relationship is built on honesty, trust, communication, and values.

Sex is a physical attraction to another persons body or possession. We justify the act of sex as an expression of love for another person. Except you don't see a guy who has a dog, whom he loves all of a sudden bend it over and have sex with it cause he loves it. Of course not. He plays with it, and nurtures it and shows it affection, by petting and walking it.

Sex is just an excuse that some one came up with to test how good someone is in the bed, has nothing to do with a great relationship. Anyone can have sex, its how they treat you as a person that really matters.

Lust of love?

Very simple...Lust is the obsession of person, place, or thing. Usually once you get what you want, you don't want it anymore, it fades just as fast as it appeared.

Love is the knowledge of someone that you are with. Its the goodness that the person has within them that makes you fall in love with them. It never fades over time and can only get stronger as time goes on.