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Tue 12/16/08 02:38 PM
I'm going to assume you mean is age just a number in relationships between men and women, etc...

Well, there are factors of maturity involved. I find myself young at heart, so I suppose a younger woman and I might hit it off, but if it came to me needing to listen to rap music, forget it. I hate rap. Which leads me to a conclusion that there will be a justifiable generation gape once you get a certain amount of years separated.

This is also an issue of class status and maturity of housing, families, that sort of thing. There is something I would never do again... I married an older woman (by ten years) an moved into HER house. It totally SUCKED after a couple of years. Mainly because she was an a$$, but mostly because it was always HER stuff (which might be different with a woman that wasn't an A$$).... The thing I might consider for the future would be to develop a relationship together, then fall in love together (which takes time), then make plans together, including the plans to buy a house and get married together. Then things are on an equal keel.

In reverse, I wouldn't feel very comfortable having a woman move into a house (if I owned one, I do not, I rent...) because of whatever history I had once had inside the house. For me, it would be better to move and start fresh as a couple in a place where you don't have skeletons in every closet.

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Many reasons she's my EX.....

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Speaking of which...

... I once had a really cool classic car. It was a 2-door Oldsmobile Delta 88 Custom. Had an original 425 Super Rocket under the hood. My ex-wife let her so drive it without my say-so, and he wrecked it not once, but THREE different times while I was away working on the road. When I came home, that's when I found out he had driven it. He was 16 and had just gotten his license. We had 5 other cars he could have drive.....


So, my question is... if you have step kids, do you let them drive YOUR car when they turn 16? Or, if you do not have any step-kids, hypothetically, do you let them drive WHAT when they turn 16?


I hope it is not your cherished classic.....






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Tue 12/16/08 12:46 PM
Edited by TelephoneMan on Tue 12/16/08 12:46 PM
NOW LET'S GET AT SOME HAPPY DANCING !!!!!!!!!!!!


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TelephoneMan's photo
Tue 12/16/08 12:43 PM
Edited by TelephoneMan on Tue 12/16/08 12:44 PM
And >>>> Etrain..... this one's for you... I know you dig this tune.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KHhKnc0XZrs

Sometimes I feel this way, too............... been there, done that.....

These days are over, bro....



TelephoneMan's photo
Tue 12/16/08 12:40 PM
I dedicate this next YouToob to Eric and his Melissa... may God bless your lives for as long as breath is in your lungs...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dzwMLQi-caU

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Tue 12/16/08 12:32 PM

As it moves slowly closer to the Billion Dollar mark in theaters (Will it make the final $3,776,374):

Theatrical Performance
Total US Gross $530,723,626
International Gross $465,500,000
Worldwide Gross $996,223,626


Wow... I hope this means lot's more Christian Bale sequels !!!

TelephoneMan's photo
Tue 12/16/08 11:56 AM




"edgy" for women is usually termed "crazy" for some reason. But if living outside the box and not being one of the "herd" crazy then you are looking at it .:tongue: lol


Agatha I have to agree with that .. I am very much a 'color outside the lines' woman who is not one to follow the usual or be part of the crowd & get flack for being that way quite often. BUT I also have a lot of 'support' who say ROCK ON :banana: :banana:




ROCK ON !!!!!!!!

--- da both of ya's.............




Yo dude. You got it ...

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I'll see ya those dancing nanners, and raise you a whole bunch more...

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Tue 12/16/08 10:33 AM



Methinks if you have to " bump " your own match me thread...it prolly isn't going to work....lol


bump (smarta$$)


Sorry dude. Couldn't resist. LOL


You're a mean one... Mr. Grinch.... LOL

Merry Christmas!! LOL LOL

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Tue 12/16/08 08:24 AM

Can you do a housecall right now TM


Sorry, this isn't a flirt thread. Its a prayer request thread, and I don't feel it is appropriate to flirt in here.

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Tue 12/16/08 08:08 AM


"edgy" for women is usually termed "crazy" for some reason. But if living outside the box and not being one of the "herd" crazy then you are looking at it .:tongue: lol


Agatha I have to agree with that .. I am very much a 'color outside the lines' woman who is not one to follow the usual or be part of the crowd & get flack for being that way quite often. BUT I also have a lot of 'support' who say ROCK ON :banana: :banana:




ROCK ON !!!!!!!!

--- da both of ya's.............

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Tue 12/16/08 08:00 AM
Edited by TelephoneMan on Tue 12/16/08 08:02 AM

laugh :heart: ya Jim! LOL I have tried this tact before.. didn't work for me, but I hope it works for you! :smile:


Thanks for the vote of confidence, Tanya...

... at this point I really don't care... I am happy living single with my dog. Much less headaches. But it would be cool to meet someone ... I guess the desire is there, but the hope is gone.

Could care less... about ready to skip this dating site crap for greener pastures.

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Tue 12/16/08 03:31 AM
Edited by TelephoneMan on Tue 12/16/08 03:37 AM

I've been having panic attacks and nausea, hyperventilating, and heart beating fast all day, almost ready to pass out, from the PTSD symptoms in me brought about yet again by so called "edgey" guys. Is the edge worth it? Not when it is psychological or emotional, no. It has taken me a long time to learn that lesson and I hope it sticks.


Sweet lady, Edgy in this thread doesn't include stepping over the lines of being a gentleman. Here an Edgy man is a man, not a loser who would ever allow his lady to suffer even one second. I know all about PTSD because I had a father that was one of those losers. My life as a child was a virtual hell-on-earth war zone and some memories never go away.

An Edgy man has the guts to put his faith first. I am a Christian and Jesus Christ makes my path. I am by nature a risk taker, if I am playing a strategy game such as chess, I will sacrifice pieces in order to overcome the opponent for an end result. I am currently in college full-time and I am risking everything for a vision of my future. I am not going to stop until I earn a Ph.D. That will be about 6 years from now when I am in my early fifties. Not because I am some loser, but because I kick butt as a student, and I believe it is my calling to become a college professor.

Losers like you mention couldn't hack it in my world. They do what they do because inside they are weak little puppies who have to take out their laundry on beautiful women. When I worked in the factories, I was the top die maker in my field. As a musician, I'm not afraid to jam with anyone. As a telephone engineer, I carved my way to the top with no college degree, just mettle, resolve and guts. I learned the trade of telecommunications engineering completely by on-the-job training. As a college student at the community college level I was inducted in the Phi Theta Kappa honor society, and became Vice President of Fellowship there. At the university level when I transferred in, I earned departmental honors (one of 21 in the over 600 students that graduated last Sunday, December 14th... I now own a Bachelor's degree!!!) and I graduated at the university as the first male inductee to the McNair Scholars program at this college. Not to mention I have an excellent grade point average.

Loser like you mention couldn't hack it in my world.

I also don't drink (EVER), don't smoke, and I have no need for drug abuse of any kind. I live clean, close to God, and honest.

I have a love for my community and I volunteer my time to help with a safety patrol called the Guardian Angels. Pray for us on January 5th, 2009 (the first day of the semester) because I intend to have a patrol force that will stand up to the rampant crime that surrounds our college the first day of the semester each time as students are robbed of their financial aid refunds. The losers you are referring to are the guys I intend to help see in prison. www.guardianangels.org

Here, at least as far as I personally am concerned, Edgy guys equate righteous men before God. To tell you the honest truth, it takes more guts to walk in this world as a true Christian man, than it does to walk as a Marine on the battlefield. I have seen poverty, and people around me caving in to the things of this world, but if I set my eyes on Christ, no thing or person in this world can harm me.

THAT is Edgy, and I dare any man with a pair to walk one month in my shoes. I did not choose the easiest path, I chose the path I felt God had me to walk. I am no whimp, but rather a gentleman in strength and stature.

One day when they close the lid on that pine box and lower me into the Earth, folks are going to remember me as a Christian man who made a difference in his world. For through Christ I can do all things, and without him, I am nothing.

THAT is Edgy.






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Tue 12/16/08 02:48 AM

Methinks if you have to " bump " your own match me thread...it prolly isn't going to work....lol


bump (smarta$$)

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Mon 12/15/08 09:58 PM
bump

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Mon 12/15/08 09:56 PM
Edited by TelephoneMan on Mon 12/15/08 09:57 PM

OMG that broke my heartbrokenheart
so sad and sweet and beautifulflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


Thank you for commenting.

I was trying to capture the real life experience of losing someone you love in a relationship. Not by someone dying, but just by folks parting ways.

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Mon 12/15/08 09:55 PM
:smile:

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Mon 12/15/08 09:54 PM
Well, I need to go sleep.

Had one of them "wish I could put a gun to my head now" days... and just simply wore out.

Ya'll turn the lights out when ya leave... LOL

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Mon 12/15/08 09:52 PM
I guess I'm an oddball, then... because if I do ever flirt (rare I do)... I'll look back at it, and I get disgusted at what I wrote, usually after it is too late to edit it out...

Just honestly sincerely trying to figure out stuff.

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Mon 12/15/08 09:49 PM
bump

TelephoneMan's photo
Mon 12/15/08 09:40 PM

I've seen it a thousand times myself!


so, are people really that preoccupied with sex or WTF?

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Mon 12/15/08 09:35 PM
I mean... I started a musician's thread to talk about gigs, guitars and gear, and people even turned that into a flirt thread...

..seems a bit out of control at times. And at times un-appropriate. IMO