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Sun 09/30/18 05:38 PM

It was a mild winter in nz biggrin spring arrived a few months early smitten waving


That will make my favorite band happy when they go back in December for the holidays. Like a Storm is from there and they go home every year about this time because the weather is more mild there from December to March than it is here in the States.

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Sun 09/30/18 05:30 PM
I get nervous about meeting new people. :sweat:

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Sun 09/30/18 05:25 PM


Thinking I forgot how much I LOVE the Animaniacs!!


But it's not on Netflix. tears


No it's on Hulu. :confused:

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Sun 09/30/18 05:22 PM
This is my first time doing something like this online so no way am I giving out my cell number. It has nothing to do with dodging or lying or not being interested. It has to do with living alone and looking out for my physical and mental well-being. If you want to know if I am real we'll arrange to meet someplace we both know how to get too. I don't need to call you for directions. If you can't make it or you are running late, it's a public place with a phone. Call them and leave me a message.

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Sun 09/30/18 04:56 PM

When you're trying to ignore someone, but they keep calling.

Angry is not the word, disturbing is.


Right! surprised

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Sun 09/30/18 04:51 PM

Of those on the forums, who is actually using Mingle2 to find a date/relationship?

flowerforyou


Me. More friendship first then if it turns into dating then okay. If not I'm alright with friendship.:blush:

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Sun 09/30/18 04:44 PM
ciretom IS very confused. Like any description not 100% of things said in OP's description are going to match 100% of women. However overall every person here knows a female that they can agree matches some part of that description so I say kudos to the OP!
:clap::clap::clap::clap:

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Sun 09/30/18 04:25 PM
Thinking I forgot how much I LOVE the Animaniacs!!

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Sun 09/30/18 03:28 PM
Friends means we don't have sex but we hang out want have a good time. Male or female.

Dating means we hang out and see if we MIGHT have sex because we are compatible with each other as friends AND physical partners. (In my case this is reserved for men only).

Relationship means we see each other exclusively and are moving toward possible marriage. Maybe that's old fashioned thinking but I like taking things very very slowly to make sure we both are get everything we are bargaining for before going to the next level.

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Sun 09/30/18 03:05 PM
Your profile picture doesn't make you look approachable for a intimate encounter even by English standards. If you have a different picture that would be good.

Good luck.

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Sun 09/30/18 02:56 PM
Normally I try to stay pretty open minded so maybe if you change that you are "looking for an intimate encounter" it would be more in line with your interest??

As far as your aesthetics (meaning how you look), if a "young girl" is looking to "sit on grandpa's lap" then your aesthetics won't matter to her, so I'm told.

So good luck and....yeah.

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Sun 09/30/18 12:16 PM
"I hear the ticking of my clock
I'm lying here, the room's pitch dark."

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Sun 09/30/18 12:05 PM
I think your profile is Awesome. :thumbsup:
The profile picture is nice and the information gives enough so someone will want to see more. You will find someone in your area in no time. :wink:

Good luck and welcome to mingle2

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Sun 09/30/18 11:58 AM
I agree with klc. The no-shirt farmer's tan look is distracting. It could be discouraging "real" women from looking at your
profile.

Good luck.

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Sun 09/30/18 11:48 AM



Most people just go with the crowd.
They go where the people are.
Not where the person they want will be.
That requires too much effort and thought.


Yep..
Just like filling out an informative profile so someone will know whether they have anything in common with you (to start a conversation) apparently takes "too much effort and thought" for most people....huh




...or reading the profile to know where to even start the conversation. It's so sad. :disappointed:

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Sun 09/30/18 11:41 AM
It's relaxed and casual. Very nice. :thumbsup:

Good luck with your search and welcome!

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Sun 09/30/18 11:37 AM
Guys on dating sites that don't take "no I'm not interested" for answer! rant

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Sun 09/30/18 11:24 AM

WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?

YOU WANT AN 90 YEAR OLD WOMAN? huh


rofl

My 85y/o grandma is single!

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Sun 09/30/18 11:04 AM
Edited by Red on Sun 09/30/18 11:07 AM





Since I have been on dating sites..it is *shpocking* how little thought guys (I can only speak about guys, as I do not peruse women's profiles)
put into finding a woman with commonalities....

I have *actually* had guys say "all that matters is I am attracted to you....everything else will work out/ nothing else is important"..

These are *precisely* the guys who end up on sites whining about how they have nothing in common.....grown apart...etc..

Because all he was worried about was she made his boner tingle...and, once the new wears off the nookie..as it does after a while (this is NOT to say people quit having sex)..then he realizes they have nothing in common, and really don't enjoy each other's comnpany...because ALL they had going for them was the hots...they don't even really like each other.Whereas, had they done due dilligence and found someone who they had a LOT in common wioth..they still be close, sharing things...digging each other..

Once the intital fire dies down some..people who are very comaptible still are close, share good times, intimacies (if you can only equate intimacy with sex, I feel sorry for you)...and continuew to have sex...

If they are basically living separate lives...he's off with his friends doing *his* things...she's off with her friends doing *her* things, not really sharing any time together...and they are really only sharing a roof...no wonder they've growing apart.





THANK YOU bluegrass!! :clap::clap::clap::clap::clap: flowers

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Sun 09/30/18 10:17 AM
drinker
Cheers to bouncing back!!