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I been searching the one on the net for bout 7 mths. bout ready to give. where does someone go on the net to find the one?
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try real life
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I been searching the one on the net for bout 7 mths. bout ready to give. where does someone go on the net to find the one? Patience is a virtue...... It might help to put some stuff about you, your interests , and so forth in your profile, so when we women are flipping through them, if we see something that piques our interest...if we see that a guy shares and interest she has....they'll be more likely to message you, and want to chat.. Right now there's *nothing* for a woman to go on... 
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where does someone go on the net to find the one? Go to a liquor store to find the one. 
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where are you?
Twilight Zone maybe..... |
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where are you
Right behind you. Don't turn around! Leave the donuts and go... where does someone go on the net to find the one?
I don't know, but I find it hilarious that so many people go to look for the one by visiting sites with thousands to millions of people. To me it's kinda like saying "where can we go to find privacy? I know, let's go hang out at the stadium during a football game." Or "I need to find the one! Where do I go? I know, I'll hang out at the DMV everyday! Everyone has to go to the DMV at some point, so eventually they'll go there and voila!" If you want to find "the one," then figure out what defines them as "the one," what sets them apart from all the rest, then go do those things that one person does, and run into just them over and over again. Either that, or you become unique yourself, and let them figure out how to find you, assuming your "the one" is someone that will go through the effort. Most people just go with the crowd. They go where the people are. Not where the person they want will be. That requires too much effort and thought. |
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Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
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Fri 09/28/18 07:14 PM
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Most people just go with the crowd. They go where the people are. Not where the person they want will be. That requires too much effort and thought. Yep.. Just like filling out an informative profile so someone will know whether they have anything in common with you (to start a conversation) apparently takes "too much effort and thought" for most people.... 
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Well said
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Don't give up.May be you will find you partner tomorrow,you have insisted on seeking online relationship for 7 month,it's pity if you give up.Wish you find your online relationship soon.
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Good Luck with that online idea! Too many opinionated, closed minds on line. It is like a kid in the candy store, so much to choose from that there must be something better around the next corner so I'll keep looking! Look for what is acceptable not what is ideal!! Life is always a compromise and never perfect.
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Edited by
Toodygirl5
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Sat 09/29/18 11:33 AM
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Sometimes the One is not on the Internet.
Get out., socialize with People in person. I Know available men who Never dated Online. 
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I been searching the one on the net for bout 7 mths. bout ready to give. where does someone go on the net to find the one? Plus you need to consider there are probably a thousand guys to every gal on these types of sites. Just a guess. 
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Most people just go with the crowd. They go where the people are. Not where the person they want will be. That requires too much effort and thought. Yep.. Just like filling out an informative profile so someone will know whether they have anything in common with you (to start a conversation) apparently takes "too much effort and thought" for most people....
...or reading the profile to know where to even start the conversation. It's so sad. 
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Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
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Sun 09/30/18 12:07 PM
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Most people just go with the crowd. They go where the people are. Not where the person they want will be. That requires too much effort and thought. Yep.. Just like filling out an informative profile so someone will know whether they have anything in common with you (to start a conversation) apparently takes "too much effort and thought" for most people....
...or reading the profile to know where to even start the conversation. It's so sad.
They always say "ask me anything"..."I am an open book.." No, moron.....I am not going to play 20 Questions with someone just to find out if we have *anything* in common.. How's about you read MY profile, and tell me what YOU feel we have in common? I never hear from them again... Laziness.... Or, conversely, say I *do* start a conversation...asking things about themselves (like he said to do).. Then it's all "This ain't no da** job interview..." Yes, dips**t, it kind of is.. You're too lazy to fill out your profile, so I don't know diddly squat about you or your interests or what you are looking for.. |
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Most people just go with the crowd. They go where the people are. Not where the person they want will be. That requires too much effort and thought. Yep.. Just like filling out an informative profile so someone will know whether they have anything in common with you (to start a conversation) apparently takes "too much effort and thought" for most people....
...or reading the profile to know where to even start the conversation. It's so sad.
They always say "ask me anything"..."I am an open book.." No, moron.....I am not going to play 20 Questions with someone just to find out if we have *anything* in common.. How's about you read MY profile, and tell me what YOU feel we have in common? I never hear from them again... Laziness.... Or, conversely, say I *do* start a conversation...asking things about themselves (like he said to do).. Then it's all "This ain't no da** job interview..." Yes, dips**t, it kind of is.. You're too lazy to fill out your profile, so I don't know diddly squat about you or your interests or what you are looking for.. I bet you're a lot of fun to date. |
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Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
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Sun 09/30/18 05:50 PM
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I bet you're a lot of fun to date. You'll never know...I wouldn't let it worry you, pookie.... 
Peace, love,and cinnamon rolls to ya... |
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where are you
Right behind you. Don't turn around! Leave the donuts and go... where does someone go on the net to find the one?
I don't know, but I find it hilarious that so many people go to look for the one by visiting sites with thousands to millions of people. To me it's kinda like saying "where can we go to find privacy? I know, let's go hang out at the stadium during a football game." Or "I need to find the one! Where do I go? I know, I'll hang out at the DMV everyday! Everyone has to go to the DMV at some point, so eventually they'll go there and voila!" If you want to find "the one," then figure out what defines them as "the one," what sets them apart from all the rest, then go do those things that one person does, and run into just them over and over again. Either that, or you become unique yourself, and let them figure out how to find you, assuming your "the one" is someone that will go through the effort. Most people just go with the crowd. They go where the people are. ht.Not where the person they want will be. That requires too much effort and thought this ... Not where the person they want will be. That requires too much effort and thought ... 
I just said that to a friend today ... go with out any expectation ... even if you just have fun going ... |
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I been searching the one on the net for bout 7 mths. bout ready to give. where does someone go on the net to find the one? There is no set location to go to find the one. If there was I would be going there. You can only just be yourself and let it happen naturally and it can happen when you least expect it. |
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I bet you're a lot of fun to date. You'll never know...I wouldn't let it worry you, pookie....
Peace, love,and cinnamon rolls to ya... No, I do not accept your offer. |
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I'm in bed.
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