Thank you klc. I'm a firm believer i. whatever doesn't kill me makes me stronger. It took me 7 years to even date someone again and that relationship just ended over a year ago. I've been very slow to get back on the horse again, but being on this website has helped a little.

You are right though. So many women...and men feel a moral or religious obligation to remain in their marriage and at times it is to the detriment of themselves, their spouse and/or their children. They get so hung up on the "til death do us part" piece of the vow that they forgot what they promised to do for each other. For me, once both my husbands stopped doing what they promised, it was over for me.

My first husband had a child with a girl thst was 10 years younger than me (she was 17), and my second husband physically assaulted my son. Those two acts don't signify "love, honor or protection" to me. And although I held up my end of our vows there was no part of my vows that said I had to be dishonored, feel unprotected by my spouse or watch myself or my child be constant victims of physical or mental abuse.

Some may say that I should have seen the warning signs prior to saying "I do" but somehow after dating both spouses for several years, they were able to hide those traits until they landed me. Then things went south. They started acting differently and freaking out. I didn't understand. By the time I thought to ask for help it was too late in my first marriage and in the second one he refused to see there was a problem.

So many guys asking if there are any "real" women here.

Well I am a Real Woman who wants to know if there are any Real MEN here? Where are you hiding?

The bad boy/Eminem look will appeal to someone. Profile looks good if that is a reflection of who you truly are.

Good luck with your search and welcome to Mingle2!

I agree 1000%.

Picture is nice. Profile info is helpful. Tell the ladies about an interest you have and you will be all set!

Good luck! ,

Okay, thank you for the "tip."
Lol!

By the way...I suck, I don't blow.

I did. So am I too understand that once we match and we are talking I can't send that person hugs or kisses anymore?

when I am matched to someone and try to "nudge" him, I keep getting a message that says I am nudging too many people. But I have removed everyone from my nudge list and it was only 3 people.

What do I do? I want to blow a kiss or send a hug.

Leonardo DaVinci!

Oh sorry we're talking "musical" artists.

Okay so James Brown and Marvin Gaye for the moves and the sounds that tbey introduced to the music world and are still being mimicked today, and Selena and Lena Horne for having the courage and the pipes to open the doors.

Clay Aiken, Roseanne Barr, Fantasia Barrino & Sanjaya.

What if Tag Team had never yelled "Whoomp There It Is!?

What if Boyz II Men had never discovered The End Of The Road?

What if Los Del Rio had never taught us the Macarena?


*keep this going with artists and songs from the 90's*

What if Boston never had More Than A Feeling?

What if Madonna hadn't been a Material Girl?

What if Falco had never been Rocked by Amadeus?


*keep this going with artists and songs from the 80's.*

I'm thinking that I'm happy my best mingle friend is online right now!

I wws supposed to meet someone tomorrow but he gave me one word answers and now nothing. I think he's going to flake on me.

My first thought this morning.... "Why am I drooling?"

That first and only. It makes the sex. Once this goes away then the sex doesn't matter anymore.