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Wed 10/17/18 07:38 PM

Wonder why a 53 year old guy sent me a nudge and his profile says his filter is set for 18-38 year old women. I'm 51. Thinking why.


Don't think about this one. You will hurt yourself. laugh

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Mon 10/15/18 05:25 PM
One night stand. That way there is no fighting over whose stuff goes in it.....MINE! :blush:

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Mon 10/15/18 05:21 PM
"I've got a love-ly bunch of coco-nuts
Deedle lee deedle lee,
There they are a standing in a roooowww.....
Bump, bump, bump,
Big ones, small ones, some as big as your head!..."

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Mon 10/15/18 03:26 PM

Is it too early to drink?


Heck no! It's happy hour somewhere! drinks

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Mon 10/15/18 03:22 PM
I feel oddly....human. :alien:

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Mon 10/15/18 03:07 PM
"Something vague"

laugh

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Mon 10/15/18 02:43 PM
Yes I smoke to much of the elfin leaf.:wink:

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Mon 10/15/18 02:36 PM
Masturbate? what

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Mon 10/15/18 02:26 PM
Well "I don't know half of you half as well as I should like, and I like less than half of you half as well as you deserve."

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Mon 10/15/18 01:42 PM
Heaven forbid someone actually fill in their profile information because then someone like the OP may actually ask them questions about what they wrote and then that person has to remember what they said about themselves. Most people are so eager to please and desperate to find SomeOne that they will use a blank profile in order to mislead a person into believing they are a "perfect match". My philosophy is to be what I am from day one that way on day 101, there are no surprises. And I want You to be who You really are from day one until day 101 too that way I don't get any surprises. I don't expect any man to change for me and I don't want any man to change for me. If you tell me on day one that you love fishing I would NEVER ask you to pretend you don't just because I don't. You are who you are and someone will like you for that, period.

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Mon 10/15/18 01:16 PM
I would like to meet:
Poetrywriter because he is super sensitive, sweet, smart and good with words.

Dodo_David because he has a quirky sense of humor, he's super smart, witty and a trekky!!

Pisces318 is a cool cat who reminds me of my "vatos" back home.

And I wouldn't mind meeting I_love_bluegrass because she is just friggin' awesome!! :blush::blush:

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Mon 10/15/18 06:01 AM
Short, sweet and too the point. :thumbsup:

Welcome to Mingle2.

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Sun 10/14/18 11:47 PM

jello red! wrassle in jellobigsmile


It'd sure be easier to wrassle in! laugh

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Sun 10/14/18 11:43 PM
Why is it so damn cold?? :fearful::fearful:

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Sun 10/14/18 06:00 PM
Wanna wrestle in baby oil?

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Sun 10/14/18 04:57 AM
Speed on the highway

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Sun 10/14/18 04:47 AM

Topic: Why girl like only bad boys??

huh The topic is a false claim.


Agreed. It is false. The question should be why do women seem to stay with men who are bad for them?

Answer: Some women like the drama. They think if there is no drama there is no "real love" in the relationship.

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Sun 10/14/18 04:42 AM

Letting go **with** your heart takes conviction with a bit of resignation. There is no room for doubt or second-guessing.

It's one thing to let go, but it's another to do it with your heart, meaning that you don't hold any malice or grudges. Instead, you're letting go with love and respect, not hatred or disappointment. That's why it takes a firm resolve and some resilience. It's not easy to do. If you do it wrong, you'll tear yourself apart.

When you let go with your heart, it's because you know it's what is best. Maybe for you. Maybe for them. Maybe for both. Because of that, you cannot afford feelings of remorse. You need some level of detachment to blunt the sting. That takes acceptance. The acceptance becomes a form of resignation. The resignation helps you to move on.

If the other person refuses to let go, that's not your problem unless you allow them to make it your problem. And if you allow that to happen, you haven't really let go with your heart. Yes, the other person may feel pained by your decision. But if you allow them to prolong that pain, and to cause yourself added discomfort or pain, then you aren't really using your heart, are you? That's self-destructive behavior more akin to pity and melancholy. It's not compassion or empathy.

Letting go with your heart requires things like compassion -- positive feelings. It also requires a rational mind. The heart looks to the mind for protection, but the mind can become corrupted by the heart if you allow it. So the mind needs to counter the pain in the heart by building positivity as a shield. That positivity will eventually turn the heart away from those darker emotions. Once those dark emotions are gone, the heart can begin to let go. The positive feelings seeded by the mind can then bloom, allowing you to go your own way without any regrets.


Well said! :clap::clap::clap::clap:

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Sun 10/14/18 04:25 AM
Edited by Red on Sun 10/14/18 04:30 AM
THANK YOU Dodo_David!! It's about time someone besides me points out that Bill Clinton is and always has been a sexual predator who needs to be brought up before the highest courts with regards to complaints from multiple women stemming from all the way back when he was Governor of Arkansas! Problem is Hilary either had the victims killed or paid off and the same coroner that signed the death certificates is the same one that performed the autopsies. How is it that someone's death is ruled a suicide when they died from two gunshot wounds to the back?

The Democratic policy of kill first and apologize afterwards is why the democrats think they can get away with being so hypercritical of an innocent persons actions. "Oops" is their favorite word. The protesters think if they scream and jump up and down and bully loud enough that the change they affect will be positive because they've "gotten their way." But when the outcome is negative or they are wrong they aren't ready to deal with or handle the ramifications of their behavior. "Oops" is all we as Americans get. The republicans are left to pick up the pieces, try to correct the mistakes and the democrats are right behind them telling them that they are doing it wrong and screaming and protesting once again.

Thank GOD Hilary didn't become president. Bill would have been at it again and more American lives would have been lost and this country would be in worse shape then it was when the last person left! All I have to say is "Benghazi." (oops)

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Sat 10/13/18 06:18 PM
Mi espanol no es bien. Pero, yo comprende mas espanol.