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... is caused by anger. Repressed anger towards your spouse can kill your sex life. so get it worked out if you want your sex life to be restored. Well this definitely makes sense, and there's many reasons for the anger to be there. My ex hated me, and the feeling was definitely mutual. |
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MILFs & Younger Men
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Younger guys definitely have a certain appeal. Can't explain it but I wouldn't mind dating a younger guy at all, as long as we were on the same page for wanting similar things out of a relationship
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Older men, younger women...
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I can honestly say I don't think a much older man would appeal to me right now. I'm definitely not through having children-I would like just one more-and that is definitely not something most older men are wanting. If I felt my family was complete, that would likely be a different story.
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Do you prefer to read...
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I read anywhere. Locking myself in the bathroom (whether the toilet is in use or not) is where I can hide and read for 5 mins.
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you know what sucks
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when you put up that wall not letting anyone in, then you take it down only to get denied 
I think im just staying single forever 
nahh you just keep being discerning on who you let in, and keep trying. Giving up isn't the answer. |
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I can't remember the last time I was on a date
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Do you want it?
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All depends. I am snarky, sarcastic, but it's rare when I am mean or rude. My ex, however, used it to put me down constantly. Just depends on what the intention is behind it.
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Romance and Alcohol
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Anyone I would consider dating would be in an age range that they should know better than to drive if their drunk, so um no! I see your point....and I considered that thought as well. I also considered that there have been times in my own life where I made bad choices due to stressors/circumstances. Kind of depends on what you do to fix what you've already done. Yeah um, I think we've all done things that we know better not to do but we've done them anyway!! |
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Romance and Alcohol
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All depends. Anyone can make a mistake and be stupid. If it's repeat, that's completely different. My ex used to work with a guy who had 3 of them, and complained it was the cop's fault that he had them, not his own! Someone like that...no way. But someone who made a poor choice and is paying for it and hasn't repeated it, yeah I would. We've all made poor decisions that we have gotten second and more chances from....the key is learning from them and not repeating them.
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A little embarrassing..
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I was over at Mom's house this afternoon when Dad took the mail in. He just looks at the individual pieces and throws them across the table, every day, muttering about junk mail. Today he threw a catalog at me, while he was muttering, it was a "Carol Wright Gifts" catalog. You know the ones...they have been selling the "blanket robes" (snuggies) for years along with sensible shoes and cheap curtains and most "as seen on tv" gizmos. Well, I start flipping threw the pages as I was talking to Mom and what to my shocked eyes do I see on the pages of this respectable catalog???????? "COMFORT AIDES"...... 
(you know....SEX TOYS AND "ENHANCEMENT PRODUCTS" AND PLEASURE DVD'S) right along side the folding canes and denture creams and handy choppers 
THey've carried those for years! I've seen them around for a very long time! |
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Mine are a month to two months old
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Ugh. Sorry but no. No health benefits to it...just a nasty habit. Pot is a dealbreaker too..the smells even worse then the cigs and literally makes me ill smelling it.
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"fit" is a relative word though. I work out and watch what I eat...but while I'm not obese, I don't know if I could be called "fit" either.
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Why me?
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How come it seems like all I attract are the crazies, or the liars, Or the ones that are testing the waters? Don't Know who I made mad upstairs but ya have Gotten me back 10 times over!! LOL I've had the same...just reverse the genders. |
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Best way to approach you?
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I respond to almost anything or everything...I don't mind nudges or anything else silly. Unless you're someone trolling for sex, then I will not respond, as I have put specifically in my profile I'm not into FWB or NSA. After that....anything is fair game. If you're a prick or insincere I'll figure it out pretty quickly.
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Thank you all for your posts, and I know that I should break it off with him to help in the long run, but at the same time, I don't want to give up on him, I wanna be there for him. I feel like if I give him time, he will see me for more than what he sees me as now. Probably a big mistake, but I will learn the lesson soon enough I suppose. But this may be pointless anyways, I might have scared him off. He did call when he said he would, and all that, but I don't know, I'm freaking out, need to calm down. I've read an entire book since Monday, it's the only thing that keeps my mind off it. Gotta find another. :) If he's really focusing on his alcoholism....yes he needs support, but he needs to work through it on his own. And he's not reaching out to you for support. He's...not reaching out to you at all. Let it go, move on. IF and when he's sober, let him come seek you out. |
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I'm the same no matter what. I can't be anyone else but me....goodness knows I've tried. That extends offline, online...anywhere.
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Living and wading through these waters gives people far more insight then ones with only paper credentials. I wasted....well, far too many years on men like this as well. I can be a slower learner but I WILL catch up!
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I don't think there's necessarily only ONE person out there....
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the word WILL has various meanings..she will find someone else in time if she WILLS herself to move on. its when you try to hang on to what WAS that keeps you from what could be. its amazing what a little time and clear thinking can do. she and her children deserve better. he deserves to spend his old age with his brother. Love this! |
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