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Topic: Lack of desire for sex in a marriage...
Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Fri 03/11/11 01:57 PM Edited by Jeanniebean on Fri 03/11/11 01:57 PM
... is caused by anger. Repressed anger towards your spouse can kill your sex life. so get it worked out if you want your sex life to be restored.

shrxfn68 Joined Thu 07/16/09 Posts: 1482	Fri 03/11/11 02:07 PM
Anger, also caused by cheating,not being appreciative enough of your spouse, not saying endearing terms, no job. all of which can cause a dead sex life.

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Fri 03/11/11 02:10 PM Edited by bastet126 on Fri 03/11/11 02:10 PM
differing sex drives, which i guess leads to anger. so yup, work it out all you mr. and mrs. out there!

thor22 Joined Tue 09/16/08 Posts: 81	Fri 03/11/11 02:48 PM
fqk a bunch of sex...I only make love to wimmenz!

rlynne Joined Sun 11/23/08 Posts: 2458	Fri 03/11/11 03:14 PM
how does that correlate with angry sex...?

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Fri 03/11/11 03:22 PM
how does that correlate with angry sex...? IN angry sex, the people are angry but not necessarily at each other.

rlynne Joined Sun 11/23/08 Posts: 2458	Fri 03/11/11 03:52 PM
how does that correlate with angry sex...? IN angry sex, the people are angry but not necessarily at each other. i saw it more as a dominance issue...with one party um, well not being as satisfied....to put it as delicately as possible...

buddha35 Joined Sat 09/25/10 Posts: 70	Fri 03/11/11 03:58 PM
but if you had sex 3 times a day, then you shouldn't be mad

ChangeofHeart Joined Sun 10/26/08 Posts: 1280	Fri 03/11/11 04:17 PM
... is caused by anger. Repressed anger towards your spouse can kill your sex life. so get it worked out if you want your sex life to be restored. A man can have sex through just about any problem. Woman on the other hand realize that withholding what they are most valuable for is the best way to get what they want.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Fri 03/11/11 04:19 PM
but if you had sex 3 times a day, then you shouldn't be mad

rlynne Joined Sun 11/23/08 Posts: 2458	Fri 03/11/11 04:23 PM
... is caused by anger. Repressed anger towards your spouse can kill your sex life. so get it worked out if you want your sex life to be restored. A man can have sex through just about any problem. Woman on the other hand realize that withholding what they are most valuable for is the best way to get what they want. hey I'm worth more than that! so is every woman i know! if thats all we were worth then why stick around to make us angry in the first place? the statement was anger causes the emotional distance that makes sex undesirable for one reason or another... so its better to address it than let it smolder..

ChangeofHeart Joined Sun 10/26/08 Posts: 1280	Fri 03/11/11 04:25 PM
... is caused by anger. Repressed anger towards your spouse can kill your sex life. so get it worked out if you want your sex life to be restored. A man can have sex through just about any problem. Woman on the other hand realize that withholding what they are most valuable for is the best way to get what they want. hey I'm worth more than that! so is every woman i know! if thats all we were worth then why stick around to make us angry in the first place? the statement was anger causes the emotional distance that makes sex undesirable for one reason or another... so its better to address it than let it smolder.. You are right. There is no reason to be around a angry woman.

buddha35 Joined Sat 09/25/10 Posts: 70	Fri 03/11/11 04:33 PM
see if we had sex 3 times a day who could have the energy to be angery. You would also be in a good mood, therefore more open to solve the problum that pissed you off in the first place. See sex 3 times a day could be a very good thing.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Fri 03/11/11 05:31 PM
... is caused by anger. Repressed anger towards your spouse can kill your sex life. so get it worked out if you want your sex life to be restored. A man can have sex through just about any problem. Woman on the other hand realize that withholding what they are most valuable for is the best way to get what they want. hey I'm worth more than that! so is every woman i know! if thats all we were worth then why stick around to make us angry in the first place? the statement was anger causes the emotional distance that makes sex undesirable for one reason or another... so its better to address it than let it smolder.. You are right. There is no reason to be around a angry woman. Or an angry man.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 03/11/11 05:43 PM
Anger, also caused by cheating,not being appreciative enough of your spouse, not saying endearing terms, no job. all of which can cause a dead sex life. I so agree with you and Jeannie The worst thing that can happn in a marriage is when partners forget the magic everyday unfortunately at some point the resentment of forgotten hugs & I Love You's will go past the point of no return eventually so just don't let it happen How? Well ya How? say I love u evryday smile hug & wink everyday don't lie don't control compliment frequently tell each other everyday why you chose them in the 1st place do surprises for each other be sexy & stay that way what else?

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 03/11/11 05:44 PM
how does that correlate with angry sex...? IN angry sex, the people are angry but not necessarily at each other. i saw it more as a dominance issue...with one party um, well not being as satisfied....to put it as delicately as possible... Oh that's not good

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Fri 03/11/11 07:49 PM
... is caused by anger. Repressed anger towards your spouse can kill your sex life. so get it worked out if you want your sex life to be restored. A man can have sex through just about any problem. Woman on the other hand realize that withholding what they are most valuable for is the best way to get what they want. hey I'm worth more than that! so is every woman i know! if thats all we were worth then why stick around to make us angry in the first place? the statement was anger causes the emotional distance that makes sex undesirable for one reason or another... so its better to address it than let it smolder.. You are right. There is no reason to be around a angry woman. A Dominatrix would disagree.

Qureoss Joined Tue 03/15/11 Posts: 6	Wed 03/16/11 05:55 AM
Forget all the stereotypes you have heard or that you thought you knew about lack of desire for sex in a marriage is concerned. It defies all categorization and explanation to both the 'victims' and to third party observers. If you want to get an idea of the extent, nature and contrariness involved google "Experience Project" and "I Live In A Sexless Marraige". Quite the eye-opener.

indianadave4 Joined Wed 02/09/11 Posts: 1308	Wed 03/16/11 09:24 AM
Forget all the stereotypes you have heard or that you thought you knew about lack of desire for sex in a marriage is concerned. It defies all categorization and explanation to both the 'victims' and to third party observers. If you want to get an idea of the extent, nature and contrariness involved google "Experience Project" and "I Live In A Sexless Marraige". Quite the eye-opener. In reading dating forums it sure seems like single people experience and enjoy sex more than married people.

darkrythm Joined Thu 03/10/11 Posts: 20	Wed 03/16/11 09:36 AM
Depends on how open you can be about your sexual needs to your partner. Lots of people are too closed off when it comes to expressing their true sexual needs and desires.