i am a smoker so is it hard to have a relationship with girl?

Well...if she is a smoker then I doubt she will hate it.

For me it is, it's a deal-breaker. That, and some other things are
what just broke up me and the guy I was recently seeing. He lied in
the beginning and said he didn't smoke, yet then said he was in the
process of quitting. Come to find out he WAS still smoking, just
trying to hide it and tried to say it was "no big deal". Really?!?
Yeah, it is a big deal when you do when you know you can't, and you
are lying...done.

By the way, for me it's not just the smell and yuckyness, I actually
get physically sick from it. So like I said, for me it's an absolute
deal-breaker. Just can't understand why I keep getting guys that have
to try and lie and say they don't, like I'm not going to find out.



It wouldn't be hard to find a girl if she either smokes also, or at
least doesn't mind...some don't.

I cannot stand the smell of cigarette smoke. Smokers just don't realize how bad their clothes, hair, breath and even their skin reeks from this habit. Also, the few times that I am around it I pay dearly the next day from my allergies and a severe headache. So dating someone that smoke just isn't worth it.

I agree....only that my bronchitis kicks in when I am around cigarette smoke and I wind up with migraines the next day.

Yuck !! Smocking sucks! Drinking is much better than that.! N only those girls likes its smell who smokes...lol

i used to smoke 15yrs ago
and i have dated guys that have smoke.
i just dont allow smoking in my home

so you would rather date a drunk???

I'm and ex smoker it has been 8 years ago when I quit was smoking 3 packs a day.....

Do I consider it a deal breaker if the guy I'm with smokes? Nooooooooooo it all depends on how considerate they are. I do not allow smoking in my house or in my car..... If they do it in their house that is up to them but if they smoke in the bedroom then well....Houston we have a problem.... due to enclosed areas I tend to have a problem breathing.

Heck when I go to Applebees to have a few drinks and eat I sit at the bar which at the one I go to is the only place anyone can smoke.

As long as most are considerate with not blowing smoke in my face I can deal with it when there is plenty of ventilation...

But I will admit when they smoke as much as I use to the smell on their clothes is very noticeable..

Hmmmm I guess that I dont like the smell of smokes at all, but if I really loved someone I would deal with it, it just wouldnt be very nice to kiss them, a bit like kissing an ashtray , I guess.

i use to smoke,haven't for two years now.The last guy i dated smoked,it was like kissing a ashtray.at lease when i did smoke i made sure that breath didn't smell and that i didn't taste like one.I know prefer to date men that don't smoke,i have some breathing problems now and i really can't be around it.

if she smokes she pokes

Ugh. Sorry but no. No health benefits to it...just a nasty habit. Pot is a dealbreaker too..the smells even worse then the cigs and literally makes me ill smelling it.

Deal-breaker. Smoker, pot, etc. Not dealing with it again.

kissing a smokers mouth is like licking an ash tray...

Agreed. I'm very very senestive to smoke, so even the smell can get me off coughing. Smoking can be a really big deal-breaker. Alcohol is not unless you are really alcoholic, and some people are indeed allergic to alcohol. Some women can't stand the smell of it.

Do you lick ashtrays often?

Count me in too.