Hey Lex, maybe it wasn't the Real one. I thought I had that too for over 20 years. You know , people change. It was hard don't get me wrong, but when I realised there wasn't a damn thing I could have done to make a difference. I let it go. What a releif. You can stay dancing in the mud brother. Just reconinse it was her or you or both. You can work on the you, but the her part, forget it. All I ever wanted wanted was to be appreciated. I got that only the first few years. I could work 15 hours a day trying to meet her demands. Even when I did, not appreciated. I'm a much happier person. Never thought I could
start over at my age. I was wrong. There is hope.

The healing always has to come from within, it's just recognising it, and not dwelling on the past.

The last two posts make sense. Springer is a no no

That's true, in my mind with what I;ve been thru I've found, It's much quicker to rebound from failed relationships. Maybe cause my guard was still up enough I never fully fell. Either way call it defense, call it experience. I learned how to heal and move on.

Well, Wall hitting gets painful.

Thanks

I love your use of words heartnsoul.

You can use it Romeo, I'll even send you a recording,

I've just met someone
Who brightens up my day
With every word that's spoken
In each and every way

Her smile is like sunshine
that spreads to where she goes
If you ever meet here
I'm sure that you would know

Often we build up walls
So we can go and hide
Afraid to let another in
and see whats inside

I just knocked my walls down
and I let somebody in
I don't ever want to have to
build those walls again

Chorus:
I dropped my guard again
Now we will see
If I let another go and take a part of me

I thought that I was stronger
but it seems I'm getting weak
Cause I dropped my guard again
and now,
We... will... see

Now that I've done this
I must give it my all
knowing there's a chance I'll fail
and knowing I may fall

but it's worth every effort
for the happiness feel
I can only try to give it back
hope that she will see

Chorus:
I dropped my guard again
Now we will see
If I let another go and take a part of me

I thought that I was stronger
but it seems I'm getting weak
Cause I dropped my guard again
and now,
We... will... see

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Thats great. all I needed to here. If one person can relate to what I write it makes my day. Thanks

I'm sure many can relate to this song



As I look back on my life
I think of many things I've done
I've learned from all my losses
and some that I have won

Not just of mine alone
But friends who are near
I may have made bad choices
but I always percivere

Pre chorus
I've got to move ahead
and be all I can be
Cause the one I've shorted most of all
most definately was me

Chorus
It was me
I've always put myself last
It was me
But now that's in the past

I can't hold out any longer
I know my time has come
It's time for me
It's time for me

The first thing I must do
Is find myself a girl
and make each other happy
enjoy what's in this world

I can't be the only one
To feel the way I do
It's time to start living
maybe it's time for you

I've got to move ahead
and be all I can be
Cause the one I've shorted most of all
most definately was me

It was me
I always put myself last
It was me
But now that's in the past

I can't hold out any longer
I know my time has come
It's time for me
It's time for me

All rights reserved 2007

How do we heal after an emotional set back? This is a problem everyone has faced. When I was 19, I was devistated. Took me 2 years to get over it. Second time, it took me a year. I think the older we get the quicker we can heal. Once you realise that there wasn't a damn thing you could do to change the situation, you can move on.


Now, if you had issues that led to that heartbreak, and are aware of this, then guess what? You are on the road to healing. It's when you sit there and keep asking aking your self why, and have no answers is when you are in a state of confusion. I know this crap I've lived every side of it. You must come to grips that that either you or your partner had issues. You can deal with yopur own and improve your future. there is nothing that can be done to change to other person. So work on yourself, be happy with yourself, be aware what the failure of your past, so you can have a future.

I wish you all the best.

Communication is the key to any relationship, that and trust.

It's starts early on and is the basis for everything.

Starting out as little comments on forums or blogs. Moves to private E-mails. Here we find out early on if the other person has what it takes.

Whether it's potentila serious relationship, or just a poissible friend.

Do they read your e-mail and not answer, or not answer for days? Most of us have experienced this. Very upsetting once you've built some type of repore with another. Do we get upset? Hell yes we do. How do we react? Do we send more E-mails? I say no, I've been there, I've done it, It just adds to your frustration. If the person can't communicate at this early stage, they really aren't worth your time. The lack of consideration by not communicating properly will only lead to further lack of consideration. Anyone else feel the same?

What I can honestly say is, when I was in the dumps, it was my friends online that mostly got me thru my day. So now that I'm amongst the living, I will do whatever I can to cheer up, encourage or be a friend to whoever is in need.

Friendships in general, be it at work, online, at school, wherever. Isn't it great to have these friendships. While you are at work, you need friends there to get through the day, to have proper teamwork thats required in most workplaces. The friendships online, get you thru those those times when you need a brake, when you are down, when need a laugh. It's the friendships you make thru your life, that help you get thru your life. Thanks to all my friends

Thanks I do appreciate my online friends.

Actually it has happened for me. I just never proclaimed it online till after we met. I've just seen to many broken hearts because of this. So be careful, try to restrain till you can actually look in the eyes of your partner.

Thanks to everyone, the writing does help with the healing, but it can only do so much. My oldest turns 18 in Feb, So his nightmnare will end.

Record now w/serial

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