Txsgal, my thoughts exactly, he's been a smooth operator from the get
go. I shouldn't second guess myself but that's a bad habit of mine at
times. I wanted to be sure I wasn't over reacting or reading something
into things that weren't there.

Will, I agree...It should a real lack of respect.


Chica, he won't discuss meeting anymore...

I feel that he truly might be a "loose" cannon...but as I a said, he's
also been a very "smooth operator"

I have planned to discontinue contact, but wanted some input and another
opinion before I did.

J

That's what I initially thought Will, but he would always find a way to
butter me up through emails and I let it go.

J

I have been talking with a gentleman I met on another dating site for
some time. He definitely had sparked my interest. In the beginning, I
enjoyed our email conversations very much. I even thought that perhaps
we might meet; however, I have begun to have serious doubts about this
individual and validity of anything he has told me (or not told me) thus
far. His story about himself, what he does and where he lives changed
from what he had said in the beginning. I had let that slide as I know
that some people don't want to be upfront about their personal
information. We have continued to communicate, but he is not at all
forthcoming about anything. At one point we did discuss meeting and
that was some time ago and it has not come to pass. He had been calling
me quite frequently and we would talk about all sorts of things, but
there were times when I would say something completley innocent that
seemed to anger him. Like when he would ask me questions and I gave an
honest answer that he didn't like. He even hung up on me a couple of
times. Needless to say the phone calls have stopped but he continues to
email me, telling me he doesn't want to loose contact and that he is
interested in getting to "know" me. He tells me in the email how much
he thinks he cares for me and so on, but when I try to ask him questions
about anything that pertains to who he is and what he does, that info is
still not forthcoming. This has been going on since the end of
August, and I basically don't know anything more about him then I did
then. There doesn't to be any signs of him making a "real" effort in
getting to know me let alone meet me.

My question is do I continue dialogue with this man through email? How
can you possibly get to know someone that way? At some point don't you
have to have conversations in "real" time and work towards arranging a
meeting between the two of you? How long should you play "footsie" with
someone on the internet without there being any concrete developement of
the relationship? Also in light of our past phone conversations, and
the fact I thought it was terribly rude for him to hang up just because
I was honest about something was sort of a red flag that there may be
something seriouisly wrong with this man??

J

((HUGS)) BBL...your user name should say bigbutbeautiful!

I like your attitude, keep it up and you will go far.

J

Long time no "C" Will, how ya doin?

J

I was wondering where all the Illinois men were??? Seems there's an
echo in that area.


J

emo stands for "emotional"

Bands like Fuel, Staind, and Evergreen are not hardcore emo but same
sort of genre. Hard core emo has an intense "Punkish" sound. All in
all, the main theme about emo is the lyrics are very dark, ominus and
deeply emotional.

Personally, I think you would like some of it Jimi. My daughter has
turned me on to some stuff that I actually enjoy. I'm a huge Staind
fan. However some of it is a bit over the top for me.

J

Muscular Contractions



A UCLA Professor was giving a lecture on "Involuntary Muscular
Contractions" to his first year medical students.



Realizing that this was not the most riveting subject, the Professor
decided to lighten the mood slightly.



He pointed to a young woman in the front row and said, "Do you know
what your ass hole is doing while you're having an orgasm?"



She replied, "Probably deer hunting with his buddies."

Ugly or not...In a few years, I'll have one of my own as well and then
I'll be able to say "fuck em all, big and small!!" Me, my dog and my
Harley...what else does a woman really need?



J

too fun Recon...


My dad pissed:

"I should have pinched your head off when you come out the hole!"

J

Gee...I have a lot of good memories of my ol man!! LOL!

KB...you should be able to relate to this one hhhmmm??

Shakin Bacon!!

J

Screw him anyway Kat - you got your own Harley!!...that's something I've
only been able to dream about...You're my hero!!

J

Animal...I thought you would enjoy this one!! I posted it just for the
likes of you in mind!! (smiles)

J

What's up Cookie...What's shakin?!!

My dad on farting....


" I had a freeloader, and I had to kick him out, he wasn't payin is
rent!"

J

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
A set of screwdrivers,
a cordless drill, and
a black lace bra..


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
One friend who
Always makes her Laugh....
And one
Who lets her cry...


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
A good piece of furniture
not previously owned by
Anyone else in her family...


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
Eight matching plates,
Wine glasses with stems,
And a recipe for a meal that will
Make her guests feel honored.


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
A feeling of control over
Her destiny...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to fall in love
Without losing herself...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to quit a Job
Break up with a lover
and confront a friend without ruining the friendship

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
When to try harder... and
WHEN TO WALK AWAY.


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
That she can't change
The length of her calves,
The width of her hips, or
The nature of her parents...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
That her childhood
May not have been
Perfect..but;
Its over...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she would and
Wouldn't
Do for love or more...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to live alone...
even if
She doesn't like it...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
Whom she can trust,
Whom she can't,
And why she shouldn't
Take it personally...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
Where to go...
Be it to her best friend's kitchen table..
Or a charming inn in the woods...
When her soul needs soothing... !


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she can and can't accomplish

In a day...
A month..
And a year...


J

The Guys' Rules­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­



1. Men are NOT mind readers.

1. Learn to work the toilet seat.
You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down.
We need it up, you need it down.
You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down.

1. Sunday sports. It's like the full moon
or the changing of the tides.
Let it be.

1. Shopping is NOT a sport.
And no, we are never going to think of it that way.

1. Crying is blackmail.

1. Ask for what you want.
Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
Just say it!

1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.

1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's
what we do.
Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.

1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a Problem.

See a doctor.

1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 Days.

1. If you won't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't Expect us
to act like soap opera guys.

1. If you think you're fat, you probably are.
Don't ask us.

1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways
makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one

1. You can either ask us to do something
Or tell us how you want it done.
Not both.
If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.

1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during
commercials.

1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.

1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings.
Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We
have no idea what mauve is.

1. If it itches, it will be scratched.
We do that.

1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," We will act like
nothing's wrong.
We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.

1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, Expect an answer
you don't want to hear.

1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine...
Really .

1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to
discuss such topics as baseball, the shotgun formation,
or golf.

1. You have enough clothes.

1. You have too many shoes.

1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape!

1. Thank you for reading this.
Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight;


But did you know men really don't mind that? It's like camping.



Did any of you men notice that they are all numbered 1?

J

My dad..."you don't know your ass from fat meat!"

J

that blows...

but are you remaining friends or did that hit the shitter as well???


Why can't people just be honest and be themselves??!!

J

p.s. I'm proud of you and what you do to help animals Kat, I can't say
enough to commend your efforts.

When my dad got mad at one of us kids for doing something stupid - his
best line was "you don't know enough to shit when your belly hurts"!!

J

Hope it's nothing Shana, we're thinking of you!!

J