But heck I know some American "originals" that are mamas boys...lol. So it is a matter of the person as well as their culture.

You need to not take things so personally.
If one asks for opinions, who knows WHAT will be returned.
Long as it is on topic, it is acceptable.

Simply ignore the ones loaded with humor if that is not
your thing.

Mostly that happens because we surround ourselves with people we like being around, and of course that usually means they are of a similar consistency. They like similar things or feel the same way about topics etc.

We spend our time with people who think the same way we do, so we come to believe our perspective, is the correct one.

Then we come online and are exposed to people who are not at all like us. They come from all sorts of backgrounds, experiences, cultures etc. We discover that our perspective is just one perspective. Some folks freak out about that. They may even think people are disagreeing with them for the sake of argument, or to attack them personally. And may attack (back) in what they think is a response.

Then some of them get used to it, and grow, and become a more layered, interesting person as a result.

Note to all,
We are all of different ages, cultures and ways of life, trying to fit in together here.......chill out, don't over react to a post, people will say things that can be taken out of context and be nice........it will be noticed around here.