okay i got a 50, would have never thought it bout myself, but i guess it
does fit now that i think about it.

i agree about needin more info blondebabe44. if u dont tell people
alittle about ur self they just r not gonna take an interest at all.

someone who can be honest, carin, but not afraid 2 kick some ass when
needed.

i found with my nine year marriage that a person can give all they have
and its not gonna make a single bit of difference if the other person
doesnt even try. my ex never once tried durin the whole marriage and it
fell apart hard.

well welcome.

im here, but not 2 bad i guess

mornin, how r u?

drinkin myself lonely 2nite by chris young

it has gotten 2 the point that everyone i have met seems to think that u
can buy love. u cant buy love it has 2 just happen in my opinion.

i know where u r comin from, i am feelin the same way rite now myself.
but then i get a message from some of the sweetest people and they cheer
me up for no reason. i still dont understand how some of them know when
i am in these moods but they always seem 2. when a guy fucks me over i
just have 2 look at the good i already have in my life and keep tellin
myself that someone is out there for everyone and one day we will all
find them or they find us.

i understand how u feel, i have my own problems but the big thing i have
2 deal with is as soon as people find out my baby girl is disabled they
run. my health issues scare em alittle but for some reason when i tell
them that my 22 month old daughter is developmentally delayed and only
has most of her skills between 9-11 months they run. the ones that have
stuck around have told me that they r better people because of sis and
that they dont know what they would do with out seein her all the time
cause of how happy she is all the time. so dont worry bout bein alone
rite now, there is someone out there that is gonna believe that they r a
better person just because of ur strength. i know its not one of my own
personal vertues i have but be patient. i am a firm believer that
everything happens for a reason.

i couldnt agree with u more.

as for the takin the kids out of state, if the stipulation is set then
yeah it would be in ur papers. alot of people dont have it unless they r
afraid of someone runnin. he seems 2 think i am gonna take the kids and
run. i have no where 2 run 2 unless it is 2 his family so it shouldnt
matter then. he is just tryin 2 controll everything like he always has.
as for gettin involved with ne one, i havent even tried cause of it not
bein finalized, well that and havin a hard time with trust. just
everyone i know i met thru him so i have been tryin 2 find people who
have no ties 2 him at all and is hard when he still tries 2 run the
show.

yeah , sounds exactly like him. i know the kids need their dad in their
lives but there r times i just wish he would sign his rites away so that
everyone could move on. but thanx everyone for the advice.

yes he was controlling, and i already have full custody. nevada state
laws wont allow him 2 have custody cause he has a felony on his record.
so king ur pretty much sayin i should do what i gotta do and go from
there if he doesnt like it then he can fuck off.

thanx heather i will have 2 talk 2 my lawyer bout that stuff cause he
has where the only way i can take the kids out the state is if he is
with us. which makes it heard 2 take my daughter 2 her doctors
appointments cause they r out of state.

yeah he pays child support, thats y he thinks he can still control
everything. what he doesnt realize is been as how he just got a raise
the kids get a raise also. things were goin good till he moved then he
started all this stuff. my lawyer has had him served with papers but it
doesnt matter, he said hed rather spend the rest of his life in prison
than do what some one tells him he has 2 do. so been as how winter is
comin on quick here and the kids just started school, hes really not
gonna be happy cause my lawyer is makin him trade me vehicles cause his
is a new truck that is mechanically sound and mine keeps breakin down on
the way 2 school. he forgets that been as how we were still legally
married when he signed the papers for the truck that in nevada i have a
rite 2 it cause the laws. ud think hed want the kids 2 ride in a safe
vehicle that the heater actually works in tho.

he wont take the kids cause he thinks that is his way of controllin me
still, i understand with his job his days off change all the time but he
gets 10 days off in a row and doesnt even see them. the babysitter
thing, my regular sitter moved so when i found a new one he put a stop 2
that 2 cause he hasnt met her. im not even allowed 2 bring my friends
over 2 the house. dont get me wrong, ne one meets my kids, they stay in
their lives, but my kids r just that way, everyone seems 2 get attached
2 them. but he even had me served with papers sayin i cant let the
grandparents take the kids without his permission. i dont understand
what judge would sign that but my lawyer says its legal.

okay, my ex and i have been seperated for a year now, the divorce is
almost final. he just moved to another town 100 miles away, still pays
support and everything, jsut refuses 2 take the kids at all. i know that
is his loss but the problem is he still wants me to play by his rules.
im not suppose 2 bring ne one around the kids, well ne one he hasnt met
first. so how am i suppose 2 meet ne one new or ne thing like that if i
cant even get one nite 2 myself? ne advise?

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