I got the 801 number but didn't answer it because I didn't know who it is. Other than that, I was pretty pissed off to learn that my bank got changed to Chase and yes, that was WaMu.

Carlos, its good to know that you're willing to take anything as a grand assault, not grain of salt. WTF is grain of salt? But anyways, I think I have to agree with you when it comes to us guys having some major ego problems. You would probably noticed that majority of guys have this problem and I don't know if it includes you too. I don't know who was your master or life mentor if you even have one but I was taught that sometimes you will learn through defeat. If you know that you don't have such capabilities, just keep your mouth shut and learn. Well, that's what my mentor taught me.

Thanks everyone.

Help me out here fellow Mingle Members, especially those who I love like wux and krupa and many more. I met someone who I wanted to befriend but her feelings just started to come on too strong. She's new to the dating online stuff and its her first.
I know for the guys, they're probably questioning, "Well is she attractive?" Yes she is. She's pretty but the only problem is, she's very unaware of the dangers of online dating. I think its completely crazy! She does have her standards for a guy but when I told her that I'm going through a divorce, she told me that its ok. Its cool enough that she end up telling me that my pics are scary, seem very unapproachable and I did that on purpose. I told her that I have many flaws. The girl who has never been with any guy and I asked her "Have you talked to any other guys? Maybe they would meet your standards or make you happy." I did everything in my will and power to make her to accept me as a friend, only! After I end up showing her pics (they're not on my profile) of my younger years of how much I smiled back then...she end up asking me this..."I want to marry you and love you for who you are?", again, I told her that I have many ugly flaws. I know that I'm not perfect but come on, what good looking woman like her would want a guy who no longer has a high self esteem? Its madness I tell you! I mean come on, I'm holding a job where I work only if I was called in, I'm going to school to get my MCSE certification, looking for a second job, lost a house and living with my battle buddy, several months behind bills, don't even have a stable income, and ummm...I'm fat? LOL! Dude, I'm not even that attractive either! LOL! My fear is that, as a good friend, I just don't want her to make the same mistake as I did a decade ago and I had to learn a hard lesson on that when it comes to relationships. Even when she learns of my past experiences of what I've did and what wrong I've done, it still doesn't stop her from coming on too strong. This girl is being blinded by love and I've warned her over like I don't know how many times not to allow it to happen. This NUTS! The girl is too precious to be hurt emotionally in anyway whatsoever, but knowing who I really am, can do that to her. I will love her as a friend but nothing more than that. So help me out here ya'll, what should I do next? I'm so confused...

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I don't know anymore!!! I DON'T KNOW ANYMORE!! (Tries to run through a wall)

I appreciate everyone's feedback on this topic. We gotta keep everything up and going. I don't think that I'll leave this site because there's so many hilarious characters on here. But there are many who I admire too. Yes, Krupa, it suppose to be a serious site I guess but some of us probably just don't see it that way.

Wow, winter boy eh? LOL!

I just have to say after a month's experience on this site. Some if not most members are totally hilarious! Some of their replies sends such ownage on the OP or other members which I couldn't stop laughing about because its just too funny. There are times when I get OWNED and I still find it funny but they were just being direct with me of what they think. No hard feelings though, they're just trying to teach me something. Anyways, if you're reading this and know who I'm talking about...I gotta love ya'll!

OWNED!

The class was laughing when our instructor was reading it out to us. OWNED from changing your ***.

I should've posted it when I had 25k in my account.

I don't really care if they contact me or not. I got someone else on my mind who I'm really interested in even though she doesn't know it. I find it funny when I bag on myself because I can be that much of a dork. Other than that my soon to be ex wife already called me her ex husband anyways, so what does it matter? We're still good friends. LOL! I'm trying to find pics when I was a total fatty comparing to how I am now. LMAO!

Maybe I should post an oolgier pic of myself and revise my profile so chicks don't bother looking at it. LMAO! I'm having too much fun with this.

I've just read everyone's replies...SUCH OWNAGE!

Thats what I'm doing. I'm not gonna even try to date or anything. It finally hit my mind when I got OWNED by this chick.

Wux: Yeah, it does sound funny "Myface"

Thats what I'm looking for but this girl is just way out of my league. She's just everything that I wanted but as far as being connected, its a no go after she told me what she seeks in a guy. I just tell her straight out, "I guess I can't be like that. I don't really like change." And that was it.