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Sun 03/21/10 10:18 AM
building the patio! I've been doing it by myself for the past year when I have the time and money, one paver at a time! My dogs are digging to china.

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Sun 03/21/10 09:56 AM
Best wishes and get well soon. Marysmile2

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Sun 03/21/10 07:34 AM
Edited by mary1230 on Sun 03/21/10 07:35 AM

I used to be a nice guy but wemens kept trying to take advantage of me for my shiny car and tiny ------.


I used to be a nice girl but mens kepp tryin to take advantage of me for my tiny car and shiny boobies!

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Sun 03/21/10 02:33 AM

Dear Mary, I took a girl, her 17 year old son, and her two dogs in two years ago when she was kicked out of her boyfriend's house next door. She had 3 days to get out of there and nowhere to go. I took her in for $300/month including everything. She was about 10 years younger than me. We bonded right away. After several months went by things were really wearing on me. There were times she wouldn't come home for days at a time. I was left cooking for her son and my two children, and groceries alone ate up the $250 she paid me each month. She began to give excuses in order to pay less rent or pay the rent late.

Long story short, I found out she was doing drugs. I immediately had to kick her out. I trusted the wrong person. I felt a great loss but did what was right for my kids and myself. She moved right back in with her boyfriend, but I was left with the mess. She basically used me. She ended up using him, too. She now is all messed up and has lost everything-god knows where she is now.

You will trust again and care about people again. I know it hurts. I was devastated when this happened to me. She was like a sister. Take it one day at a time, and let yourself heal. You can do it. I hope this helps. flowers flowers :heart:

you have described this situation to a t. she hadnt come home for days. I ended up walking and feeding her dog for over a year. when she would come in, the dog wouldnt even go up to her,with me, the husky would go crazy. I think the hardest part for me is that the dog is going to miss my dogs and is an innocent in all of this. the food bills were crazy, everyone smoking and eating all of my food.

to all of the people who have commented: I appreciate what you have said here. In my head I know that you are right, I will not lump everyone together because that would be just ignorant. I will be a friend again, because that is who I am. When I go to sleep at night I know that my conscience is clear. the things that people are saying about me right now, (common acquaintances) are horrible, but their opinions have no value. I will learn my lesson. I have alot to offer. I am a good person. I'll move on.

Youre really good people. thank you. Mary

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Sat 03/20/10 06:32 PM
thank you for your kind words. A friend is very hard to find and when you think you have found one, you give of yourself completely. My heart hurts today. But I'm going to save it for someone who knows that.

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Sat 03/20/10 06:24 PM
I hope that I'm not posting this in the wrong place. Just need to vent please. I met a girl 15 months ago, she was in a bad relationship,had a huskie, was losing her apt., so I offered her a room in my house, $500 a month, meals, cable, gas, electric, included. I also told her she could bring her dog, I have 2 huskies,use the back yard for it, I've bought all the dog food for the past 15 months, took all the dogs to the vet and paid for all the shots. Now I know it sounds like I'm a sucker, but she is only 25, I am almost twice her age, but I didnt have any close girlfriends, and it felt so good to have someone to confide in. My only rule for the house was that my sons and their friends were off limits. It took only a couple of months for her to go after one of my sons friends. 12 mos later, she has had over 9 guys in my house. I told her she had to move out. She says that she's the victim because I threw her out. I feel so stupid, so used. I allowed myself to be in this position. How can I be a friend again to anyone when she took advantage of me? Today I lost what I thought was a friend. Today she lost what she thought was a meal ticket. I have been through much sh_t, this too shall pass. Sometimes it just feels better to write it down. Thanks for letting me vent. Mary

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Fri 03/19/10 07:09 PM
I would be very impressed if you saw your face in your balls! I'd buy that for a dollar lol:laughing:

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Thu 03/18/10 04:58 PM
I just wanted to tell you about this reggae artist, matisyahu. He's from brooklyn.

he is completely amazing. if you like bob marley, then you will love him. practically no one knows about him. my kids turned me on to him. his message is very real, very inspirational. I also want to say dont judge a book by it's cover. you'll understand when you see him. I hope you enjoy it,. have a nice nite. Mary

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WRmBChQjZPs

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Mon 03/15/10 04:24 PM
I'm 45. When I was 20, I was living with my boyfriend, (later my husband)when I came home from work, there were 2 kids sitting on my couch, he said "these are my kids, theyre going to live with us". Needless to say I didnt have the faintest idea on how to be a mother. I learned pretty quickly. I was so naive and young back then. Now I have 5 boys, all grown, moved out, in the army. I did a good job. But my life was very hard. Had he told me when we were dating, would I have stayed? Probably not. But you cant live on couldve's. Better to be honest upfront.

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Sat 03/13/10 12:30 PM

turn on my xbox 360 n watch a movie..n listen to the rain coming down..rains better than snow,dontcha think? :wink:


I am ready for the spring, sick of the snow, although my huskies arent too happy lol.

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Sat 03/13/10 12:29 PM


it's been raining for 2 days in New York, going stir crazy went to early dinner, sirloin steak, baked potato, veggies, mexican fried ice cream (yummy), bout to snuggle up on the couch & watch old movies. what do you do on a day like today?


Mary, I'm in NY-we are just starting to get the rain-it's windy though. You sure have the right idea on how to spend rainy day. I'm going to get a good meal and settle down for a movie myself now-thanks for the tip!! flowerforyou


I just came home from the whitestone bridge, the wind was pushing the car all over. scary. and I just learned how to drive!

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Sat 03/13/10 12:27 PM
you would love the Frick Collection in the city. Magnificent collection of french antique furniture, paintings and sculptures from world renowned artists, a great place to meditate.

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Sat 03/13/10 12:17 PM
it's been raining for 2 days in New York, going stir crazy went to early dinner, sirloin steak, baked potato, veggies, mexican fried ice cream (yummy), bout to snuggle up on the couch & watch old movies. what do you do on a day like today?

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Fri 03/12/10 04:13 PM
It is the sodium in salt that our bodies need to perform the necessary functions, like keeping the fluid in our blood cells that are used to send info to our nerves and muscles, I read in the times today that our bodies can't produce salt naturally so we depend on food to get the amount we need.

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Thu 03/11/10 11:15 AM

"Hey Dad....how about a catch." - Field of Dreams


now, that was definately better than Beaches! excellent tear jerker.

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Thu 03/11/10 07:51 AM
it depends on when he cries....is he crying because he's depressed? is he crying after a watching beaches (bette midler), is he crying after sex lol? which one do I want??? hmmmmmm........

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Thu 03/11/10 05:49 AM
I would like to quit smoking. I quit for 2.5 years and just started back last fall. how stupid of me! I had this cigarette fund that I would put my $ in everyday for cigs, and at the end of the month, I would buy myself something really nice. Now I used the fund to pay for other things since I started again. In New York, cigs are 10.50 a pack.....that should be incentive enough! anyway, back to the drawing board. they say everytime you quit you get closer to permanent. sure hope so....

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Wed 03/10/10 08:59 AM
why is it my profile pic is always from the neck down??? jc, I look like the only uni-boob!!!

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Wed 03/10/10 05:40 AM
Good morning everyone! Happy Hump Day!!! Wednesday! What were you thinking???

Have a great day.

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Tue 03/09/10 03:12 AM




today is a hard day....

Are you sure this thread isn't boner related??? what

Everything is boner-related to you Tribbles.
I bet you could even fantasize about
something as simple as a BBQ..





I'm sorry but that is just wrong............smokin


I am dying! Peed my pants again!! rofl rofl rofl


I think you guys are great! thank you for the laughs. I am much better today. Everyone have a great week.happy