I've had a couple of rough patches and the people on this site have always offered good advice, well wishes, and most of all, friendship. Good people.

In my town, you can speed date on the corner of 42nd st & broadway!

craftsman, black &decker, deWalt and some stuff I havent figured out yet, but I did fix my boiler and I rented some giant saw and cut the main drain pipe in the basement? how'd I do???

well there goes my chances! i just learned to drive last year and my company bought me a brand new car! I just learned where to put the wiper fluid!

Hi: did you check out the ASPCA, or what ever the organization is in your state? they charge 20 bucks for spay/neuter & rabies and all other shots are included. I know they do that here in NY, I am sure your state has a rescue center.

ok, I didnt read all the posts here, i just jumped the gun and wrote to you. however, though the local spca costs so much to adopt, that is true, they do provide the services you need at very low cost prices. Congratulations on rescuing the cat. I've rescued 2 and 3 huskies. Have a great weekend. Mary

Welcome! Good Luck in your search.

Mary

I thought this thread was supposed to be about complaints of dating......ok, i have one, I recently found a guy on a site that I thought was smart, funny, good looking, gave me beautiful compliments, in the middle of our 1st and only chat, I found that he never even looked at my profile, just chose me at random. What is that? Obviously he wanted to chat for different reasons than me. I have to start being more cynical with these jerks. But then that would change who I am.....

all these proposals and they're from women? ! ? just my luck!

Welcome & what the heck do u look like???

Mary

and I actually have an edumacation!

dee da dee!!!

My dear sweet love!!! will you marry me??? please say yes, I have a house, a brand new car, kids are gone, run 5 miles a week, love sex, have my own tool chest and a subscription to Fredericks!

my most memorable was going to the mets world series in 86 and seeing lenny dykstra hit a grand slam in the bottom of the tenth. That was a great time!

Good morning. Have a great day.

mornings are always good! go for a run with that wonderful pup!

I saw this online today. It says it perfectly.....

1. You Get Off: He's confident in bed. He knows what he's doing ... and if he doesn't by then, well, then he's hopeless and you don't have to waste your time trying to teach him.

2. He Knows Cool Stuff You Never Heard Of: Generation gaps can be a good thing culture-wise. He can introduce you to music and movies that are totally awesome classics.

3. He's Super Supportive: He's got a career and is secure in his work life, so he’s totally supportive of your ambitions. And probs full of good advice! Not to mention the quarter-life crisis is kinda like the mid-life one.

4. Someone Has Already "Fixed Him Up": That relationship didn’t work out. And now you can reap the benefits of nice shoes and hand towels in the bathroom.

5. He Doesn't Stay Out Late: He might be a ladies' man, but after a certain age, he's not out on the prowl every night in da club lookin' for a fresh piece. He just wants to hang with you.

6. He Knows Himself: Nobody's perfect, and by now, he understands his main foibles. So, he can even communicate them to you to prevent friction.

7. You're The Pretty One: It's shallow, but it's always nice to feel extra sexy.
8. He Doesn't Want To Be Alone: He's already hit that point when men realize they don't want to be all by themselves. Even if they intend to stay confirmed bachelors, they still want company.

9. Salt N' Pepper Hair: So hot. Sure, not every middle-aged guy has got it, but it certainly ups your chances.

10. No More Going Dutch: There won’t be that awkward pause when the check comes; he'll always take it because a man of his years makes more money. You won't even feel the slightest bit guilty.

11. He Is Going To Be This Rad Forever: Some peeps just lose their lust for life at a certain age, but your dude has still got it! He can not only keep up with your young butt, but he piques your interest. You know for sure that time doesn't slow him down. He's always willing to try new things. He's not going to turn into some couch potato all of a sudden. In another 20 years, he’ll still be l-i-v-i-n'.

Good morning: Just wanted to thank everyone for the uplifting words yesterday. Today is a new day! I wish everyone lots of happiness, health, lottery & hot sex! lol. Have a really great day! Love Mary

I'm a very good listener.

he is beautiful. Where did you get him?