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Thanks great idea !!
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Okay so I start the conversation with a girl with usually "hi wassup" then go on to talk about age & what we both do, after that conversation expires
I always ask "so what do you want to talk about ?" and 99% of the time I get "nothing really, do you have an interesting topic in mind ?" after this whatever I say takes the conversation downhill. Ladies what would you expect to hear from a stranger that you would like. I know that it will vary from person to person,but in general "what do usually 19 yr old girls talk about". Just need conversation starters here. These are the topic's i've tried : Movies, Video Games, Quantum physics (believe it or not she ask for it), Mechanical engineering (It's what i am studying) and finally about My story (ie more about me) if you think the conversation topics are fine then i'll keep trying !! |
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kiss her wherever she wants
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i think i just found HOME...
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Topic:
SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 16
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I'm assuming that most people would join this website only if they were Single (including me)
or greedy... ;) |
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Topic:
what's your fav sweet dish
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title is self explanatory
mine is Dark Chocolate Cake |
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wining
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Topic:
Kiss Or Run - part 10
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on the hand
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guy's it's not that i won't be afraid to move on or anything, i'll try to explain my situation 1 last time
there is a ball dance on the 14th there are like 3 or 4 girls who i can ask out i was just asking on some way's used my people to ask others out like use some humor etc. but i got the point that being natural is okay so i guess i'll be spontaneous. now stop post stuff like be a man and ask her out 
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broad shoulders, square jaw, confident assertive walk and posture, lips, strong legs, straight white smile and of course, abs never hurt hey i have...oh no wait hold on...i got...no no no ..give me a sec..oh i might hmmm nahh forget it 
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Okay thanks everyone for there reply, going to try the straight forward approach suggested by everyone, wish me luck or speedy recovery
 based on the response's i might get You all better be right
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yeah but a girls perspective might just help me point in the right direction, i got no confidence problem's it's just that my natural talk is a bit "geeky" for the other's
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Why is everyone here telling me to man up and ask her go on a date ??
the reason i started this topic was to get some pick up lines for a ball dance on the 14th as you see from the example the first attempt didn't go so well , i have a difficulty conversing in a as you say "cool" way. i think the best i have gotten is the conquer France one
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Say.."hey babay, lets go shake our stuff on the dance floor..mambo, some swing, what's ya in the mood for? 
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Topic:
talking...
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i'm not a expert but give her 2 day's and if she likes you she'll call/text you
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Why not just ask? Is it really that hard? well the main reason is that i don't want to lose out on the friendship. And i did ask her out for the dance. |
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call her back... bring it up again.. that you would really like to go to the dance yourself and was wondering if she would go with you and teach you to dance..  thanks for the idea but alas she is not coming to the dance don't know if my conversation was a factor of influence in that decision. Anyways it's not that i can't move on to others but they are like 25 or 26 girls as compared to 600+ boy's in my college so apparently not so many fish in the sea |
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there is a ball dance on the 14th and it's not like i didn't have the courage to ask someone but this is how it went Me: hi , i heard about the ball dance are you going ? She: ugh no, hey i didn't you say you don't know how to dance Me: yeah i don't but how hard can it be..( i know i should have stopped here ) just follow a series of body movement's corresponding to the beat's of the music in some complex mathematical function. * uncomfortable laughter by her * She: hey i have to go for my materials of science lecture ( thankfully it was true) Later when i called her on her mobile phone Me: so you going to the dance ? She: No actually i'm going back home for the weekend Irrelevant conversation about studies..The End so i see what the problem is but i just don't know how to react in a "non-nerd" way spontaneously, any suggestion's ? I would have just said "Who said anything about dancing? I was just going to spike the punch." Your answer wasn't half bad. I wouldn't say it was a total loss. She's going home for the weekend, so if you're still interested in her, then ask her out on a date, when she gets back. i would ask her out on a date as soon as i get some idea how she feels about me, so was hoping for something between a date and studying together in the library. the problem is if i keep responding in similar fashion i'm bound to get rejected Grow some balls and ask her out on a real date. If you just study together, you will enter the "friend" zone. Rejection sucks, but it's better than that. i have to say i disagree i am in the friend zone and dont want to lose that it's the main reason i'm being cautious |
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there is a ball dance on the 14th and it's not like i didn't have the courage to ask someone but this is how it went Me: hi , i heard about the ball dance are you going ? She: ugh no, hey i didn't you say you don't know how to dance Me: yeah i don't but how hard can it be..( i know i should have stopped here ) just follow a series of body movement's corresponding to the beat's of the music in some complex mathematical function. * uncomfortable laughter by her * She: hey i have to go for my materials of science lecture ( thankfully it was true) Later when i called her on her mobile phone Me: so you going to the dance ? She: No actually i'm going back home for the weekend Irrelevant conversation about studies..The End so i see what the problem is but i just don't know how to react in a "non-nerd" way spontaneously, any suggestion's ? I would have just said "Who said anything about dancing? I was just going to spike the punch." Your answer wasn't half bad. I wouldn't say it was a total loss. She's going home for the weekend, so if you're still interested in her, then ask her out on a date, when she gets back. i would ask her out on a date as soon as i get some idea how she feels about me, so was hoping for something between a date and studying together in the library. the problem is if i keep responding in similar fashion i'm bound to get rejected |
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there is a ball dance on the 14th and it's not like i didn't have the courage to ask someone but this is how it went
Me: hi , i heard about the ball dance are you going ? She: ugh no, hey i didn't you say you don't know how to dance Me: yeah i don't but how hard can it be..( i know i should have stopped here ) just follow a series of body movement's corresponding to the beat's of the music in some complex mathematical function. * uncomfortable laughter by her * She: hey i have to go for my materials of science lecture ( thankfully it was true) Later when i called her on her mobile phone Me: so you going to the dance ? She: No actually i'm going back home for the weekend Irrelevant conversation about studies..The End so i see what the problem is but i just don't know how to react in a "non-nerd" way spontaneously, any suggestion's ? |
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