Thanks great idea !!

Okay so I start the conversation with a girl with usually "hi wassup" then go on to talk about age & what we both do, after that conversation expires

I always ask "so what do you want to talk about ?" and 99% of the time
I get "nothing really, do you have an interesting topic in mind ?" after this whatever I say takes the conversation downhill.

Ladies what would you expect to hear from a stranger that you would like.

I know that it will vary from person to person,but in general "what do usually 19 yr old girls talk about". Just need conversation starters here.

These are the topic's i've tried : Movies, Video Games, Quantum physics (believe it or not she ask for it), Mechanical engineering (It's what i am studying) and finally about My story (ie more about me)

if you think the conversation topics are fine then i'll keep trying !!

kiss her wherever she wants

i think i just found HOME...

I'm assuming that most people would join this website only if they were Single (including me)
or greedy... ;)

title is self explanatory

mine is Dark Chocolate Cake

wining

on the hand

guy's it's not that i won't be afraid to move on or anything, i'll try to explain my situation 1 last time
there is a ball dance on the 14th
there are like 3 or 4 girls who i can ask out
i was just asking on some way's used my people to ask others out like use some humor etc. but i got the point that being natural is okay so i guess i'll be spontaneous.
now stop post stuff like be a man and ask her out

hey i have...oh no wait hold on...i got...no no no ..give me a sec..oh i might hmmm nahh forget it

Okay thanks everyone for there reply, going to try the straight forward approach suggested by everyone, wish me luck or speedy recovery based on the response's i might get

You all better be right

yeah but a girls perspective might just help me point in the right direction, i got no confidence problem's it's just that my natural talk is a bit "geeky" for the other's

Why is everyone here telling me to man up and ask her go on a date ??
the reason i started this topic was to get some pick up lines for a ball dance on the 14th as you see from the example the first attempt didn't go so well , i have a difficulty conversing in a as you say "cool" way.

i think the best i have gotten is the conquer France one

i'm not a expert but give her 2 day's and if she likes you she'll call/text you

well the main reason is that i don't want to lose out on the friendship. And i did ask her out for the dance.

thanks for the idea but alas she is not coming to the dance don't know if my conversation was a factor of influence in that decision. Anyways it's not that i can't move on to others but they are like 25 or 26 girls as compared to 600+ boy's in my college so apparently not so many fish in the sea

i have to say i disagree i am in the friend zone and dont want to lose that it's the main reason i'm being cautious

i would ask her out on a date as soon as i get some idea how she feels about me, so was hoping for something between a date and studying together in the library. the problem is if i keep responding in similar fashion i'm bound to get rejected

there is a ball dance on the 14th and it's not like i didn't have the courage to ask someone but this is how it went
Me: hi , i heard about the ball dance are you going ?
She: ugh no, hey i didn't you say you don't know how to dance
Me: yeah i don't but how hard can it be..( i know i should have stopped here ) just follow a series of body movement's corresponding to the beat's of the music in some complex mathematical function.
* uncomfortable laughter by her *
She: hey i have to go for my materials of science lecture ( thankfully it was true)
Later when i called her on her mobile phone
Me: so you going to the dance ?
She: No actually i'm going back home for the weekend
Irrelevant conversation about studies..The End

so i see what the problem is but i just don't know how to react in a "non-nerd" way spontaneously, any suggestion's ?