Actually, visualization is used all over the world concerning health. And life. IP is right, you need to start seeing life a little more better for yourself. Most people still don't believe that we create all our circumstances, and moods. Say you are in a cranky mood and you walk into a room, with the 3 stooges on. You sit down, grumbling, but if you stay long enough, you're laughing. The problem you were grumbling about, when you look back, has a complete different perspective and you might even solve it. Then you'll wonder why you haven't thought that before. We are and do so ourselves, conditioned. If you always have the same response, you'll always get what you think will happen. Don't you? We all do it, yet if you start changing your mode of thinking...things will start changing for you.
Instead of being upset or laughing at the woman who sent you that, try thinking 'in her mind, she thought she was being helpful'.
If you guys think or believe others are not as they should be, then that is saying reality is not the way it should be. Kind of silly.
Things have come a looonnngg way for both men and women. Until the last 40-50 years..men have had the final so so on everything, including attire for women, including wedding gowns and almost all rituals. Women have come in to themselves, the day will come when men will also; when they let go of fear.

on who, lol, actually you keep saying it, you make it happen...worked so far right?

Poor Lex, you will NEVER meet some one if you keep sending out energy like that.

nice stuff guys, the last 5 pages, love the art..whole thread is great tho!

Don Quixote...nice

Thats alright Atlantis, you can be whoever you want to be. It's nice to have someone be so upfront with a person right off the bat, you know then exactly what would be in store for you for you if you dated them. People who are so quick to point out others faults are usually in denial or feel superior to others so they think they're allowed to. She probally actually thought she was helping you out.

I got the same one! I did write them back though and tell them my name wasn't Jeff....

These are really good, haven't seen most of them before.

tanks???

who me? never.

Actually, it helps greatly if you have a picture. Most won't even bother with people that don't post one, you never know whose on the other side. You've just got here so relax a little, yes people hook up while others are here due to the social aspects of the site. (forums)

Oh nice. But I do think you're on the wrong site.
Good luck with that, water seeks it's own level.

Everyone here has offered you great bits of information. When you ask for people's thoughts, realize that you will receive just that, whether you agree with them or not.
I learned a long time ago that there are 3 sides to every story, yours, theirs and the truth.
As others mentioned, put aside 'your' feelings and go to be happy for him.
You can't change the past but you can amend what might be the future, only wait until they have settled in with their life. If you wait too long tho, you may miss more happiness with him down the road.

I see a little girl walking through the woods...

I just look @ the pics, you guys are great.

Not me.
When Einstein was being interviewed, he was asked about the condition of his desk, which was absolutley piled with papers, and 'stuff'. He calmly replied "If you think that is a mess, you should see what it's like up here" tapping his forehead.
and I concur.

Excepting maybe you and me...right Ruth?

Oh...hi Goof!

That this week is over and all is well.